Finding the G Spot

Pleasuring Women with G-spot Toys
At Honey Gifts, we aim to educate and please – this month that means taking the mystery out of the G-spot. Just because you or your partner haven’t found it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Figuring out how to hit it with toys is an experiment in fun.

First you gotta find it: The G-spot isn’t as elusive as you may think. It’s about two inches inside the vagina, towards your belly and behind the public bone. Insert a couple well-lubed fingers and stroke them towards your palm in a come hither motion. You may feel like you have to pee when the G-spot is stimulated – you won’t urinate, but you may ejaculate. But first…

Turn it on: Don’t immediately dive in once you’ve located it. Make sure you’re ready beforehand with a little foreplay. Getting aroused will make the G-spot swell with fluid, making it more firm, easier to find and ultimately have an internal G-spot orgasm. Use a vibe held to your clit, your fave sexy movie, your imagination, your partner’s tongue, etc. to get in the mood.

Grab a toy: Frankly, continuing the whole come hither thing can bring on a case of carpal tunnel syndrome just thinking about it. Or you may be cursed with short fingers, leaving your G-spot frustratingly out of reach. A curved toy can be just the trick to reaching it. Personalize your choice. Not everyone is going to be turned on by the same technique. Some options to consider:

• Try a vibrator with a simultaneous clitoral stimulator or use one hand to work your clit while stimulating the G-spot with a vibrator or dildo. Again, external stimulation will make the G-spot swell, making it easier to find and have a G-spot orgasm. The G-Spot Rabbit or Masagi Glass Toy with Bullet attachment are fun possibilities.
  


• The rhythmic pressure of a multi-speed vibe pressed to the G-spot can also do the trick. Today, many vibrators have pulsing and escalating modes, so you can find the best rhythm for you. The Royal Princess is one such toy.



• A twisting or ridged vibrator is the A-one choice for those who enjoy motion. Another option is to experiment with various girths to find the one that suits your taste, from the thin Starlight G-spot to the thick Chubby G.
  


• A glass or stainless steel toy will provide a frictionless and firm touch. An added bonus of glass dildos is they are particularly sensitive to absorbing and maintaining different temperatures for sensations of chill and heat. Try the Glass G with Micro Mini Vibrator for simultaneous internal and external fun. Playing hot and cold takes on a whole new meaning!

Read on for more details on more G-spot vibrators

Bachelorette Party Ideas and Planning

Planning to throw a wild bachelorette party for your best gal pal before the wedding? Just as the best man is expected to create a wild and entertaining "last night of singlehood" for the groom, you may be expected to whip up your own version of this tradition for the blushing bride.

Need ideas for party games, theme or gag gifts? Here’s some ideas to get your creative juices flowing:

• Host a Sex and the City Stagette Party. This is a great theme when you're holding the event in someone's home. On the invitations, instruct guests to dress as their favorite character (you can give out prizes for the best costume, funniest costume, etc.). For a present, give the bride Charlotte's favorite vibrator - the Rabbit Pearl. Drink Cosmos of course, and if you think your crowd would appreciate it, have a whipping cream shooter contest or play the Got Liquor Party Game!


• Cake Anyone? Top the bachelorette’s Pecker Cake off with some sassy Penis Candles.


• Take it off! Instead of going to a dirty strip club, arrange to have a stripper (or strippers) come to your living room or hotel room. If you hire your own personal stripper(s) you won't have to share them with an entire night club full of ladies and the future bride will get all of the attention that she deserves. In addition, if you order your own stripper, you can customize him. Request the stripper to put on the Sweet and Sexy Candy Jock Strap for the bride to bite off!


• Italiano Style. Serve up some X-Rated or Peckeroni Pasta with a creamy sauce for party food.


• Bar Hopping? Plan a bachelorette party game, such as Suck for a Buck – where a bride wears a Sweet and Sexy Candy Bra over a party t-shirt that advertises a suck of the necklace for a dollar.


• Learn How To Strip: Another fun idea is to go to someone's house and take a class in strip dancing. A professional female can come out to your house and teach you the art of pole dancing and lap dancing or you can even use Strip to It-Bump n' Grind DVD and Music CD


• Sex Toy & Erotic Party: A more popular party is where you go to a friend's house and hire a Sex toy party consultant (like Honey Gifts) to come out and show different adult toys as well as go over the art of kama sutra to bring back to your relationship after the party is over!


