Sexy Costumes for Bedroom Role-Playing

Role playing has long been a part of our sex games and fantasies; it allows us the freedom and liberation of being someone else for a few hours to play out the fantasies and try out the persona of the role you are playing. Three of the most popular fantasy costumes include:

Naughty School Girl: The cute and flouncy plaid skirt, pigtails, white button down top and white knee high stockings. The fantasy usually includes a teacher who needs to discipline the naughty school girl. This fantasy is popular because it allows the teacher to be in control and for the student to give up control. Over the years at our retail store we have had customers question the meaning behind the school girl fantasy. A fantasy played out between two adults is just that- a fantasy come true! It is about dominance and submissiveness. And of course Britney Spears probably made it even more popular! Check out some the cute School Girl, and Private School Girl costumes. Combine this fantasy with accessories like the Naughty Ruler.

Naughty Nurse: The Naughty Nurse is still one of the top fantasy costumes! We all know nurses don’t go to work wearing anything that even slightly resembles any of the sexy nurse costumes but that won’t stop this classic fantasy. This scenario usually involves the nurse attending to the patients every sexual whim to bring them back to ‘health’. The nurse in this situation can be the one in control with the ‘sex prescription’ to sexually satisfy the patient or she can give orders for the patient to sexually satisfy her. And of course this costume can also be used for the doctor and nurse fantasy! There are plenty of sexy nurse costumes to choose from, check out the Naughty Nurse, Night Nurse, Vinyl Nurse, Day Nurse, and the Darque Nurse. Accessories are also key to completing a role-playing fantasy. Complete the outfit with Naughty Nurse Opaque thigh highs, leather crop, Jo Flavored Lubricant and the Roughneck Realistic Vibrator.

French Maid: We are not sure why this fantasy came about…except if a stranger comes into a room with practically just a bed and dressed in a sexy outfit with fishnets, a sexual fantasy is sure to arise! At Honey we carry two sexy French maid costumes, the Upstairs Maid and the Chamber Maid. And don’t forget the accessories to complete the outfit like the Fishnet Thigh High Stay-ups and the Pleasure Feather!

There are many role-playing costumes to have fun with like the Policewomen, Little Bo Peep, Pussy Cat, Fire Women, Cheerleader, Prisoner of Love, Sweet Fairy, Geisha Girl, Sexy Mountie Girl … etc. Take a look at all the Sexy Costumes!

Some General Guidelines for Sex Games and Role-play:

1. Agree to the basics of the fantasies rules; for example, if using bondage or spanking in your game agree to how far you wish the fantasy to play out. I.e.: if you wish to see marks or no marks etc.

2. Designate your roles, this helps make the role playing more realistic as you will know which role you are playing.

3. Have a “safe word”. A word you both know and understand to absolutely mean STOP! Choose a word that is not easy misunderstood or misheard, some examples are “Roses” or “Peanut Butter.” These words should tell your partner that it is time to stop.

Have fun and indulge in as much play as you can with your partner! Your bedroom should not only be a place of sleep but an adult play zone. As they say…couples that play together stay together!

Music Can Electrify You Sexually

Music is a powerful aphrodisiac. Music has the ability to heighten any emotion we are feeling or put you in a completely different mood.

Think of when you come home after a long day at work. You often feel as if you don’t have an ounce of energy left. You turn on some music and you feel instantly energized. Another example would be during an exercise routine. Running on a treadmill can make twenty minutes feel like two hours yet when you turn on some music you instantly feel more power and bounce in your step. This is because through music our bodies release a natural feel good chemical called endorphins.
Take the power of music to the bedroom and you will see your sex life take on a whole new experience.

Be careful the type of music you play, the wrong tunes can make your partner feel sleepy or even sad. Not the type of mood that would lead to a sensuous night of love making! Some CDs mixed specifically for romance are the Exotica series. Chocotasy, Loveberry, Bananaism, and Asiamint. And each CD conveniently comes with four flavored condoms!

Finding the right music is very important. You don’t want to play the cliché love songs especially if they may remind your partner of their previous lover. Find something new or mix a CD with music you think you can both “get down” to. Upbeat and energetic would be best.

