Music Can Electrify You Sexually

Music is a powerful aphrodisiac. Music has the ability to heighten any emotion we are feeling or put you in a completely different mood.

Think of when you come home after a long day at work. You often feel as if you don’t have an ounce of energy left. You turn on some music and you feel instantly energized. Another example would be during an exercise routine. Running on a treadmill can make twenty minutes feel like two hours yet when you turn on some music you instantly feel more power and bounce in your step. This is because through music our bodies release a natural feel good chemical called endorphins.
Take the power of music to the bedroom and you will see your sex life take on a whole new experience.

Be careful the type of music you play, the wrong tunes can make your partner feel sleepy or even sad. Not the type of mood that would lead to a sensuous night of love making! Some CDs mixed specifically for romance are the Exotica series. Chocotasy, Loveberry, Bananaism, and Asiamint. And each CD conveniently comes with four flavored condoms!

Finding the right music is very important. You don’t want to play the cliché love songs especially if they may remind your partner of their previous lover. Find something new or mix a CD with music you think you can both “get down” to. Upbeat and energetic would be best.

You also want to make sure the volume is high enough to get under the skin. To get both bodies grooving. Imagine the night club scene compared to a lounge. In a night club you feel to go wild and gyrate your hips. In a lounge the sounds are lighter and more soothing. You feel to just sit back and relax.

Combine the beat with a music activated sex toy device like the Ohmidbod or IBuzz and you will surely move your love making to the next level. Set up your MP3 (does not need to be an IPod) with the same music and plug the music activated sex toy to it. The toy will vibrate to the beat of the music! As you turn up the volume the vibrations on the sex toy also get stronger. To make sure there are no wires to get in the way slip it into the Ohmibod Garter and it will never get in the way during lovemaking and keep both partners hands free.

The IBuzz is a small bullet for super external clitoral stimulation. The Ohmibod Straight can also be used for internal as well as external stimulation with vibrating and pulsing modes. And now there is the Ohmibod G-Spot to hit that sweet spot and leave her with lasting memories! Whatever your pleasure, toys can be an exciting addition in the bedroom and they function on their own without being connected to a music player.

Keep the tunes fresh and new. There won’t be any associations with a particular song, just a brand new experience for the ears and body.

Music can help your partner feel free and lose their inhibitions. They may feel freer to express themselves vocally during sex which in turn can have an effect on their whole body expression during sex. Music is often a forgotten ingredient in the recipe for a fantastic sexual experience so next time you get plan to get your groove on with your partner make sure music is part of it!

How To Choose A Sexual Lubricant

Choosing the right lubricant can greatly enhance your sexual pleasure whether with a partner or for use on a sex toy. It decreases the friction and creates a slippery entry for your partner or toy. When choosing the right lubricant for you it can get overwhelming, this guide will help you choose the perfect sexual lubricant for you your toys and partner to use.

Specialty Lubes for Women. Lubricants designed just for women are generally very gentle and glycerin free. This helps to prevent the possibility of yeast infections in those with very sensitive skin. Some fantastic lubes for women are the Pink Lubricants, as well as the JO Agape.

Silicone Based Lubricants. If you like to have sex in the shower but find that the water washes away your lubricant then silicone is the one for you. This lube stays slippery until you wash it off with soap and water, no need to reapply, perfect for playtime in the bathtub. Some fun silicone lubricants to try are the ID Millennium or the Pink Silicone. Silicone lubricants should not be used with silicone toys; this can slowly erode the toy’s silicone exterior.

Flavored Lubricant. Flavored lubricants are the perfect choice for oral sex. They smell and taste delicious, while making it easier to perform. Some fun tastes to try are the O’My Flavors such as Melon or Pina Colada, JO flavors such as Strawberry or Tangerine, Hathor’s flavors such as Chocolate Strawberry or Hazelnut Caramel, and ID’s fun flavors such as Bubblegum or Mint.