• Look at Me! This night is the bride’s night so attempt to divert as much attention to her as possible. One way to accomplish this is by making her a costume. It's a popular idea to create a veil accented with condoms and connect it to a sparkly tiara.


• Truth or Dare. Have all the girls come up with light-hearted dares for the bride to accomplish and check off. Things like "Ask for a Sex On The Beach drink at a bar", "Dance with a bald headed man", "Get a guys underwear", "Have a guy do a body shot off of your stomach", "Have the bride yell in a bar 'I am getting married and I may be making the biggest mistake of my life' in front of everyone", and many more! Need help with ideas? bring along the Bachelorette's Party Dice.


• Poker Anyone? Take the bride to a casino for the night and hope she wins some extra dough for the honeymoon. Poker, roulette, slot machines . . . it's all good. Just make sure you've got enough cash if you choose this option. You don't want the bride pawning her engagement ring for cab fare home.


• Blow Job? Serve her some water in the Perfect Head Water Bottle (what a naughty girl giving a blow job!).


• Scavenger Hunt. How about having a bachelorette party scavenger hunt ( find naughty items like condoms, guys phone numbers)


• Make her Blush. Bring all the bachelorette's friends together for a fantastic girls night in. Make extremely girly drinks, tell ridiculously embarrassing stories, and think back to the pre-engagement days. Want a fantastic idea that will be great fun for the future bride? Play “How Well do you know the Bride?” game.

How to use sextoys & vibrators, tips for adult women

The following are the top 10 tips for how to use women’s sex toys & vibrators

1. Use condoms with your adult sex toys- Sex toy dildo, vibrator, or whatever -- put a condom on it! Also, don't switch the toy from butt hole to vagina, or from one person's body to another, until you put a new condom on it. Safe and clean sex will keep your happy and healthy! Use Condoms on a Plain Rubber Vibrator - These toys are notoriously hard to keep clean, and they can get dirty and stay dirty from regular use.
   
   
2. If using lubes with your sex toys – avoid yeast infections. Although it is not proven but some women get yeast infections when using water-based lubricants that have glycerin. Try glycerin free water based lubricants, and all silicone based lubricants are also glycerin free. Glycerine-free lubricants are toy and condom compatible: Check out Slippery Stuff or Hathor Aphrodisia (made with horny goat weed for extra enjoyment). Read more on what lubricant to use...
   
   
3. If you get tired and not as excited with your sex toy/vibrator – You can get bored of your usual sex toy and not be as stimulated. Put it away for a while or bring out a new one and rotate them…bring the spice back…mix it up and you won’t get bored!
   
   
4. Sex toy seems to small and doesn’t excite you anymore? Could be because your PC muscles are realxed and not in shape. Well-toned pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (the muscles beneath the pelvic floor that encircle the vagina) are more responsive, resulting in increased sexual sensation and more intense G-spot orgasms. Give yours a workout with Kegel exercises or try Fun Factory’s Smart Balls.
   
   
5. Find your G-Spot –get more out of your sex toys - New to G-spot stimulation? Start with some hands-on exploration on your own. Insert one or two fingers into your vagina and bend them towards the front wall, applying pressure toward the pubic bone until you feel a small, bean-sized, slightly ridged mass of firm tissue. Feel a pleasant sensation? You’ve hit the spot. Looking for sex toys to hit your G-spot? I recommend the Silicone Starlight G-Spot , Fun Factory G-Spot Worm Vibrator or the Crystalessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator . Read more on surefire ways to hit your G-spot...
   
   
6. Extend your sex toys life- Don't Run It Too Long - with very few exceptions, most vibrators should only be run for 20-30 minutes at a time. Remove the Batteries When Not In Use- Firstly, it prevents you from leaving the vibrator on accidentally, which will burn out the motor. It also reduces the chance of the batteries corroding inside the vibrator, which will usually mean the end of the toy. Read more on the top 5 ways to extend the life of your vibrator ...
   
