unTraditional Anniversary Gift Idea

It is tradition to buy anniversary gifts related to a specific material for each year of marriage. This tradition started in medieval Germany and has been adopted by most nations. Sticking to a traditional material can make the gift more meaningful whether for your own anniversary or for another couple…and adding a sexy touch will just be extra meaningful!

Here is a fun list of ideas for each of your anniversaries based on the traditional and modern materials.

First Year Anniversary
Traditional: Paper
Modern: Plastic

Paper:
A sexy first anniversary gift for paper would be a book like Kama Sutra Step By Step that takes you through the traditional art of love making from sensual touching to provocative sexual positions. Getting the set Blow Him and Going Down would be both rewarding and considerate!

Plastic:
Sex toys like BGee to help her discover her G-spot, or BGood that is versatile, or BNaughty to hit the perfect spot will keep the marital bliss going.
Adult DVDs would also keep the fun going. Choose from educational themed DVDs or erotica.

Second Year Anniversary
Traditional: Cotton
Modern: Cotton/Calico

Lingerie with cotton like the Cupcakes Cropped Cami and Short set is both sexy and comfortable. A calico print vibrator like the Temptress or an animal print Wild Cat lingerie set from Betsey Johnson would have her purring!

Third year Anniversary
Traditional: Leather
Modern: Leather

For the third year, Honey has some even racier ideas! Leather Corsets such as the Leather Corset with Purple Ribbon, Leather and Lace Baby doll or Teddy would be stunning. Combine the outfit with Leather Under the Bed Restraints and Floggerella for some light bondage and you will have an anniversary to remember.

Fourth Year Anniversary
Traditional: Fruit/Flowers
Modern: Linen/Silk/Nylon

For a fun take on fruits/flowers you could plan a sensual anniversary evening with your partner starting with a lovely bath sprinkled with the Rose Bath Petals and moving on to a lovely massage with fruit scented Making Love Sensually Flavored Massage Oil in strawberry or kiwi-pineapple. Mix and match your anniversary themes and wear the sexy silk thong with bow with a sexy pair of nylon stockings such as the Sheer Backseam with Lace Top Stockings or the Romantic Lace Body stocking.

Fifth Year Anniversary
Traditional: Wood
Modern: Wood

A creative gift to fit the wood theme would be an adult board game like A Hot Affair that was awarded Adult Board Game of the Year. Or 101 Nights of Great Romance with sealed pages for romantic rendezvous all year long.

Tenth Year Anniversary
Traditional: Tin
Modern: Aluminum

It’s time to splurge a little bit for your tenth anniversary with a luxury toy like Jimmy Jane Little Chroma. Made of beautiful metal with a colorful array of colors and a high quality motor. The One Touch Silver Bullet or Elite 5x Bullet would also be a delightful way to celebrate your tenth anniversary!

Think outside the box for a fun adventure to every anniversary!

Get Inspired by Chocolate

The delicious sweet slightly bitter taste of chocolate is said to be the ultimate love potion. It has even been rumored to be better than sex! So it would be natural to combine the two best things in life this Valentines Day. Chocolate comes in many forms at Honey, this Valentine’s Day discover how you can surprise your partner with chocolate…

Kama Sutra Chocolate Body Paint: Kama Sutra creates one of the most decadently delicious body paints with which to paint your lover and then slowly lick and nibble off. Imagine capping your evening lying comfortably with chocolate body paint, delicious fruits such as strawberries and a bottle of champagne. Feed your partner strawberries covered in chocolate and trace their body with the soft brush dipped in chocolate the path you want your mouth to take. Decadent yes and a complete sensual experience of touch, taste, smell, and visuals to make this Valentine’s unforgettable. The body paint by Kama Sutra is now also available in a Dark Chocolate Raspberry or Caramel so you can delight your senses with three times the fun.

Milk Chocolate Afterglow Massage Candle: Enjoy a sensual evening of erotic massage with the rich scent of milk chocolate delighting your senses. Jimmy Jane’s Afterglow Massage Candle will set the mood with a warm sexy glow, fill the room with a delightful aroma, and best of all it turns into a warm and loving massage oil filled with essential oils that will leave your skin feeling beautiful and soft. The experience of the warm oil and full-bodied scents will give you an unbelievably erotic experience.