Warming Lubricants. To add some heat to your sex play, try using a warming lubricant. This lubricant heats up against the skin providing a fun heated tingling sensation. Some fun lubes to try are the JO Warming, ID Warming or Pink Warming.

Textures: Lubricants have a variety of textures to think about. Whether it be smooth and watery or a thick gel you should choose the right lubricant for the play at hand. Thicker textures such as Slippery Stuff are fantastic for anal play. The thicker solution coats the body and stays for longer. Thinner lubricants such as O’my Natural or JO H2O are fantastic for sex play with your partner or with a toy.

Glycerin Free. Glycerin is a type of complex sugar, and found in most lubricants. Specialty lubricants especially for women are glycerin free. This is helpful for women with recurring yeast infection or severe sensitivity.

Water Based. Water based lubricants are among the most popular lubricants. Water based is safe for all sex toys and is very easy to clean.

Using a lubricant is a sure way to enhance your sexual play and fun, and with the varieties available you will be sure to find just the right one for you and your partner. Enjoy!

Finding the G Spot

Pleasuring Women with G-spot Toys
At Honey Gifts, we aim to educate and please – this month that means taking the mystery out of the G-spot. Just because you or your partner haven’t found it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Figuring out how to hit it with toys is an experiment in fun.

First you gotta find it: The G-spot isn’t as elusive as you may think. It’s about two inches inside the vagina, towards your belly and behind the public bone. Insert a couple well-lubed fingers and stroke them towards your palm in a come hither motion. You may feel like you have to pee when the G-spot is stimulated – you won’t urinate, but you may ejaculate. But first…

Turn it on: Don’t immediately dive in once you’ve located it. Make sure you’re ready beforehand with a little foreplay. Getting aroused will make the G-spot swell with fluid, making it more firm, easier to find and ultimately have an internal G-spot orgasm. Use a vibe held to your clit, your fave sexy movie, your imagination, your partner’s tongue, etc. to get in the mood.

Grab a toy: Frankly, continuing the whole come hither thing can bring on a case of carpal tunnel syndrome just thinking about it. Or you may be cursed with short fingers, leaving your G-spot frustratingly out of reach. A curved toy can be just the trick to reaching it. Personalize your choice. Not everyone is going to be turned on by the same technique. Some options to consider:

• Try a vibrator with a simultaneous clitoral stimulator or use one hand to work your clit while stimulating the G-spot with a vibrator or dildo. Again, external stimulation will make the G-spot swell, making it easier to find and have a G-spot orgasm. The G-Spot Rabbit or Masagi Glass Toy with Bullet attachment are fun possibilities.
  


• The rhythmic pressure of a multi-speed vibe pressed to the G-spot can also do the trick. Today, many vibrators have pulsing and escalating modes, so you can find the best rhythm for you. The Royal Princess is one such toy.



• A twisting or ridged vibrator is the A-one choice for those who enjoy motion. Another option is to experiment with various girths to find the one that suits your taste, from the thin Starlight G-spot to the thick Chubby G.
  


• A glass or stainless steel toy will provide a frictionless and firm touch. An added bonus of glass dildos is they are particularly sensitive to absorbing and maintaining different temperatures for sensations of chill and heat. Try the Glass G with Micro Mini Vibrator for simultaneous internal and external fun. Playing hot and cold takes on a whole new meaning!

Read on for more details on more G-spot vibrators

Advice on Prolonging Sexual Activity

Question: My boyfriend tends to get to the finish line much faster than me. What can help him prolong and/or for me to climax faster?

Answer: That is a common question we get at Honey! You will notice products for men tend to help them prolong and the opposite for women...they aim to help women reach orgasm faster. We are not sure why our biology is so different but simultaneous orgasms don't tend to be the norm for most couples.

Here are four things you can try:

1. Controlling the muscles with exercise and different breathing techniques. The exercises aid in controlling premature ejaculation as well as increasing sexual stamina. This is the basis for many tantric sex techniques so picking up a book or DVD (The Tantric Guide To Better Sex DVD) and practicing the exercises will help.
   