   
7. Cleaning your sex toys, dildos and vibrators - For most toys you can use Regular soap (anti bacterial hand soap works well) and warm water will clean your toy, as long as you do it every time you play with your toy. We also recommend Safe Suds Toy Cleaner. Read more on how to clean your sex toys, dildos and vibrators...
   
   
8. Hide your sex toys from snoopy cleaning ladies and children – Try a shoe box and leave it under your bed or in the bottom of your closet. Or custom casing - some people have invested in a solution that is similar to a mini treasure chest with a padlock. This solution can be expensive, but if you have very nosy kids and a cleaning lady, this is the perfect solution. Read more on where to hide your sex toys...
   
   
9. Travelling with sex toys? - Traveling with kids or visiting family? Consider sex toys that go incognito, like those that resemble tubes of lipstick, rubber duckies, even pieces of artwork! Flying? Why give inquisitive customs agents something to snicker about? Pack toys in your checked luggage rather than in your carry-on bag. Read more on sex tips for travelling and having a steamy holiday...
   
   
10. Fix your broken vibrators and sex toys – Don’t assume that it has died on you forever…sometimes the spring become flattened and you need to fluff it back up so it reaches the connector of your batteries. So open up your vibrator and gently pull the spring up a little bit. Read more on how to fix your broken vibrators & sex toys...

Tips For Sexy Adult Halloween Parties

For many adults, the sheer joy of dressing up and celebrating October 31 is something they never outgrow. Approximately 85% of adults who celebrate Halloween will dress up for the festivity! This is why Halloween parties are a great thing for ghosts and ghouls both young and old.


Halloween's Origin:
The Celts, 2,000 years ago in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom, and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1. This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. They believed that on Oct 31 the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. So they celebrated Samhain, when it was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. Druids built huge sacred bonfires, gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities. During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other's fortunes. (Source: http://www.history.com/minisites/halloween/viewPage?pageId=713 )

Spice up Halloween - 8 GREAT Ideas!
Halloween is not only for kids, and doesn’t have to be so innocently eerie. Halloween can be very sexy and erotic for adults! Dare to be different? Here are some great ideas and tips to make your Halloween party for adults sexy and exciting!

1) Host a Lust Party
Lustful tidbits – think suspenders and black fishnet stockings, 50s and 60s sex sirens; Marilyn Monroe, Jane Fonda, Brigitte Bardot, garters, blonde wigs, beauty spots, stiletto heels, bustiers, corsets, knee high boots and minis, choker collars, red lipstick and nails, ultra-long cigarette holders, black teddies (the one you wear, not the one you cuddle), Play bunny costume ( or black leotard and fur tail and ears will do it).

2) Have Your Own Fetish & Fantasy Party.
Invite your friends & coworkers over to be a Sexy School Girl, S&M Police Woman, Playbunny, or a Dawn of the Dead Pimp. Crank up some techno tunes on the CD player. Rent some old horror movie DVDs and project them on the wall without sound to give the room atmosphere. Get out the satin blindfold and the furry handcuffs for party games. You could play Spin the Vibrator, Blind Man in the Buff, or Pin the Tail on the blow up doll.

3) Have an Erotic Video Scavenger Hunt
Although being in costume isn’t necessary for the scavenger hunt, it certainly adds some extra humor! Scavenger Hunt is a classic…make it more exciting and exciting for the adults. Imagine the fun of teaming up and going around the house and the neighborhood to try to find the elusive "treasures" on your list.

Here’s some suggestions:

1. Divide guests into teams.
2. Give each team their Halloween theme scavenger hunt list and a video camera to record their hunting efforts.
3. Teams must race around town either by car or on foot and try to find all of the items on the list. Teams must use their video camera to record their findings.
4. The first team to return with recorded proof that they found all of the items wins.
5. Wait until all of the teams have returned and have a group viewing of all of the video taped scavenger hunts.

And some task ideas for the erotic scavanger hunt:

• Go to a graveyard and find a specific name on a tombstone.
• Take a video of you in front of a strip joint.
• Go to a grocery store and find some naughty produce (extra points for cucumbers and zucchinis)
• Go to a bar find out how many brands of beer they serve.
• A "large-size" condom (not used please)
• A dead-battery vibrator
• Go to a video rental store and find out what year the movie Halloween was made.
• Well-read erotica book or Magazine
• Some whipped cream
• A tube of lube
• Find a stranger who will let you wrap them up in toilet paper

4) Play "Skeleton in the Closet."
Don’t know how? Easy! Get everyone together and one by one, each goes into the closet. Once in the closet, they have to tell, out loud, a secret sexual fantasy before they get let out again.

