Playful Positions for Fuller Figures

Pregnancy is a beautiful time for you and your partner, but sometime the beautiful belly starts to get in the way of your more traditional positions. Here are some fun varieties to try that are comfortable and safe for mommy and baby.

Soft Landing: Stack a pile of soft and fluffy pillows underneath your stomach and chest to cushion and support your body and neck. You will have comfort against the support and he has access to your body from behind. This position allows for adding a little anal play into the equation. The Havana Tush Toy kit can be used with or without vibrations. Using just the tip of the plug for external stimulation of the bum can be a lot of fun. In this position he should avoid pumping too hard or deep.

Wheelbarrow: This position is comfortable and easy. Simply lay curled on your side at the edge of your mattress with your neck and shoulder propped comfortably by a few soft and fluffy pillows. He stands between your butt and knees for easy penetration, and he will enjoy a wonderful view of you. In this position he can easily reach around and stimulate your clitoris with a small and compact Fuzuoku Finger Vibrator. Use the finger sex toy to slowly tease and tantalize!

Belly Up: Bracing yourself up against a headboard or wall allows for a shallower penetration that is pleasurable and fun. It also gives him access to touch your breasts, belly and clitoris softly. We recommend using pillows beneath your knees for comfort and support. Combining this with a couples toy like the Diving Dolphin can triple your pleasure! This toy comes with two bullets-one that vibrates against her clitoris as well as one underneath that stimulates him and her!

As you move along in your pregnancy we recommend visiting your doctor, intercourse should be fine if your pregnancy is progressing normally but if you have any complications be sure to discuss frankly with your doctor what you can and can not do.

Hello to all you voluptuous ladies out there. We’ve created a section just for you, to help you discover some creative and ingenious solutions to some playful positions. Being a plus size lady has many challenges with body image and some positions just don’t work. But instead of worrying about all that we’ve come up with a few fail safe solutions to just enjoy sex, no matter your size.

No Ouch Couch: The couch is perfect for sex furniture. Using the seat cushion to support you upper body and having more pillows supporting your arms and neck as well as cushioning your knees. You will feel cushioned and comfortable allowing him access from behind for deep penetration. This position is great for him to reach around to stimulate your nipples with some Ice Queen Nipple Gel or placing a compact mini vibrator on his finger like the Five Function Finger Vibe to slowly massage your clitoris. This position is also super for pleasuring the nerve rich anal area. Start slowly stimulating the outside with a small well lubricated butt plug like the Silicone Pleasure Plug or insert some small anal beads like the Fun Factory Bendy Beads. The beads are slowly pulled out during an orgasm providing a more intense experience.

Deep Mission: Continuing our couch theme, if you throw the back cushions to the side you will create a deeper couch on which to enjoy yourselves. You can lay back, get comfortable and open you legs wide for a deeper missionary penetration. The intimacy of gazing into each others eyes and giving him access to your breast and clitoris will make this an all around enjoyable position. If you find pillows too soft, a wonderful option would be The Liberator Sex Furniture. These triangular shapes allow you to move into unlimited positions while providing firm support. You won’t be limited by where you can and cannot have sex. The triangle shapes make it easy to slip into narrow spaces when not in use.

Good Headboard: Sometime being on top when you are a voluptuous lady can be awkward and uncomfortable. If you try using the head board as leverage you can lift and support your body with ease and the leverage allows you to speed up the action. This position gives him the added advantage of being able to lay back and have access to your clitoris. A vibrating cock ring like the Utopia Triple Action can be a fabulous addition to this position as it allows you full control of how much stimulation you want on your clitoris. You can tease yourself until you’re ready to orgasm. This couple’s sex toy also has an extra testicle ring for him-intensifying his orgasm.

To see more of these playful positions see Ride'em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison.

How To Choose A Sexual Lubricant

Choosing the right lubricant can greatly enhance your sexual pleasure whether with a partner or for use on a sex toy. It decreases the friction and creates a slippery entry for your partner or toy. When choosing the right lubricant for you it can get overwhelming, this guide will help you choose the perfect sexual lubricant for you your toys and partner to use.