You also want to make sure the volume is high enough to get under the skin. To get both bodies grooving. Imagine the night club scene compared to a lounge. In a night club you feel to go wild and gyrate your hips. In a lounge the sounds are lighter and more soothing. You feel to just sit back and relax.

Combine the beat with a music activated sex toy device like the Ohmidbod or IBuzz and you will surely move your love making to the next level. Set up your MP3 (does not need to be an IPod) with the same music and plug the music activated sex toy to it. The toy will vibrate to the beat of the music! As you turn up the volume the vibrations on the sex toy also get stronger. To make sure there are no wires to get in the way slip it into the Ohmibod Garter and it will never get in the way during lovemaking and keep both partners hands free.

The IBuzz is a small bullet for super external clitoral stimulation. The Ohmibod Straight can also be used for internal as well as external stimulation with vibrating and pulsing modes. And now there is the Ohmibod G-Spot to hit that sweet spot and leave her with lasting memories! Whatever your pleasure, toys can be an exciting addition in the bedroom and they function on their own without being connected to a music player.

Keep the tunes fresh and new. There won’t be any associations with a particular song, just a brand new experience for the ears and body.

Music can help your partner feel free and lose their inhibitions. They may feel freer to express themselves vocally during sex which in turn can have an effect on their whole body expression during sex. Music is often a forgotten ingredient in the recipe for a fantastic sexual experience so next time you get plan to get your groove on with your partner make sure music is part of it!

A Sexy Easter Pleasure Hunt

Celebrating the Easter season with chocolates and rabbits is always fun, but this year why not try something a little more daring with your partner for the Easter weekend. A fun way to spice things up is by sending your partner off on a sexy pleasure hunt, with you as the grand prize!

You can make your hunt as simple or complex as you wish, but here are some fun tips and tricks to make the wait worth the rewards.

1) To get your partner following your trail try taking some sexy photos of yourself using a digital or Polaroid camera. You could start off tame and show each photo with a little less clothing and a naughty pose, be adventurous and make a combination of naughty, risqué and sexy poses to lead them along the way.

2) Start off by putting your tamest picture someplace easy to find. Be creative and put the picture in a box of Easter chocolates or candies, and maybe a hint or clue as to what you wish them to do or where you will be.

3) Create a path throughout your home with each picture becoming racier; leave a few sexy treats like the furry cuffs, or Belgian Chocolate Body Paint along the way to spark some sensual ideas.

4) For yourself as the grand finale you had best take a good sip of wine and set yourself up in your sexiest duds. Whether you choose from racy lingerie or your birthday suit and a pair of heels, you should feel sexy and empowered!

5) Now here comes the fun part: you’re all sexy and fine and you’ve got your partner looking for you in anticipation, but how do you want to be found? Slinky in the bed with a feast of delights beside you? Or already restrained with the under the bed restraint system and ready for them to make a meal of you with the deserts you’ve left along the way. However you desire your treasure hunt to end from being tied up in bed to having a fun bath together with some passion bath salts you know that this will be a pleasure hunt you both will never forget.

If doing the full Easter hunt is too difficult due to little children running wild, perhaps a mini hunt is the way to go. Slip a sexy note or picture into your partner’s pocket during the morning and even a couple more throughout the day. This provides some stimulating anticipation for a fun night ahead. Slip them a designated time with the last sexy note and then be sure to have the little ones off to bed or with a sitter so that you can set yourself up as an Easter treat.

Erotic Movies For Couples

The brisk chill in the air, rain, sleet and hail are precluding the wonder of the winter months. With the end of day light savings the nights creep up sooner and we must take shelter in the comfort of fuzzy covers and body heat. So what better way to spend those cozy nights snuggled together than to watch a movie?

Statistics have shown that it’s no longer men who monopolize visual stimulation. In a recent study it has been shown that 75% of couples are now enjoying erotic videos to spice things up. Allowing you to possibly re-enact you favorite parts or just enjoy the show! With the coming of the chills we’ve brought in a fun new selection of sexy pornography videos to heat up the blankets and warm your toes.