5) Move Over Bobbing for Apples!
Let’s spice it up a notch. The Sexy costume contest keeps people coming back year after year, but why not change the contest? Have an Erotic Body Tattoo Contest and then allow your guests to lick it off each other after! Match up in pairs and use your creative side to apply tattoos with a Body Talk Chocolate tatoo Set. Hmmn, what will the winners get? Maybe a vibrating disposable cock ring or some flavored lube pillow packs?

6) If Weather Permits Outdoors, Try "Blood Wrestling".
Who Like mud wrestling, but I fill a kiddy pool with corn syrup and red food coloring. Be sure to offer soap, and a place to hose off privately. Great event if you have a vampire theme.

7) Tell a Scary Erotic Story.
Dim the lights and start telling a scary story to your guests (find a good one in a book or on the Internet, even better if it’s erotic!). When you get to spooky parts, you start speaking in a whisper and then Bam! You pull out and turn on your vibrator, Hitachi wand, or similar sex toy and touch the people near you with it. Of course, they’ll scream and say, "Stop! Don’t!" but you and I know they won’t really mean it.

8) Don’t like partying in a group atmosphere, want something quiet and sexy?
But still want to celebrate Halloween with your favorite costume and goblin? No problem. Just have a Party for Two. Oh, the fun you can have with just an intimate gathering. Put on a Sexy Halloween Costume, light some romantic candles (maybe try body candles and use them for the massage later!) and don't forget to bring out the furry handcuffs. Why not start the night with a romantic Halloween dinner? Serve black bean soup in small hollowed-out pumpkins. Use a pastry bag to top each bowl with a ghost-shaped dollop of sour cream just before serving.

Honey Gifts in Vancouver, BC, has a range of sexy costumes for Halloween or anytime of the year for sexy role-playing.

Ten Types of Orgasms Women Can Have:

Did you know that there are ten types of orgasms women can have?

Here's a breif summary of each one, also are suggestions that can help you with each one. If you'd like to read more on Orgasms , how to have them, give them and keep them coming? I strongly recommend Lou Paget’s Book “The Big O” - it is a great book that debunks myths, explains the physical & mental side of orgasms, the male and female orgasm, how-to suggestions, sex and spirit.

1. Clitoral orgasm – Most common, and for most the strongest orgasm. A clitoral orgasm occurs when the clitoris is stimulated to orgasm; most women need some form of clitoral stimulation to orgasm. The nerve system involved is the pudendal nerve system, which comprised of highly sensitive nerve fibres. The clitoris glans is the only visible part of a woman’s clitoris. The most popular toys for clitoral orgasms are vibrators. Textured products like shaft sleeve also work well to stimulate her clitoris. (Want some help? try the Pocket Rocket)
2. Vaginal and cervical – The essential truth about vaginal/cervical orgasms is that they are not as precise as the other locations. The vaginal orgasms involves the barrel of the vagina as well as the cervix (the mouth of the uterus) and may involve even the uterus itself. There is a bearing-down effect and the vaginal opening becomes more relaxed. At the point of orgasm, it sometimes happens that the penis (or any other object used for stimulation) is pushed out by the strength fo these contractions. (Want some help? try the Dual Rabbit Pearl Vibrator )
3. G-spot and AFE (anterior fornix erotic) zone – The G-spot is an area approxiamately the size of a dime, located about two-thirds the length of your middle finger inside the vaginal entrance, above the pubic bone felt through the front wall (tummy side). When stimulated, the G-spot can enlarge to the size of a quarter. (Want some help? try the Chubby G Vibrator )
4. Urethral (U-spot) – Like the clitoris, stimulating the urethra is also very pleasurable for some women, which makes sense since the urethra is surrounded on three sides by the clitoris and is located between the clitoral glans and the vaginal entry. (Want some help? Try the Lipstick Vibrator )
5. Breast/nipple – breast and nipple orgasms are apparently much more common that you might think. (Want some help? Try the Ice Queen Nipple Gel )
6. Mouth – Some women experience a mouth orgasm through kissing or while giving oral sex to a man. Other women describe the sensation as a whole body orgasm accompanied by uterine and vaginal contractions. (Want some help? Try the Nipple Nibbler - flavored lip action)
7. Anal – Anal play is the new frontier , male and females are asking more questions about anal sex, as more people are experimenting and finding it adds spice and often a lot of sexual pleasure. Because the PC muscles encircle the anus, when it contracts during an orgasm, you can also feel it through vaginal and urethal orgasmic contractions in women and urethral and anal in men. (Want some help? Try the Butt Plug)
8. Blended/Fusion – Is when more than one area is stimulated at the same time. For example the clitoris and the G-spot have two separate nerve systems and gives you more broader sensation.
9. Zone – This is much more individualistic because it occurs in various parts of people’s bodies that are rarely associated with stimulation to orgasm. For Example some have experienced orgasms from having their necks licked or their fingers sucked. (Want some help? Try the Flavored Edible Massage Oil )
10. Fantasy – A fantasy orgasm is the ability to orgasm by fantasy alone – with no genital stimulation. Only a chosen few who can have this orgasm. A lab report documented that the body’s physiological response to an imagery-induced orgasm was no different than one induced by physical stimulation (same heart rate, increase in blood pressure, pupil diameter, and pain threshold). (Want some help? Try fantasy role playing lingerie )