2. Applying a gel such as Kama Sutra Pleasure Gel Original or a spray such as Stud 100 on his penis. These products decrease the sensitivity for him hence helping him prolong. Both these items are safe and developed for this problem specifically.
   


3. Put on a cock ring. This can be slid on around the base of the penis but they function the most effectively when secured around both the scrotum and penis. Cock rings are designed to restrict the blood from flowing out of the penis, which can prolong an erection as well as create a firmer and slightly larger penis (this is a temporary result! The penis will not get larger with continuous use of a ring).
   


4. To reach orgasm faster for a women, she can stimulate her clitoris manually during intercourse, use a small external vibrator like the Layaspot which has a great curve that forms around the women's pelvis and clitoris, or a gel like Clitoral Stimulating Gel to increase the blood flow and circulation to the area.

Have a question or looking for advice? email us at: info@honeygifts.com and it may make it on the next blog!

Ten Types of Orgasms Women Can Have:

Did you know that there are ten types of orgasms women can have?

Here's a breif summary of each one, also are suggestions that can help you with each one. If you'd like to read more on Orgasms , how to have them, give them and keep them coming? I strongly recommend Lou Paget’s Book “The Big O” - it is a great book that debunks myths, explains the physical & mental side of orgasms, the male and female orgasm, how-to suggestions, sex and spirit.

1. Clitoral orgasm – Most common, and for most the strongest orgasm. A clitoral orgasm occurs when the clitoris is stimulated to orgasm; most women need some form of clitoral stimulation to orgasm. The nerve system involved is the pudendal nerve system, which comprised of highly sensitive nerve fibres. The clitoris glans is the only visible part of a woman’s clitoris. The most popular toys for clitoral orgasms are vibrators. Textured products like shaft sleeve also work well to stimulate her clitoris. (Want some help? try the Pocket Rocket)
2. Vaginal and cervical – The essential truth about vaginal/cervical orgasms is that they are not as precise as the other locations. The vaginal orgasms involves the barrel of the vagina as well as the cervix (the mouth of the uterus) and may involve even the uterus itself. There is a bearing-down effect and the vaginal opening becomes more relaxed. At the point of orgasm, it sometimes happens that the penis (or any other object used for stimulation) is pushed out by the strength fo these contractions. (Want some help? try the Dual Rabbit Pearl Vibrator )
3. G-spot and AFE (anterior fornix erotic) zone – The G-spot is an area approxiamately the size of a dime, located about two-thirds the length of your middle finger inside the vaginal entrance, above the pubic bone felt through the front wall (tummy side). When stimulated, the G-spot can enlarge to the size of a quarter. (Want some help? try the Chubby G Vibrator )
4. Urethral (U-spot) – Like the clitoris, stimulating the urethra is also very pleasurable for some women, which makes sense since the urethra is surrounded on three sides by the clitoris and is located between the clitoral glans and the vaginal entry. (Want some help? Try the Lipstick Vibrator )
5. Breast/nipple – breast and nipple orgasms are apparently much more common that you might think. (Want some help? Try the Ice Queen Nipple Gel )
6. Mouth – Some women experience a mouth orgasm through kissing or while giving oral sex to a man. Other women describe the sensation as a whole body orgasm accompanied by uterine and vaginal contractions. (Want some help? Try the Nipple Nibbler - flavored lip action)
7. Anal – Anal play is the new frontier , male and females are asking more questions about anal sex, as more people are experimenting and finding it adds spice and often a lot of sexual pleasure. Because the PC muscles encircle the anus, when it contracts during an orgasm, you can also feel it through vaginal and urethal orgasmic contractions in women and urethral and anal in men. (Want some help? Try the Butt Plug)
8. Blended/Fusion – Is when more than one area is stimulated at the same time. For example the clitoris and the G-spot have two separate nerve systems and gives you more broader sensation.
9. Zone – This is much more individualistic because it occurs in various parts of people’s bodies that are rarely associated with stimulation to orgasm. For Example some have experienced orgasms from having their necks licked or their fingers sucked. (Want some help? Try the Flavored Edible Massage Oil )
10. Fantasy – A fantasy orgasm is the ability to orgasm by fantasy alone – with no genital stimulation. Only a chosen few who can have this orgasm. A lab report documented that the body’s physiological response to an imagery-induced orgasm was no different than one induced by physical stimulation (same heart rate, increase in blood pressure, pupil diameter, and pain threshold). (Want some help? Try fantasy role playing lingerie )