If it is your first time entering the world of erotic movies, we recommend going for the classics. With Jenna Jameson is the Masseuse you have the original and the new version, its two videos in one! It shows us the fun and exciting life of a masseuse as she reveals her favorite games to play with clients. To really set yourself up for a sensual evening we recommend breaking out your own massages oils, candles and open minds. Watch the video first or join along, just as long as you have fun and heat things up! We recommend using Kama sutra oil of love massage oil; it is edible and warms to the skin to help keep the chill at bay.

Another great classic video is Debbie Does Dallas East vs West. A young cheerleading captain and her squad in a fantastic erotic video, need we say more? To make the evening more realistic you could dress up in the private school girl costume just for him see what the evening has in store for you.

If your ready for something a little more raw and are ready to ramp things up a notch we recommend watching Chemistry or Jenna Love Pain. These two videos are sexy and take you to a whole new world, whether you want to try it or just feel content to watch, you’ll be sure to open new doors of sensual adventure. If you feel the desire for some video props we recommend the Luscious Sex blanket and Floggerella Leather Whips to make the evening a surprise event.

If you’re feeling a little devilish we recommend The New Devil in Miss Jones. The lovely virgin is enticed by the Devil played by Jenna Jameson, now Miss Jones must submit to the Devil’s every whim and desire. Enjoy this movie just as a show or pull up some submission techniques of your own with the Devilish Weekend Kit. Take turns being the devil and enjoy a sexy weekend away.

If none of these erotic videos have caught your fancy or imagination, then perhaps a little education fun will be of service to you. With fun new titles like the Expert Guide to Anal Sex, or the Expert Guide to Oral Sex, you and your partner can heat up the sheets while learning a little something new.

So to start the season off right go ahead and explore your sensual boundaries using videos and props to guide you along or spark your imagination. Heat the sheets and spend the season cozy in bed, as there is no better way to spend the holidays.

Bachelorette Party Ideas and Planning

Planning to throw a wild bachelorette party for your best gal pal before the wedding? Just as the best man is expected to create a wild and entertaining "last night of singlehood" for the groom, you may be expected to whip up your own version of this tradition for the blushing bride.

Need ideas for party games, theme or gag gifts? Here’s some ideas to get your creative juices flowing:

• Host a Sex and the City Stagette Party. This is a great theme when you're holding the event in someone's home. On the invitations, instruct guests to dress as their favorite character (you can give out prizes for the best costume, funniest costume, etc.). For a present, give the bride Charlotte's favorite vibrator - the Rabbit Pearl. Drink Cosmos of course, and if you think your crowd would appreciate it, have a whipping cream shooter contest or play the Got Liquor Party Game!


• Cake Anyone? Top the bachelorette’s Pecker Cake off with some sassy Penis Candles.


• Take it off! Instead of going to a dirty strip club, arrange to have a stripper (or strippers) come to your living room or hotel room. If you hire your own personal stripper(s) you won't have to share them with an entire night club full of ladies and the future bride will get all of the attention that she deserves. In addition, if you order your own stripper, you can customize him. Request the stripper to put on the Sweet and Sexy Candy Jock Strap for the bride to bite off!


• Italiano Style. Serve up some X-Rated or Peckeroni Pasta with a creamy sauce for party food.


• Bar Hopping? Plan a bachelorette party game, such as Suck for a Buck – where a bride wears a Sweet and Sexy Candy Bra over a party t-shirt that advertises a suck of the necklace for a dollar.


• Learn How To Strip: Another fun idea is to go to someone's house and take a class in strip dancing. A professional female can come out to your house and teach you the art of pole dancing and lap dancing or you can even use Strip to It-Bump n' Grind DVD and Music CD


• Sex Toy & Erotic Party: A more popular party is where you go to a friend's house and hire a Sex toy party consultant (like Honey Gifts) to come out and show different adult toys as well as go over the art of kama sutra to bring back to your relationship after the party is over!