Want to learn more about Orgasms, how to have them, give them and keep them coming? I strongly recommend Lou Paget’s Book “The Big O” - it is a great book that debunks myths, explains the physical & mental side of orgasms, the male and female orgasm, how-to suggestions, sex and spirit.

Surefire Ways to Hit the G Spot

Ready to launch your own G-spot expedition? Here are some tips, techniques and toys to help you locate and enjoy this divine piece of real estate.

• While some women enjoy stimulating the G-spot with their fingers, others prefer the ‘filled up’ feeling of a vibrator. G-spot vibrators are specially curved or shaped to stimulate your personal pleasure spot.
  
• Some Womens favourites include the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator, Fun Factory’s Gigolo and G-Spot Worm, Ultime and Jolie from Natural Contours and the Glass G-Spot with Micro Mini Vibe.
  
• It’s the definitive guide to G-spot pleasure and a must-have for true G-spot aficionados. The G-Spot from Good Vibrations Guides includes information about finding the G-spot, talking to your partner about G-spot stimulation, facts and myths about female ejaculation and more.
  
• Well-toned pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (the muscles beneath the pelvic floor that encircle the vagina) are more responsive, resulting in increased sexual sensation and more intense G-spot orgasms. Give yours a workout with Kegel exercises or try Fun Factory’s Smart Balls.
  
• Looking for a fun way to introduce G-spot stimulation to your partner? Pick up Honey’s Hit the Spot Gift Box, which includes The G-Spot guide from Good Vibrations, the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator and three pillow-paks of lube all for $39.99. Even better, it comes fully wrapped for easy holiday gift giving.

G spot 101

Pleasure Hunt
Named for German physician Ernst Grafenberg, who first discovered it, the G-spot is located a couple of inches inside the entrance to the vagina, above the pubic bone on the front of the vaginal wall.

New to G-spot stimulation? Start with some hands-on exploration on your own. Insert one or two fingers into your vagina and bend them towards the front wall, applying pressure toward the pubic bone until you feel a small, bean-sized, slightly ridged mass of firm tissue. Feel a pleasant sensation? You’ve hit the spot.

Now What?
Delicate caresses and in-and-out movements? Forget ‘em. The G-spot responds best to firm pressure and quick, rubbing strokes. For the multi-taskers in the group, try stimulating the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously. Yowza! Ready to let your partner in on the party? The best sex positions for G-spot stimulation are female superior (facing away from your partner) or doggy style.

The Big OOOOH!
Ok, you say, but what does it feel like? The truth is, no two women respond to G-spot stimulation in the same way. Some gals find it pleasant but hardly earth shattering. Others find it downright uncomfortable. And yes, it’s true, some women experience intense sensations and orgasms that register on the Richter scale.