Kama Sutra Sweetheart Kit: A heart shaped gift box filled with everything deliciously edible; Kama Sutra Body Paint, Chocolate Body Dust and a Chocolate Massage Crème. Enjoy dessert like never before. Massage, tickle and nibble your way through a decadent night in. The body dust can also be used on your sheets to surround yourself with silky softness and the aphrodisiac aroma of chocolate.

Chocolate Martini Recipe:
-2oz base spirit (choose your favorite light rum, vodka or brandy)
-1.5oz chocolate liqueur
- 1.5oz crème de cacao
-Chocolate syrup to coat the rim of martini / or light chocolate shaving to decorate top
-Coat rim with chocolate syrup; mix ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice and then strain into a martini glass.
Enjoy!

Wicked Pleasures Edible and Warming Chocolate Massage Oil: Traditional massage oil with a warming sensation and the delicious scent and taste of rich chocolate. What more could you ask for from a massage oil? Treat your partner to an all over erotic massage with this slick and slippery oil. The natural ingredients are fantastic for the skin and make this oil taste like it should with minimal aftertaste.

Chocolates Indulge Yourself Couples Kit: Experience a decadent night of hedonistic pleasure with this sexy couples kit. Three different vibrators to satisfy your every desire and a delicious chocolate body spread to make your honey melt.

Hathor Strawberry Chocolate Lubricant: A yummy strawberry chocolate flavored lubricant for your oral play will complete your Valentine’s Day! Made with natural organic ingredients and sweetened with stevia you don’t have to worry about any artificial tastes. And if you weren’t horny enough…this lube also has horny goat weed to help make the fun last all night long.

Get adventurous this Valentines and enjoy chocolate in all its forms!

Happy Valentine’s Day,
Love Honey

Get informed! Sex Toy Material Guide

There are many types of materials used to make sex toys and it can be very overwhelming to try and understand the differences and considerations regarding each type of material. Recently concerns have been raised regarding phthalates and toxins in some materials making it especially troubling for consumers. Honey has decided to provide an informative resource to serve as a reference when choosing your next sex toy.

What are Phthalates? They are chemicals that soften plastics and are used in a wide variety of products from building materials, clothing and many adult toys. Currently the use of phthalates and how it affects our health is widely disputed and debated. What we do know is that phthalates make the soft surface of the sex toy porous; hence using a condom over the toy can help make the toy easier to clean. Some people have mild skin reactions to the use of phthalates so again using a condom over the toy cuts down on irritations as well.

Silicone: This material is very easy to clean and can be disinfected or sterilized as well. Silicone is a popular choice because it is easy to clean, hypoallergenic, non-porous, flexible, phthalate free and it can come in a variety of shapes and colors. It warms up to the body temperature and can retain body heat. This material is also very durable and long lasting. Silicone can be boiled for 5 – 10 minutes to be sterilized (as long as no vibrating unit is attached) and can be put into the dishwasher as well, they also can be easily cleaned with soap and water. Silicone is great for people who have sensitive skin or reactions to other products such as rubber or latex.
When choosing a lubricant to use with your silicone toy, you must make sure it is water based as silicone based can sometimes erode or melt the silicone material. If using a silicone lubricant be sure to put a condom over the toy. Some great silicone toys are the Fun Factory Boss, Lelo Gigi and Slim Jim dildo.

Elastomer: This material is a slightly porous material that is still easy to clean but cannot be disinfected. Elastomer is now being used in sex toys because it is a soft material but completely phthalate free, hypoallergenic and durable. To clean elastomer you simply need to use warm water and soap. Elastomer is a good material if you have sensitivity to rubber and still want a soft toy. Toys such as the Rabbit Habit, Rabbit Pearl and Layaspot are all made of elastomer material.

Silicone with TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber): Added to some silicone toys, TPR is a lightweight, flexible material to help add more flex and give to silicone toys. It is phthalate free, easily washed, pliable and supple to the touch but more porous than silicone without TPR. The Royal Princess uses this material.

Jelly Rubber: This material is a soft, porous material that can not be disinfected. Latex as well as phthalates is often included within the material of these toys, these materials have been associated with some skin irritations. An option to avoid skin contact with the jelly rubber if you suspect sensitivity is to place a condom over the toy. This will also make clean up a breeze. Jelly Rubber is a good material if you desire a softer material or have a limited spending budget. The Slim Jelly is a popular toy made with this material.