• Look at Me! This night is the bride’s night so attempt to divert as much attention to her as possible. One way to accomplish this is by making her a costume. It's a popular idea to create a veil accented with condoms and connect it to a sparkly tiara.


• Truth or Dare. Have all the girls come up with light-hearted dares for the bride to accomplish and check off. Things like "Ask for a Sex On The Beach drink at a bar", "Dance with a bald headed man", "Get a guys underwear", "Have a guy do a body shot off of your stomach", "Have the bride yell in a bar 'I am getting married and I may be making the biggest mistake of my life' in front of everyone", and many more! Need help with ideas? bring along the Bachelorette's Party Dice.


• Poker Anyone? Take the bride to a casino for the night and hope she wins some extra dough for the honeymoon. Poker, roulette, slot machines . . . it's all good. Just make sure you've got enough cash if you choose this option. You don't want the bride pawning her engagement ring for cab fare home.


• Blow Job? Serve her some water in the Perfect Head Water Bottle (what a naughty girl giving a blow job!).


• Scavenger Hunt. How about having a bachelorette party scavenger hunt ( find naughty items like condoms, guys phone numbers)


• Make her Blush. Bring all the bachelorette's friends together for a fantastic girls night in. Make extremely girly drinks, tell ridiculously embarrassing stories, and think back to the pre-engagement days. Want a fantastic idea that will be great fun for the future bride? Play “How Well do you know the Bride?” game.

Romantic, Sexy Valentine Gift Ideas & Tips

Planning a romantic day or event for your special "someone" to celebrate Valentine's Day? Some people love to eat out in restaurants, and others don’t on such a special day like Valentine's Day, which has become one of the busiest days in the restaurant year! Usually there's inflated menu prices and you are pushed out the door to turn the table over to the next couple. Why not save money and have a romantic atmosphere at home for as long as youd’ like, play and have a fun romantic valentines! Make it a cozy night for two with romance, you and your love... what more could you ask for? Staying home to celebrate Valentine's Day can be a very rewarding experience because you have a tendency to feel more at ease in your own home.

Enjoy some quiet conversation, lots of mood music to keep the evening romantic, maybe a little dancing in the kitchen? If you love to cook and have the time knock yourself out! But don’t spend so much time cooking and cleaning that you lose sight of the goal which is to have a romantic evening with your lover.


Part of making any event memorable is the special care and touch that is put into it. The littlest things are the ones that end up meaning the most. Here’s some ideas and tips to make a perfect romantic Valentine evening:

• Select Mood Enhancers for Valentines – what type of mood you want to set. Ask yourself what it is that you are trying to accomplish and what mood you want to convey: playful, romantic, sexy... all the above... :) Before you go about getting everything ready, make sure you know where you want to end up!
  


• Surprise your sweetie by wearing a Valentines gift. Wear a sexy outfit (how about a Romantic Lace Bodystocking or Croquette French Lace & Lycra Set) ... or, if you're brave, nothing at all!
  


• Stage a progressive romantic love dinner for valentines and serve each course in a different room with the dessert ending up in the bedroom! Lead your lover down a path of silk rose petals to the room of choice.
  


• Keep the meal flavorful and not too heavy for a romantic valentines. Overeating will most likely leave you feeling sleepy rather than erotic. Maybe Salmon vs. Steak, rice vs. potatoes. Appetizers vs. entrees. Unless you have large appetites you may prefer to split one entrée between the two of you. And leave the dessert for later - in the bedroom!
  


• If you choose to drink, keep the amount of alcohol to a minimum (a glass or 2 of wine or champagne). Excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. Excellent alternatives are sparking juices in a cocktail glass over ice.
  


• Lets talk about a sexy dessert menu after Valentines dinner….slide into a sexy lingerie and serve some chocolate on a platter ( ou can make dessert fun and sexy by serving chocolate Tattoo Set or Chocoholics Chocolate Body Frosting). Lure your lover into the bedroom with lit sexy Body Candles which also has a dual function as massage oil. The mystical potion transforms from a hot dripping wax into a glistening oil and penetrating body lotion.
  