Finding and understanding your G-spot takes patience, practice and a little play. So relax, check your Type A tendencies at the door and enjoy the ride.

Looking for sex toys to hit your G-spot? I recommend the Silicone Starlight G-Spot , Fun Factory G-Spot Worm Vibrator or the Crystalessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator .

Also bundled up for you is the Hit the Spot Gift Box

Sex tips travelling for a steamy holiday

Jetting off for a dream vacation or just sneaking off for a quick weekend getaway? Here are some tips for traveling with toys and suggestions for a steamy holiday…

• Why give inquisitive customs agents something to snicker about? Pack toys in your checked luggage rather than in your carry-on bag.
• Whether you stow toys in your luggage or bring them on board for a little in-flight entertainment, remove the batteries while they’re not in use.
• It’s your personal life – keep it that way with non-staining lubes and massage oils. At best, stained linens are embarrassing. At worst, they’re costly, if you have to replace the B&B's 600-thread-count sheets.
• Traveling with kids or visiting family? Consider sex toys that go incognito, like those that resemble tubes of lipstick, rubber duckies, even pieces of artwork!
• You’re on a deserted, sun-drenched beach. There’s no one around for miles. Before you indulge that sex-on-the-beach fantasy, a quick reality check. Spread out a large towel – a blanket’s even better – to keep intrusive grains of sand out of delicate places.
• Sexperts may advise against underwater penetration, but that doesn’t mean an end to your sex-in-the-sea fantasies. Pleasure your partner orally (make it a game – who can hold their breath the longest?) or tuck a waterproof toy in your beach tote.
• Too hot to sleep? Pop an ice cube in your mouth before, er, you-know-what. Your partner will love this refreshing and surprising treat.

How to Fix Your Broken Vibrators and Sex Toys

Imagine this....you have your mind set on sex and a little horny, no one is home but yourself. You slip into sexy lingerie, grab your toy box from under the bed or the closet and happily fondle your best friend (maybe it's your Rabbit Pearl (the one that was mentioned on Sex and the City), Fun Factory Gigolo or even your Laya Spot Vibrator) and finally you are prepared and climb in between the sheets. Your in the "mood" and mentally ready to reach the big "O" and unexpectantly your vibrator doesn't turn on...what the %&^%#, how disappointing!

I really think that there is no correlation to the amount of attention we give our sex toys and their life span. Also, I have found sometimes that my cheapest toy has outlasted my more expensive toys....not sure what I do differently or why this happens?

There are some ways to bring your inexpensive but much beloved sex vibe back to life. Here are some tips on fixing common problems with battery powered sex toys and vibrators:

1) I know everyone's first reasoning is "awe... the batteries have konked out on me" , but it is not always true... this would be my first reaction and hopefully I have extra ones in my drawer...as nothing kills the mood as to run to the local supermarket to get new ones!

2) Fix the spring - sometimes the spring become flattened and you need to fluff it back up so it reaches the connector of your batteries. So open up your vibrator and gently pull the spring up a little bit.

3) Make sure the connector and spring aren't blocked by anything (ie for some vibrators there will be a piece of paper rolled up in the shaft to muff the noice of your batteries when vibrating) You can take the piece of paper out or even replace it with a stiffer peice of newer paper).

If all else fails, it's definately time to give your old friend a funeral and go shopping for a new one....maybe something different (hmmn maybe my next one will be the Sinnflut Waterproof rechargeable!)

Cleaning your Sex toys, dildos and Vibrators

For most toys you can use Regular soap (anti bacterial hand soap works well) and warm water will clean your toy, as long as you do it every time you play with your toy. We also recommend Safe Suds Toy Cleaner.

Below we have some guidelines to follow, depending on the what kind material your sex toys are.

A good tip for all type of toys is to use condoms at all times for 100% cleanliness. Especially if you swap between the anal and vaginal area or if you share your toys.

Silicone
Silicone sex toys ( Fun Factory G-Spot Worm Vibrator or the Dual Rabbit Vibrator ) are the easiest to clean and the most sterile as they are not porous. You can run silicone dildos through the dishwasher or in boiling water. (Note: don't ever submerge toys in water that are electric or battery powered) You can even bleach your silicone toy in a 10 per cent solution. Make sure you have dried your toys before you put it away.