Want to learn more about Orgasms, how to have them, give them and keep them coming? I strongly recommend Lou Paget’s Book “The Big O” - it is a great book that debunks myths, explains the physical & mental side of orgasms, the male and female orgasm, how-to suggestions, sex and spirit.

Surefire Ways to Hit the G Spot

Ready to launch your own G-spot expedition? Here are some tips, techniques and toys to help you locate and enjoy this divine piece of real estate.

• While some women enjoy stimulating the G-spot with their fingers, others prefer the ‘filled up’ feeling of a vibrator. G-spot vibrators are specially curved or shaped to stimulate your personal pleasure spot.
  
• Some Womens favourites include the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator, Fun Factory’s Gigolo and G-Spot Worm, Ultime and Jolie from Natural Contours and the Glass G-Spot with Micro Mini Vibe.
  
• It’s the definitive guide to G-spot pleasure and a must-have for true G-spot aficionados. The G-Spot from Good Vibrations Guides includes information about finding the G-spot, talking to your partner about G-spot stimulation, facts and myths about female ejaculation and more.
  
• Well-toned pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (the muscles beneath the pelvic floor that encircle the vagina) are more responsive, resulting in increased sexual sensation and more intense G-spot orgasms. Give yours a workout with Kegel exercises or try Fun Factory’s Smart Balls.
  
• Looking for a fun way to introduce G-spot stimulation to your partner? Pick up Honey’s Hit the Spot Gift Box, which includes The G-Spot guide from Good Vibrations, the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator and three pillow-paks of lube all for $39.99. Even better, it comes fully wrapped for easy holiday gift giving.

No Fail G-spot Technique from Honey: Vancouvers Upscale Sex Shop

Most women have experienced clitoral orgasms but many have yet to discover the G-Spot Orgasm. We have many books covering the topic but one very popular instructional book called "Life's TOO Short for TANTRIC SEX' has a great concise technique. This book has '50 Shortcuts to Sexual Ecstasy' which are very easy to read and allows you to practice a new technique immediately.
Follow these instructions for what the author, Kate Taylor refers to as 'The No-Fail G-Spot Technique'

"If you've never felt your G-spot before, boy are you in for a treat. It's the sexiest spot for a woman, and holds the key to multiple orgasms. Want som of that? Then here's the first step on the way to what will become a beautiful friendship.
Lie on your back with your knees bent up and your feet planted flat on the bed. With one hand (or favorite vibe!), start massaging yaour clitoris in your favorite way. Do this for long enough to get you aroused and lubricated (but not so long that you lose control completely). When you're ready, reach inside your vagina with your other hand. Use one finger at first, and curl it back toward your stomach in a kind of beckoning motion. In this postion, about tow inches up inside you, you'll feel a patch of skin different to the rest-smoother and firmer. That's your G-spot. Rub it in gentle, circular motions, Don't go crazy, or the fire department will be around. Continue massaging your clitoris as you go, and let the sensations build.
You might feel the urge to urinate. Don't panic! And don't stop. It's usual when you're stimulating your G-spot. You won't pee, but you will enjoy one of the strongest orgasms you've ever known.
Have fun. And when it's all over, it will be time to do it again..."

That's right, have fun!
...cuz life is too short not to!
karyee

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