• Rent your favorite romantic movies, make some popcorn and hot chocolate, and stay up all night watching movies and cuddling (maybe use some Bare Essence Pheromones (nature's "sex signals") and you’ll lover won’t stay off you!)
  


• Surprise your lover with a bubble bath for two as a present for valentines day. Take turns reading a sexy or romantic book aloud to each other (may we suggest Aqua Erotica - Waterproof erotic story book). Introduce a sexy waterproof vibrator (Laya Spot by Fun Factory) or a fun waterproof vibrator (maybe something like the I Rub My Duckie Waterproof Vibrator) and splish splash away!
  


• Invite your partner to play a game of poker. Take notepaper and rip ten or more pieces of paper. Tell your partner to write down things they want to do or not have to do and make them neutral so that the opposing partner can use them as well. Play poker and gamble using the strips of paper for ante. Do not look at which ones you use just ante up. Or better yet, try the famous game “ Poker for Lovers Game” This erotic game has you betting sexy activities. Play by the same rules as regular poker except you'll be betting make-out sessions and playful spankings.
  


• Do your lover's secret fantasy. It’s the perfect time to bring out something that you typically do throughout the year. Have some fun role-playing with sexy lingerie costumes. Maybe a Naughty nurse, Frisky French Maid, Private School Girl, or a Police Women? Surprise your lover with a new couples sex toys and enjoy!
  


• Satisfy your lover’s carnal cravings with Body Licks Body Candy in a variety of sexy flavours like Strawberry Cheesecake, White Chocolate and Key Lime. Or treat your sweetheart to a sensuous massage – and enjoy a sweet treat – with naturally flavoured, non-sticky Naked Edible Massage Oil.
  


• Pass on the expected roses and boxed chocolate, Surprise your sweetheart with a seductive Valentine’s lap dance or strip tease. The Strip to It Bump ‘n’ Grind DVD and CD provides all the instruction you’ll need to give him a V-Day delight he won’t soon forget. Oh ya, and don’t forget the sexy feather boa!



• No time to shop? No problem. Pick up a pre-packaged, themed Honeycomb Gift Box for your main squeeze , wife or lover. Choose from several different themes or design your own Honeycomb Gift Box for a romantic sexy Valentines. Just select ideal gifts (sex toys like the famous Rabbit Habit Dual Vibrator (aka Jack Rabbit) other vibrators) you know your partner will love and for just $2.99 more, we’ll package them in a Honeycomb Gift Box, ready for giving. We’ll do all the work, you’ll reap all the, er, rewards. No need to thank us.

How to use sextoys & vibrators, tips for adult women

The following are the top 10 tips for how to use women’s sex toys & vibrators

1. Use condoms with your adult sex toys- Sex toy dildo, vibrator, or whatever -- put a condom on it! Also, don't switch the toy from butt hole to vagina, or from one person's body to another, until you put a new condom on it. Safe and clean sex will keep your happy and healthy! Use Condoms on a Plain Rubber Vibrator - These toys are notoriously hard to keep clean, and they can get dirty and stay dirty from regular use.
   
   
2. If using lubes with your sex toys – avoid yeast infections. Although it is not proven but some women get yeast infections when using water-based lubricants that have glycerin. Try glycerin free water based lubricants, and all silicone based lubricants are also glycerin free. Glycerine-free lubricants are toy and condom compatible: Check out Slippery Stuff or Hathor Aphrodisia (made with horny goat weed for extra enjoyment). Read more on what lubricant to use...
   
   
3. If you get tired and not as excited with your sex toy/vibrator – You can get bored of your usual sex toy and not be as stimulated. Put it away for a while or bring out a new one and rotate them…bring the spice back…mix it up and you won’t get bored!
   
   
4. Sex toy seems to small and doesn’t excite you anymore? Could be because your PC muscles are realxed and not in shape. Well-toned pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (the muscles beneath the pelvic floor that encircle the vagina) are more responsive, resulting in increased sexual sensation and more intense G-spot orgasms. Give yours a workout with Kegel exercises or try Fun Factory’s Smart Balls.
   
