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Hello,
Darlings!
If
you’re like most of us, your libido probably
rises with the temperature. And that makes summer
the perfect time to crank up the heat with your
partner. Surprise your sweetie with a romantic
sunset picnic, a sexy skinny dip, or wicked weekend
away. Summer’s short, so what are you waiting
for? Get on out there and enjoy every steamy second.
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Ok,
guys. If you reaped the, um, benefits from last month’s
article about fabulous
fellatio, it’s time to reciprocate. And if
you could use a little brush up on your own oral techniques,
no worries. In this month’s Honey Buzz, we’ll
give you the lowdown on going down on her.
When
you think pink, what do you think of?
Sticky, sugary cotton candy? Tart lemonade? Cheeks flushed
from an afternoon at the beach – or in the boudoir?
While thinking pink might conjure up images of sweetness
and innocence, this delicate shade has a hot, seductive
alter ego. Don’t believe me? Keep reading.
And
finally, great news! This month we head back to our
permanent digs at 3448 Cambie Street. The exact date’s
not yet confirmed, but if you drop by our temporary
location at 3357 Cambie for your Honey fix and we’re
not there, never fear. Just cross Cambie and head one
block south.
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If
you fall somewhere between bumbling and clueless when
it comes to going down on your gal, take heart. You’re
not alone. And even if you consider yourself a cunnilingus
connoisseur, trust us -- there’s always room for
a new move or two. Here are some oral tips and techniques
that’ll leave her begging for more. |
- Headed
south? Take the scenic route. Tease her by gently
kissing, stroking and nibbling her belly, inner thighs
and hips before arriving at your ultimate destination.
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Treat your sweetie like a delicious ice cream cone
– use wide, soft licks with a flat tongue to
stimulate her. Don’t just lick up and down over
and over like you’re painting a fence. Add variety
by increasing or decreasing pressure, changing positions
and using your lips, breath, teeth and hands in tandem
with your tongue.
- Start
slowly and gradually build intensity, focusing more
on her pleasure button to push her towards orgasm.
Remember, though, that the clitoris has more nerve
endings than the entire head of the penis. Be gentle.
- Let
your fingers do the walking. As she becomes more aroused,
insert two fingers and curl them up towards your tongue
to stimulate her G-spot.
- Is
she a take-charge kind of gal? Let her hop on top
where she can control the pressure and area of contact.
She’s adventurous, too? Let her tie you to the
bed before she climbs aboard.
- Double
her pleasure by inserting a G-spot
vibrator or a butt
plug for an added thrill. Add some flavoured
lube (for your benefit) or stimulating
gel for hers.
- How
do you know if she’s digging what you’re
doing? After all, it’s not like you can stop
to ask, right? Is she becoming more lubricated? You’re
on the right track. Raising her hips to meet your
mouth? Also a good sign. Flushed? Breathing faster?
Great, keep going. Clutching the sheets? Excellent
work. Take note of what she likes and repeat it.
- When
you feel her body start to tense up, she’s probably
about to orgasm. Whatever you’re doing, DON’T
STOP! Most women respond to rhythmic stimulation and
this is not the time to slow down or switch things
up.
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Tickled
Pink The Colour of Love -- and Lust
Is
there a more lovable or adorable hue than pink? It
conveys playfulness and tenderness and symbolizes
love, softness and security. It calms, relaxes and
reduces tension. But while it’s easy to dismiss
pink as pure and demure, pink has a sinfully seductive
side as well. Here, some devilishly divine pink treats:
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- Honey's
Butterfly Kisses Honeycomb Gift Box is perfect
for a sweet and spicy weekend away. Includes a butterfly
vibrator whose large fluttering wings will wrap you
in ecstasy, Strawberry
Nipple Nibbler, a Pillow
Pak of Strawberry Lube and the Hugs
& Kisses Coupon Book.
- Don’t
let the girly colour fool you – the pink Pocket
Rocket packs a powerful punch. And it’s
purse-sized, for gals on the go.
- A
new take on a classic, the pink Velvet
Touch Egg is silky to the touch, offers multiple
speeds and is waterproof. Combine it with the Rabbit
Sleeve, for soft fluttering ears that offer a
titillating sensation.
- Helllloooo,
kitty! The purrrfect accessories for a sex kitten?
A cute Kitty
Crop and a not-so-innocent pink Blindfold.
- Prefer
your lovemaking wet and wild? Release the pink bubbles
from the Bathtub
Love Game into the pool or hot tub and follow
the instructions – some naughty, some nice.
For a more sensual treat, turn out the lights –
each piece glows in the dark.
- If
the Pink
Pearl Dual Vibe looks familiar, you probably recognize
it from Sex and the City. The pearls in the shaft
tumble to stimulate nerve endings while the rabbit
is kept busy creating good vibrations on the clitoris.
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Q. My sex drive seems to be much higher
than my partner’s. Are there ways we can increase my lover’s
libido, or should I just learn to get by with less loving?
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A.
Ahh! Remember when romance first blooms? Sex is frenzied
and fabulous and you just can’t get enough of each
other. Once you settle into a relationship, however, differences
in sex drives can become more apparent. The best way to
deal with your lover’s lackluster libido? |
- First,
relax. Don’t take it personally. Don’t try to
find blame. It’s Biology 101 – different people
have different sex drives.
- Don’t
create a bigger libido gap with a communications gap. Want
more sex? Talk to your lover about your concerns and work
together to come up with strategies that leave you both
satisfied.
- Got
a higher sex drive than your sweetie? Limit the time you
spend fantasizing, viewing erotic materials or doing things
that get your motor running. Are you the lower-libido partner?
Indulging yourself with fantasies, reading some erotica,
or taking a steamy, scented bubble bath before bed can help
rev up your engine.
- Feeling
frisky but your lover’s not? A gentle and relaxing
massage or foot rub or some affectionate, no-pressure snuggling
may help get your partner in the mood.
- Even
if one of you isn’t up for full-blown sex, nothing
says you can’t pleasure your partner. In a healthy
relationship, occasionally having sex simply for your partner’s
enjoyment is an act of love. (Of course, once you get into
it, don’t be surprised if you start to feel the vibe
as well.)
- Self-pleasuring
is a great way to let off steam between lovemaking sessions.
Use masturbation as a way to equalize the sexual pressure
between partners with a libido gap.
- What’s
the most important rule in relationships? Compromise. Split
the difference in the libido gap. Have sex more often some
weeks, less often in others.
If you’ve
tried these suggestions and still can’t get no satisfaction,
there may be a medical cause -- such as a hormonal imbalance
– behind your partner’s lack of interest. Make
an appointment together to see your family doctor and discuss
the situation.
Got
a question for the folks at Honey Buzz? Email
us, and we’ll do our best to answer it in a future
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