Jelly & Rubber
Porous toys like jelly ( Slim Jelly Fantasy Vibrator or Jelly Anal Beads ) and rubber (more poruos than jelly) ( like the Clone-a-Willy ) are much harder to sterilize so they should be used with a condom, which I'd prefer to do anyways! Also a good practice is to replace your more porous toys every 6-8 months.

Note: if you have Cyberskin toys, you'll have to clean them, pat them dry and powder them which I find way to messy) and I also heard that some baby powders or talcum powders as talc has been linked to cervical cancer...not good...so an alternate would be to use something more natural like corn starch.

Metal
As with silicone, metal toys (G-Spot Mini Waterproof Vibrator ) is a hardy beast and can be disinfected, boiled and made to face assorted forms of abuse in the name of cleanliness – but always make sure to dry it properly.

Plastic
Plastic Toys (like Velvet Touch Vibrators or the Pleasure Commander Bullet Vibrator ) only need a gentle rub with a cotton wool ball soaked in alcohol is the best cleaning solution for plastic, though rinse your toy afterwards so the alcohol doesn't come into contact with your precious parts.

Leather
Treat your leather toy with all the love and cleanly kindness you'd show a vintage leather jacket. Rub it down regularly but gently with a damp rag.

Where to hide your sex toys

Where to hide your sex toys?

It is a common question that many people have asked themselves when they have brought their new toys home...

Here's a few suggestions:

1. Try it in your nightstand - by far this is the number one choice and the easiest to reach when you are in the mood. If you have any nosy children or a mother-in-law that helps you clean up the house, this may not be the idea spot for you...so read on.
2. Try a shoe box and leave it under your bed or in the bottom of your closet
3. Gift Boxes - I have had some customers purchase a Honey Gift Box set and kept their gift box for their sex toy storage! what a nifty idea!
4. Between the matress is also an option - if you have expensive toys that you are worried will break - make sure you put the toys by the head area so it will be safe with less weight on it....I have had no issues and personally like this hiding spot.
5. Custom Casing - some people have invested in a solution that is similar to a mini treasure chest with a padlock. This solution can be expensive, but if you have very nosy kids and a cleaning lady, this is the perfect solution.
6. Larger Tuberware Containers - this is my second best spot....(my favorite one is under the mattress ) and my back-ups toys(my whole stash) are in my larger tuberware container (It's Opaque- not see through), I have my container under my bed or hidden in my closet.

iBuzz Music Activated Sex Toy

Wonder why some many people look so happy with their iPods?

It could very well be, because they enjoy their music or they have their iPod connected to the iBuzz!

If you thought your iPod was simply a techie gadget to get music out of cyberspace and into your earholes, think again. It is now a girl's best friend, courtesy of iBuzz ( A musical Orgasm Machine)- a cunning little sex toy with a "music-activated vibrating bullet [which] stimulates you in time with your favourite music". Selling like hot cakes, apparently; which might explain why the commuters on public transportation look a sight happier this month.

read more about the iBuzz (iPod) music sex toy vibrator

sexual fatique and tips to revive foreplay

If your sex life is stuck in a rut, start again from scratch. Break your sexual fatigue by throwing out all your preconceptions, banishing bad bedroom habits and learning how to make love again. Talk about it, play with it, experiment with sex to find out what you now like, as opposed to what made you tick when you first got together. And keep the passion alive by adding in new excitements and sexual surprises that may seem a bit wild but will get your juices flowing.

Here’s some tips to get that foreplay back:

• Look at foreplay in a different way than you had before, it really doesn’t have to be serious. Maybe break the ice by playing a fun adult game like Poker for Lovers or even tie up your lover with a set of furry handcuffs.
• Swap dirty dreams. Ask him to say out loud his sexual fantasy and then you say the next sentence. Move the story on one sentence at a time - and as you get to the physical bits, act out what you're describing. Need some ideas, try Fore Playing Cards.
• Now take it in turns to blindfold each other with a silk brocade blindfold for, perhaps, fifteen minutes. During that time, the one who isn't blindfolded surprises the other, perhaps by feeding them, touching them, licking them. Try using a sensual body feather or some Body Licks Skin Candy. No nasty shocks though - make it all gentle and loving.
• Cuddled up close, then masturbate in front of each other. This'll not only be a turn on - it'll also teach both of you about what you really like. If you feel shy, do it in the dark, with your hand over his as he plays, or his over yours as you do. This way reduces potential embarrassment, but you still learn about each other. If you are not shy, take it another step further get a Fuzuoku Finger Vibe!