Specialty Lubes for Women. Lubricants designed just for women are generally very gentle and glycerin free. This helps to prevent the possibility of yeast infections in those with very sensitive skin. Some fantastic lubes for women are the Pink Lubricants, as well as the JO Agape.

Silicone Based Lubricants. If you like to have sex in the shower but find that the water washes away your lubricant then silicone is the one for you. This lube stays slippery until you wash it off with soap and water, no need to reapply, perfect for playtime in the bathtub. Some fun silicone lubricants to try are the ID Millennium or the Pink Silicone. Silicone lubricants should not be used with silicone toys; this can slowly erode the toy’s silicone exterior.

Flavored Lubricant. Flavored lubricants are the perfect choice for oral sex. They smell and taste delicious, while making it easier to perform. Some fun tastes to try are the O’My Flavors such as Melon or Pina Colada, JO flavors such as Strawberry or Tangerine, Hathor’s flavors such as Chocolate Strawberry or Hazelnut Caramel, and ID’s fun flavors such as Bubblegum or Mint.

Warming Lubricants. To add some heat to your sex play, try using a warming lubricant. This lubricant heats up against the skin providing a fun heated tingling sensation. Some fun lubes to try are the JO Warming, ID Warming or Pink Warming.

Textures: Lubricants have a variety of textures to think about. Whether it be smooth and watery or a thick gel you should choose the right lubricant for the play at hand. Thicker textures such as Slippery Stuff are fantastic for anal play. The thicker solution coats the body and stays for longer. Thinner lubricants such as O’my Natural or JO H2O are fantastic for sex play with your partner or with a toy.

Glycerin Free. Glycerin is a type of complex sugar, and found in most lubricants. Specialty lubricants especially for women are glycerin free. This is helpful for women with recurring yeast infection or severe sensitivity.

Water Based. Water based lubricants are among the most popular lubricants. Water based is safe for all sex toys and is very easy to clean.

Using a lubricant is a sure way to enhance your sexual play and fun, and with the varieties available you will be sure to find just the right one for you and your partner. Enjoy!

A Sexy Easter Pleasure Hunt

Celebrating the Easter season with chocolates and rabbits is always fun, but this year why not try something a little more daring with your partner for the Easter weekend. A fun way to spice things up is by sending your partner off on a sexy pleasure hunt, with you as the grand prize!

You can make your hunt as simple or complex as you wish, but here are some fun tips and tricks to make the wait worth the rewards.

1) To get your partner following your trail try taking some sexy photos of yourself using a digital or Polaroid camera. You could start off tame and show each photo with a little less clothing and a naughty pose, be adventurous and make a combination of naughty, risqué and sexy poses to lead them along the way.

2) Start off by putting your tamest picture someplace easy to find. Be creative and put the picture in a box of Easter chocolates or candies, and maybe a hint or clue as to what you wish them to do or where you will be.

3) Create a path throughout your home with each picture becoming racier; leave a few sexy treats like the furry cuffs, or Belgian Chocolate Body Paint along the way to spark some sensual ideas.

4) For yourself as the grand finale you had best take a good sip of wine and set yourself up in your sexiest duds. Whether you choose from racy lingerie or your birthday suit and a pair of heels, you should feel sexy and empowered!

5) Now here comes the fun part: you’re all sexy and fine and you’ve got your partner looking for you in anticipation, but how do you want to be found? Slinky in the bed with a feast of delights beside you? Or already restrained with the under the bed restraint system and ready for them to make a meal of you with the deserts you’ve left along the way. However you desire your treasure hunt to end from being tied up in bed to having a fun bath together with some passion bath salts you know that this will be a pleasure hunt you both will never forget.