   
5. Find your G-Spot –get more out of your sex toys - New to G-spot stimulation? Start with some hands-on exploration on your own. Insert one or two fingers into your vagina and bend them towards the front wall, applying pressure toward the pubic bone until you feel a small, bean-sized, slightly ridged mass of firm tissue. Feel a pleasant sensation? You’ve hit the spot. Looking for sex toys to hit your G-spot? I recommend the Silicone Starlight G-Spot , Fun Factory G-Spot Worm Vibrator or the Crystalessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator . Read more on surefire ways to hit your G-spot...
   
   
6. Extend your sex toys life- Don't Run It Too Long - with very few exceptions, most vibrators should only be run for 20-30 minutes at a time. Remove the Batteries When Not In Use- Firstly, it prevents you from leaving the vibrator on accidentally, which will burn out the motor. It also reduces the chance of the batteries corroding inside the vibrator, which will usually mean the end of the toy. Read more on the top 5 ways to extend the life of your vibrator ...
   
   
7. Cleaning your sex toys, dildos and vibrators - For most toys you can use Regular soap (anti bacterial hand soap works well) and warm water will clean your toy, as long as you do it every time you play with your toy. We also recommend Safe Suds Toy Cleaner. Read more on how to clean your sex toys, dildos and vibrators...
   
   
8. Hide your sex toys from snoopy cleaning ladies and children – Try a shoe box and leave it under your bed or in the bottom of your closet. Or custom casing - some people have invested in a solution that is similar to a mini treasure chest with a padlock. This solution can be expensive, but if you have very nosy kids and a cleaning lady, this is the perfect solution. Read more on where to hide your sex toys...
   
   
9. Travelling with sex toys? - Traveling with kids or visiting family? Consider sex toys that go incognito, like those that resemble tubes of lipstick, rubber duckies, even pieces of artwork! Flying? Why give inquisitive customs agents something to snicker about? Pack toys in your checked luggage rather than in your carry-on bag. Read more on sex tips for travelling and having a steamy holiday...
   
   
10. Fix your broken vibrators and sex toys – Don’t assume that it has died on you forever…sometimes the spring become flattened and you need to fluff it back up so it reaches the connector of your batteries. So open up your vibrator and gently pull the spring up a little bit. Read more on how to fix your broken vibrators & sex toys...

Surefire Ways to Hit the G Spot

Ready to launch your own G-spot expedition? Here are some tips, techniques and toys to help you locate and enjoy this divine piece of real estate.

• While some women enjoy stimulating the G-spot with their fingers, others prefer the ‘filled up’ feeling of a vibrator. G-spot vibrators are specially curved or shaped to stimulate your personal pleasure spot.
  
• Some Womens favourites include the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator, Fun Factory’s Gigolo and G-Spot Worm, Ultime and Jolie from Natural Contours and the Glass G-Spot with Micro Mini Vibe.
  
• It’s the definitive guide to G-spot pleasure and a must-have for true G-spot aficionados. The G-Spot from Good Vibrations Guides includes information about finding the G-spot, talking to your partner about G-spot stimulation, facts and myths about female ejaculation and more.
  
• Well-toned pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (the muscles beneath the pelvic floor that encircle the vagina) are more responsive, resulting in increased sexual sensation and more intense G-spot orgasms. Give yours a workout with Kegel exercises or try Fun Factory’s Smart Balls.
  
• Looking for a fun way to introduce G-spot stimulation to your partner? Pick up Honey’s Hit the Spot Gift Box, which includes The G-Spot guide from Good Vibrations, the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator and three pillow-paks of lube all for $39.99. Even better, it comes fully wrapped for easy holiday gift giving.

Aphrodisiac foods helps your sexual appetite

Ever notice how some foods just make you more, well, amorous? Think rich, sweet chocolate, chilled, briny oysters, crisp, juicy grapes and robust red wine.