Sexy Valentines Bath or Hot Tub for two?

Turn the bath into a romantic sexy getaway for two on Valentines. Here's some great suggestions to think about on making the special day bubbly and very erotic!

When your loved one get's home from work (you left early to prepare of course!), drop a path of rose petals from the front door into the bathroom or towards the hot tub...this will set the mood for sure!

Light a few candles and dim the lights. Some of my girlfriends favorites are the body candles, which can be used as body oil as well. Body Candles have a fragranced combination of waxes and oils designed for erotic massage. The body candle burns like a typical aromatic candle, creating a mood and filling the air with enticing scents. It drips and pours over your skin like a regular wax candle leaving sensations of warmth.

Drop an exotic scoop of Treasures of the Sea in your bath, which will transport it into the shimmering turquoise waters of the ocean. Try any kind of sensual bath salts (not sleepy lavendar though) maybe something like Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea.

Are you the Naughty or the Nice girl? It doesn't matter when you can choose from two fun vibrator designs.

For the Naughty girl. There's Red Devil Duckie who is a good duck gone bad! This devil is dressed for mischief and powered up for fun. Costumed in a flowing red cape and cute little horns, this duckie is perfect for the bath, pool or spa. Designed to make your first shared bath especially invigorating!

For the Nice girl. About half the size of the Red Devil Duckie, I Rub My Duckie is perfectly sized for travel. Exceptionally quiet, it offers amazingly strong vibration. With its innocent eyes and traditional rubber duck body, it is the most discreet massager/vibrator available. Just press down on duckie's back and relax as powerful waves of vibration soothe away the stresses and tensions of daily life.

Splish splash, have some fun and sex on valentines!

Where is the G Spot?

Sexinfo101 website states: If your partner is lying on her back, then her Grafenberg Area, commonly known as the G Spot, is located roughly 1.5" inside her vagina on the upper wall. The most ultimate orgasms come from a woman having her G Spot stimulated. This area inside the vagina typically has a different texture; ridged (not as smooth) as the rest of her vagina, and when aroused feels spongy. A G Spot orgasm is often associated with the mystical legend of female ejaculation and 15-30 minutes of a euphoric sensation where she is in complete bliss... Don't expect much from her during this time, she is in heaven.

Here's some of the favorite G-Spot Vibrators:

Natural Contours Ultime - A mid ranged priced vibrator. This unique sky blue massager is the first of its kind. The 'U' shape delivers strong vibrations on both ends, allowing it to simultaneously provide G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Three-speed design.

Fun Factory G-Spot Worm - These cute little playmates are perfectly curved to zone in on your G-Spot! Made of silicone, the highest quaity, softest material available. Hypoallergenic, non-porous and retains body heat. Extremely quiet motor, flexible and soft with variable speed dial.

G-spot Rabbit Vibrator - The rabbit dual vibrator/dildo has gotten even more creative by adding a g-spot curve.

Crystalessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator - A less expensive G-Spot vibrator. Variable speed vibrator curved for G-spot stimulation. This waterproof vibe comes in pink.

When Vibrators Were Available at Sears

A great article was brought to my attention written in the Canadian University Press by Denise Brunsdon. The article talks about the great invention of the vibrator. What struck me was the availability of such products at an institution such as Sears and Roebuck in 1910. How did we lose such mainstream acceptance of the vibrator? The article goes on to explain: "As the porn idustry began to explore and depict the bounderies of vibrator use, the object quickly developed a negative social stigma and that persists, in some circles, to this day. Apparently, only sex-crazed nymphos, not wholesome soccer moms, would dare to become sexually empowered."
It is ironic how we can regress in women's sexual health especially when so much around us is sexualized. If only we could be as progressive as Sears in 1910!

Karyee

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