Hard Materials (Hard Plastic, Glass, Metal and Ceramic): These materials do not contain phthalates and are non porous, hypoallergenic and easy to clean. These products are durable and have a firm, smooth texture to them. Many new toys are made of hard plastic with a soft velvety coating, which maintains its phthalate and hypoallergenic property. Pyrex, which is a high quality glass product and hard plastics, are shatter resistant, but should you notice a crack in the toy then stop using it as you would not want it to break during use. You can boil the glass toys but do not boil the plastics. Some great glass toys are the Pink Indulgence or Masagi Glass, and some great choices to hard plastic toys are the Inked Vibes, Tulip G or Black Jewel.

G-Spot Orgasms

“The G-spot is not a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma. It is a place in your body…It’s a real, tangible thing, like my breasts and your clitoris, and you can even see it. But for some reason, lots of people seem to think the G-spot is a myth. Or a rumor…No – it’s a real thing, and it makes you come, hard, period. No deep wisdom, soul-searching or goddess worship necessary. But a little knowledge helps.” (The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot Book)

Even with our modern sex education the G-spot has often been misunderstood and thought to be a myth of unreal proportions. We at Honey wish to state that this is untrue and the G-spot is very real and a great way to enhance your sexual experience and keep the orgasms coming.

What is the G-spot?

Around the urethra is a ring of spongy erectile tissue that both men and women have and it is essential for your orgasm pleasures. It is connected to your clitoris and the nerve ending are packed with pleasurable sensations when stimulated.

Where is the G-spot?

Your G-spot is located about 2” inside your body on the upper wall of your vagina towards your belly button. Remember that everyone is created differently so your g-spot could be slightly further or closer than the average 2”. When you become aroused the tissue of the G-spot begins to have a different sensation, it can feel slightly ridged and firmer to the touch and often described in books as being similar to an almond. This is your G-spot, and once you’ve found it you can begin to enjoy a whole variety of new sensations! Some great books for learning more about your G-spot are The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot and Female Ejaculation and the G-spot and if you learn better with visuals the Expert Guide to the G-Spot by Tristan Taormino DVD or Maximizing G-Spot Pleasures DVD are great options.

Stimulating the G-Spot

Stimulating the G-spot is not like stimulating the clitoris, to fully enjoy the sensation of G-spot orgasm you need to press more firmly then you would for clitoral play and that can take some getting used to. Sometime when you are playing with your G-spot you can begin to feel like you need to go to the bathroom, this is not usually the case but to relieve your mind we recommend going to the bathroom before playtime. Begin by getting yourself aroused so the G-spot swells and then gently insert your fingers or a toy, curving upward and pushing firmly. Try stroking firmly with the “come hither” motion. Using firm toys such as the Tulip G, Chubby G or Lelo Gigi are fantastic for G-spot play because they allow you to press more firmly without much effort. Once you have become more familiar with your G-spot you may want to try a toy with a bit more flexibility such as the Fun Factory G-swirl, or Worm Vibrator that will provide you with a softer and more flexible G-spot stimulation.

Play and Experiment

With your G-spot stimulation you may find that you prefer different sensations over others, you may prefer a very firm solid sensation that can be achieved with the Masagi Glass Toy or to have it rhythmically stroked with a swooping sensation with a toy like the Rabbit Habit or Thrusting Hummingbird. You may enjoy having your clitoris stimulated at the same time, which can be achieved with dual action toys like the G-spot Rabbit or Fun Factory Paul and Paulina. Experimenting with different toys and sensations is a great way to learn your body and discover what is most enjoyable to achieving an internal G-spot orgasm for years to come.

Sharing your G-spot

G-spot stimulation does not need to only be a solo exercise, your partner would probably love to join in the fun and they can use their fingers or control a toy to help you achieve orgasmic bliss. Certain positions such as being penetrated by the rear or her on top can also help to achieve maximum G-spot sensation during intercourse. Using sex positions tools such as the Liberator Wedge and Ramp combo can help you to maintain certain G-spot friendly positions with ease. Great options to discovering positions to stimulate the G-spot during intercourse are The Expert Guide to Positions DVD and The Art of Sexual Positions DVD.
A new dual action toy called the We-vibe can be used during intercourse to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously while also providing him with some well-deserved vibration sensation. Sharing this orgasm can help teach your partner more about your body and how you enjoy being touched and caressed.

