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Hello,
darlings!
I
have fantastic news! At long last, we’re
back in our old digs at 3448 Cambie Street, just
next door to the Park Theatre. ‘Course there’s
nothing old about our space – it’s
been freshly renovated and we’ve filled
it with an even greater selection of tantalizing
toys,
gorgeous gifts
and luscious lingerie
for you and your lover. |
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Want
to make your sweetheart feel totally loved and cared
for? Treat him or her to an erotic massage. Not only
does massage offer a range of health benefits for the
mind and body, but it’s an amazingly sensual experience.
And truth be told, giving an erotic massage is nearly
as much fun as receiving one! In this month’s
Honey Buzz, we’ll give you some ideas for sending
your lover into sheer ecstasy with just the tender touch
of your fingertips.
Also this month, do you toss out your old toys and start
fresh when you start a new relationship? Or can you
just give ‘em a good cleaning and get naked with
a new lover? It’s a question a lot of our clients
ask. You won’t find the answer in any Emily Post
etiquette guide, but we’ll give you the straight
goods.
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Whether
as the opening act or the evening’s main entertainment,
an erotic massage arouses your lover’s senses,
stimulates desire and helps create a deeper connection
between the two of you. |
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Create
a Sensual Mood Dim
the lights, burn some scented candles
or incense, put your favourite CD on repeat play
and for heaven’s sake, turn off the phones.
The key to a good massage? Warmth. Turn the heat
up, drape your partner with towels warmed in the
dryer and have him or her take a steamy, scented
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Communication
is Key It sounds silly, we know, but avoid
unwelcome surprises by making sure your partner knows
the difference between traditional and erotic massage!
Ask if he or she is ticklish or has any injuries you
should avoid. During the massage, occasionally ask whether
the pressure is firm enough, too firm, etc.
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Oil, Cream or Lotion - What’s Your Pleasure?
A little massage
oil or lotion reduces friction and lets you
massage longer without getting tired. Pour a tablespoon
of massage oil, lotion or cream into your hands,
warm it for a minute or two, then apply it to your
lover’s bare skin. Keep the bottle nearby
in case you need to reapply. |
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Since
oil is not latex-safe, you may want to switch to
a water-based
sexual lubricant when you reach the genitals.
This way, if the massage heats up into something
more, you can slip on a condom without concern.
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Ready
to Begin?Pick a space – floor, table,
bed – that lets you reach all sides of your lover’s
body. Have your honey lay face down and naked. To enhance
skin-to-skin contact, you should be nude also. Sounds
good already, right?
Massage
his or her back, legs and feet using basic massage principles:
keep hands in constant contact with your partner, repeat
strokes several times using slow, rhythmic motions,
proceed from long, gliding strokes to deeper ones, and
practice symmetry (e.g. don’t do one leg but not
the other).
Ask
your lover to turn over. Provide an eye pillow or blindfold
to arouse his or her sensations and enhance every touch.
Massage the feet and legs, tease the genitals and inner
thighs with brushing strokes, then move on to the abdomen,
arms, hands, face and scalp before returning to the
pleasure centre.
Keeping an eye on your partner’s arousal level,
gradually ramp up from relaxing body rub to a more stimulating
and intense sexual experience.
- For
her: When she’s lying on her back,
place a well-lubed hand on her vulva, fingers pointing
down. Push down so that you rub her clitoris on the
way. Alternate hands and repeat. Have you watched
her masturbate? If so, recreate her movements. Try
different pressure levels and movements and watch
her reaction to see what works best.
- For
him: Hold his testicles gently in one well-lubed
hand. Form an “0” around the penis with
the other hand and slide it up and down his shaft.
Or stroke the shaft with one hand while moving the
other hand in a twisting motion on the head.
To
end the massage, cocoon your lover in a blanket or sheet
and let him or her rest for a while.
Vary
the Sensations Who
says you can only massage with your hands? Apply a little
flavoured massage oil or lubricant to sensitive parts
and lick it off. Or use a feather or fingertip vibe
to tease and tantalize.
Nervous
about your technique? Don’t be. Your love and
enthusiasm for pleasing your partner trumps professional
ability any day! |
Erotic
Massage Toolkit
Must-haves
for perfecting your erotic massage technique?
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Massage
oil, cream or lotion? Whatever your choice, Honey’s
got you covered.
- Calm
your lover’s body and mind with light, non-greasy
Kama
Sutra Massage Oil. Choose from Healing Blend (soothing
pine and juniper), Serenity (relaxing lavender and
citrus), Soaring Spirit (cool mint), Pleasure Garden
(rose and jasmine) or Sweet Almond.
- Tasty
without being sticky, Edible
Naked Oils are flavoured naturally using only
the finest food-grade ingredients. Choose from a variety
of scrumptious flavors including caramel, cinnamon,
creamsicle, kiwi-pineapple and raspberry.
- Sweeten
your touch with light and silky Kama
Sutra Oils of Love. These greaseless, stainless
and edible massage oils create a warming sensation
when you rub them and heat up when you blow on them.
Choose from cinnamon & spice, cherry almond, raspberry
kiss, chocolate mint, vanilla crème, tangerine
and cream, tropical mango or strawberry champagne.
- Prefer
a massage cream rather than oil? Divinely scented
and edible Kama
Sutra Massage Cream is available in four irresistible
flavours. Or slather your lover in sweet sensations
with edible Body
Butter Massage Cream. Available in three taste-tempting
flavours, this delightful body cream incorporates
skin-softening moisturizers and a rich, buttery texture.
- Let
body heat slowly melt the uber-sensual Massage
Bar as you caress your lover’s curves and
muscles. The bar feels absolutely heavenly on bare
skin and you’ll both enjoy the scrumptious scent
and all natural ingredients.
- Turn
up the heat on your next massage with multipurpose
Body
Candles. They provide romantic light and sensual
fragrance to the room, but drip the wax onto your
lover’s skin and watch what happens next. The
wax transforms into a glistening oil and penetrating
body lotion. Candle, scent and massage oil in one
product? Divine!
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Q. I’ve just begun a relationship
with a new lover. Must I toss all my sex toys and start over?
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A.
From a hygiene perspective, it’s never a good idea
to share sex toys. If you have toys (e.g. vibrators) that
have only ever been used on you, by all means keep them.
Toys that you’ve shared with – or used on
or in – your former partner? Those may be a different
matter. |
Silicone,
acrylic or glass toys without mechanical parts can be sanitized
by immersing them in boiling water for four minutes. Other
toys, however, cannot be properly sanitized and therefore
should be replaced. (TIP: if you’re planning to share
toys, practice safe sex by using a fresh condom on them every
time.)
More intangible
than safety or hygiene, however, are your partner’s
feelings. Some new lovers get that you had a sex life before
them and, provided toys have been properly sanitized, probably
won’t have an issue with them. Other people may be hurt
or insulted if you use “used” toys in your sex
play with them.
Bottom
line? If you’ve used proper hygiene principles and toys
have properly sanitized, you don’t necessarily need
to replace them. In the end, however, it’s not worth
jeopardizing a new relationship over. Communicate with your
new lover and let his or her feelings be your guide.
Got
a question for the folks at Honey Buzz? Email
us, and we’ll do our best to answer it in a future
issue.
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