Since ancient Greek and Roman times, certain foods have been thought to possess special powers, increase virility and stimulate the sex drive. Named for Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love, early aphrodisiacs were said to increase fertility. Many resembled seeds or semen (e.g., bulbs, eggs, snails). Others were said to have magic powers because they resembled male or female, er, parts (e.g., oysters, sliced figs, or the phallic rhinoceros horn.)

More recently, asparagus, pine nuts, rosemary, basil, black beans and artichokes have all been dubbed aphrodisiacs. Coincidentally (or not?), many of these foods are also low in fat and high in vitamins and minerals. Turns out Mom was right – veggies are good for you! And if you’re looking to raise the romance quotient, the ancients suggested steering clear of dill, lentils, lettuce and watercress.

For tasty and tantalizing treats for two, check out:

• Inter Courses, An Aphrodisiac Cookbook Filled with stunningly sensual photos, this gorgeous hardcover book delves into the history of aphrodisiacs and includes more than 85 heart-melting dishes that are served as easily off the body as the plate. Match aphrodisiacs with a special occasion, the season or even your partner’s astrological sign. What’s our favourite aphrodisiac? Honey, natch!
  
  

Tips to make your sexual relationships fun

Of course you love your significant other. But do you still lust after them? If you want to keep that just-can’t-get-enough-of-each-other vibe alive, there’s a four-letter word you need to know: PLAY. Did you know that extended foreplay intensifies the “Big O”? Not only that, but sexperts agree that bringing play into the boudoir improves communication and deepens your relationship. And if there’s something you’ve been too shy to bring up with your partner, a little laughter can be a big icebreaker. So, what are you waiting for? Here are some ideas for playing your way to new heights of passion.

• If you loved playing dress up as a kid, why stop now? Always wanted to be a Vegas showgirl? Break out the sequins and feathers. Got a French Maid fetish? Naughty Nurse Nancy? Wicked schoolgirl? Whatever your fantasy, indulge it!
• To increase intimacy and take your relationship to a new level of sensuality, sex therapists recommend grownups-only board games such as A Hot Affair or the Kama Sutra Game. Learn new things about your partner – and yourself – while you enjoy an evening of sexy fun.
• Always been a water baby? Light some candles, fill the bath with bubbles and dive in with your partner. Scrub your sweetie’s back and don’t forget your favourite (vibrating) rubber duckie!
• Explore your artistic side and get your creative juices flowing. Use chocolate body paint to doodle, draw or write messages on your partner’s erogenous areas. Lick them off for a sweet treat.

Sexy Valentines Bath or Hot Tub for two?

Turn the bath into a romantic sexy getaway for two on Valentines. Here's some great suggestions to think about on making the special day bubbly and very erotic!

When your loved one get's home from work (you left early to prepare of course!), drop a path of rose petals from the front door into the bathroom or towards the hot tub...this will set the mood for sure!

Light a few candles and dim the lights. Some of my girlfriends favorites are the body candles, which can be used as body oil as well. Body Candles have a fragranced combination of waxes and oils designed for erotic massage. The body candle burns like a typical aromatic candle, creating a mood and filling the air with enticing scents. It drips and pours over your skin like a regular wax candle leaving sensations of warmth.

Drop an exotic scoop of Treasures of the Sea in your bath, which will transport it into the shimmering turquoise waters of the ocean. Try any kind of sensual bath salts (not sleepy lavendar though) maybe something like Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea.

Are you the Naughty or the Nice girl? It doesn't matter when you can choose from two fun vibrator designs.

For the Naughty girl. There's Red Devil Duckie who is a good duck gone bad! This devil is dressed for mischief and powered up for fun. Costumed in a flowing red cape and cute little horns, this duckie is perfect for the bath, pool or spa. Designed to make your first shared bath especially invigorating!

For the Nice girl. About half the size of the Red Devil Duckie, I Rub My Duckie is perfectly sized for travel. Exceptionally quiet, it offers amazingly strong vibration. With its innocent eyes and traditional rubber duck body, it is the most discreet massager/vibrator available. Just press down on duckie's back and relax as powerful waves of vibration soothe away the stresses and tensions of daily life.

Splish splash, have some fun and sex on valentines!