Female Ejaculation

Many women ejaculate when their muscles contract during a G-spot orgasm. Firstly congratulations, you have found a new avenue of sexual pleasure, secondly do not freak out, this is a different fluid from urine and a completely natural and common occurrence amongst women. If you do not ejaculate there is nothing wrong either, sometimes having an object such as a toy can block the ejaculation from happening and you can do so after it has been removed, and sometimes women do not ejaculate. If you are one that ejaculates, using the Sex Blanket that is completely waterproof but soft and sumptuous, can keep you sheets clean and dry especially if you produce copious amounts of fluids.

Remember there is no right or wrong when exploring your body, what feels right is usually right!

Pegging

There has been a tremendous increase in anal play between straight men and women (also known as pegging) over the eight years Honey has been in business. We are delighted to see how sexually at ease many couples have become. The stigma that one must be gay or anal sex damages ones body has been debunked and we have some tips to share on how to enjoy anal play safely while making the experience even more pleasurable for both partners.

Anal play is a great way to stimulate the prostate (p-spot), which is the male equivalent of the female g-spot. The prostate can be easily stimulated with a well-lubed finger curved towards the belly button two to three inches into the rectum. A man can have an orgasm just by slowly stimulating the prostate or intensify his orgasm by stimulating both the p-spot and the penis. A small vibrating toy or a full dildo preferable with a curve can be an excellent addition. The important thing to remember about anal play is that it is suppose to be fun and pleasurable, so communicating what you like or dislike is key to enjoying yourself. Take your time and go slowly with plenty of foreplay.

Key Points of Enjoyable Anal Play/Pegging:

1. Cleanliness: Good hygiene is important when exploring anal play; be sure to keep your hands clean and your nails trimmed when using fingers to explore. Make sure you have chosen toys that can be easily cleaned and/or sterilized after use and NEVER insert anything that has been in your anus into your vagina or mouth until after it has been cleaned.

2. Communication: Making sure to keep the lines of communication open at all times. From initiating anal play all the way to enjoying it, you want to make sure your partner is comfortable with each step along the way.

3. Relaxation: Anal play can be painful especially if you have not taken the time to prepare yourself and relax into the sensation. Rushing can cause discomfort and can make you or your partner resistant to trying it again, so make sure to take your time and go at a comfortable pace for both you and your partner.

4. Lubrication: ALWAYS USE LUBE. The anus itself does not produce any lubrication and if you try to play with dry skin you can easily hurt the thin skin of the rectum. To help ease the way for your fingers or toys, it is essential to use a good lubricant for a comfortable and enjoyable back door play session. Apply lubricant liberally and don't be afraid to add more during, it will only increase the pleasure. Some great suggestions for anal play are Slippery Stuff water based lubricant. This lube is gel like in texture providing a thicker barrier between the toy/finger and delicate anal tissue. Another good option is a silicone based lubricant because they do not dry out even under water. Try ID Millennium or Jo Silicone based lubricant, but make sure you don't use the silicone lube with a silicone sex toy.

5. Once you've mastered the basics and feel comfortable with anal play you can introduce toys, harnesses, and dildos and so much more into your anal play.

Harnesses: Using a harness allows you to strap a dildo to yourself with comfort and stability. It also allows you the versatility of changing the size of your dildos with interchangeable rings that can accommodate different sizes. The Venus Leather Harness and Vibrating Velvet Corset Harness are both sturdy and allow for different sizes of dildos while still being soft and comfortable.

Dildos: You may prefer to start with a smaller dildo when first venturing into anal play as this can help ease the transition from fingers to toys without being too imposing. The Bend Over Beginner kit provides you with a velvet harness and two different sizes of dildos to transition you from a smaller dildo to larger one and accommodating rings for even larger dildos if you desire. The Fun Factory Bandito and Tiger are flexible silicone dildos with wide bases that can easily fit into harnesses to provide different textures and curves for more variety in sensation. When using a dildo we recommend using one with a slight curve upwards to help stimulate the prostate and fit more naturally with the body.

Double Ended Dildos: The double ended dildo is a great way to experience anal play without the harness getting in the way of skin on skin contact. This type of dildo also provides both partners with simultaneous stimulation. The Fun Factory Share and Tango allow you to insert the bean shaped blunt end into your vagina and you hold it in place with the strength of your kegal muscles. The vaginal end also curves for g-spot stimulation in her. After you have inserted the `bean' shaped end, you are left with the dildo pointed outward and held close to your body so you can enjoy the sensual skin to skin contact during your anal play. These sex toys can also be inserted into a harness when first starting out so that you can strengthen your kegal muscles before trying it on its own. The Tango also has the added benefit of a hole at the base of the toy for inserting a bullet so you get the benefit of vibrations sent down the shaft and into the vaginal end.

Always remember that anal sex is not supposed to hurt. If it is painful, stop and engage in more foreplay or try it again another night. If you are concerned about cleanliness, you can always use an anal douche with warm water 1-2 hours before you engage in anal play.

Educate yourself with wonderful DVDs such as The Better Sex Guide to Anal Pleasure and Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Anal Sex.

Introducing New Honey Boutique in New York!

We are so excited and proud to introduce the new Honey in New York
City! Over two months of hard work designing and renovating has paid
off! From sanding and refinishing every inch of the floor ourselves,
to designing, fabricating, and installing original fixtures, it's been
a great creative project and a labor of love, from start to finish. A
huge Thank You to all the talented people who worked on it. Honey New
York is in the latest greatest neighborhood in NYC - Williamsburg,
Brooklyn. Among the hipsters, party kids, and other beautiful people,
Honey fits right in. Presenting the same great combo of lingerie,
romantic gifts, and sex toys pioneered by the original Honey on the
West coast, Honey New York has been getting a warm welcome. At Honey,
we care about sex and love - and the inspiring individuals and hot
couples we meet everyday do too! Honey New York carries a fabulous
choice of toys, from Jimmy Jane, Vibratex, and Funfactory, to the
newest Je Joue Sasi and Bswish. Our lingerie staples include Betsey
Johnson, Hanky Panky, and Eberjey, and we've also picked out some
international brands, like Mimi Holiday from the UK. Not to mention
Carol Maloney and the locally designed Dirty Dolls. And more to come!
Please visit us if you haven't already!

Exploring Nipple Clamps

Sometimes we can get so caught up with the major erogenous zones that we forget about the small pleasures in life. Nipples are a pleasure zone for both men and women and there are many toys out there specifically designed to pleasure them.

Adding a little pinch to your pleasure can add new heights of sensation and exploration. Nipple clamps such as the beaded nipple clamps, clover clamps or alligator clamps are designed to add an adjustable pinch of pleasure and pain to your bedroom adventures. Clamps such as the Nipplette have a vibrating bullet attached for added sensation against this sensitive zone. These clamps can be used on both men and women and are fun and very erotic to use.

How to Use Nipple Clamps:

Before jumping right into the fun it is a good idea to test the pressure on the clamps. You can do this easily by placing the clamp on the web of skin between the thumb and forefinger. Adjust the pressure to suit your level of sensation.

Make sure to prepare the nipple by getting it erect and firm before putting on the clamp. Tease and stimulate them with your fingers and tongue to get them firm, this is also a fun prelude to the main event so enjoy yourself. Potions and balms designed to stimulate the nipples are great foreplay ideas to get the nipples hard and erect. Ice Queen Nipple Gel, Nipple Nibbler, and Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm are all designed to stimulate the area and deliciously flavored.

Begin by clamping as much skin as possible, pressure on a small area provides a more intense sensation so started with a larger area first and then experiment with a smaller area. Progressing slowly will be more fun and enjoyable. Be careful not to pinch the very tip as this is the most sensitive part of the nipple and can be more uncomfortable than erotic. A note of Caution: When using nipple clamps we recommend not leaving them on for longer than 10 - 15 minutes at a time. Why? Because you are reducing blood flow to the area and constricting the skin, and the rush of blood flow back to the area can be quite uncomfortable the longer you leave on the clamps on.

How to Choose a Nipple Clamp:

Depending on your sensitivity range you will want to make sure to choose the right nipple clamp for you.

Adjustability: Clamps such as the Nipplettes clamps and the Adjustable Wide Alligator clamps have an easily adjustable screw that allows you to make the clamp as tight or as loose as you wish. This is good if you are new to clamps or have a low tolerance for pain. The tweezer style clamps have a ring around the two prongs of the nipple clamp which you can move up and down for a tighter or looser sensation, this is good if you still want adjustability but without the screw. The pressure on the Clover Clamps cannot be adjusted and their pressure is medium to hard. They are comfortable on the skin but should be only be used if you are more tolerant to pain and wish for a slightly rougher sensation.