If doing the full Easter hunt is too difficult due to little children running wild, perhaps a mini hunt is the way to go. Slip a sexy note or picture into your partner’s pocket during the morning and even a couple more throughout the day. This provides some stimulating anticipation for a fun night ahead. Slip them a designated time with the last sexy note and then be sure to have the little ones off to bed or with a sitter so that you can set yourself up as an Easter treat.

Creating a Boudoir Toy Box

“Remember the Toy box you had as a kid? Make an adult version, then take turns picking and playing…” (Tracy Cox Super Sex Deck)

Even though you have to “grow up” it doesn’t mean you still can’t have your childish desires. Picking your favorite toy from a toy box brimming full can provide just as much pleasure now as it did so long ago. With the holiday season past and the excitement of spring around the corner its time to start taking stock of your toys and renewing the old or starting off with the new.

A toy box is more than just a few vibrators, its full of wondrous items that will provide hours of sensual stimulation, laughs and fun. Your adult toy box should be full of everything you fancy, from of course your vibrators and dildos, to erotic books, DVD’s, edible goodies, massage and bondage. From sweet to racy your box should speak to your every desire and mood. So here are some fun ideas to fill your box with some sexy and fun items to get started!

Pleasure Toys: At least one or more vibrator such as the Lelo Gigi which will provide you with the option of internal or external stimulation, and is curved for the g-spot to boot. Other fun gadgets could include erotic videos and sex aids and even a Polaroid or digital camera for some sexy shots to share.

Dress-up: Any good toy box should have some dress up. From the traditional role-play costumes like the Naughty Nurse to leather corsets and whips to help act out any fantasy.

Laughs: Anything edible helps the laughter roll, especially if it can be licked, sucked or rubbed off, such as the candy g-string and bra or body licks. For more fun and laughter using sexy board games like the Hot Affair game or using Tracy Cox’s Super Sex Deck to help make your evenings a fun filled sexy event.

Good Reads: Erotica is always a good way to rev your engines and get the evening off to the right start. Whether a book such as Sweetlife or with the help of magazines, you should always have a few good options at your disposal.

Bondage: Silk stockings or sexy bondage scarves, bondage has never been more fun than with the addition of our new Babushka line. Made in Vancouver B.C. (name) has created a sexy line of tie up solutions that are beautiful silk and fun colors. You will want to leave them out all the time they are so fantastically soft and beautiful. If silk is not your style we have fantastic furry cuffs and the under the bed bondage kit for something a little more hard core. Whatever your fancy, bondage whether light or intense should have a part of your toy box.

If your concerns about your children or stray guests pawing through your box of goodies than we suggest investing in a fun and sexy locked box. Your toys can be hidden away and there are lots of different styles out there that you could find something beautiful as a décor statement as well as a functional hidy hole for toys. Another fantastic hiding spot for your box is high up in the upper part of your closet, as long as you are tall enough to reach and your little ones are still little than you can have piece of mind. Just make sure to send them off to bed early and lock the doors to make a sensual atmosphere when you and your partner wish to pull out your toys and set up and evening of sensual fun and delight.

For more ideas and suggestions like the ones above check out the Super Sex Deck by Tracy Cox, her fantastic deck provides you wish fun and sexy ideas for many cozy nights together.

Erotic Movies For Couples

The brisk chill in the air, rain, sleet and hail are precluding the wonder of the winter months. With the end of day light savings the nights creep up sooner and we must take shelter in the comfort of fuzzy covers and body heat. So what better way to spend those cozy nights snuggled together than to watch a movie?

Statistics have shown that it’s no longer men who monopolize visual stimulation. In a recent study it has been shown that 75% of couples are now enjoying erotic videos to spice things up. Allowing you to possibly re-enact you favorite parts or just enjoy the show! With the coming of the chills we’ve brought in a fun new selection of sexy pornography videos to heat up the blankets and warm your toes.

If it is your first time entering the world of erotic movies, we recommend going for the classics. With Jenna Jameson is the Masseuse you have the original and the new version, its two videos in one! It shows us the fun and exciting life of a masseuse as she reveals her favorite games to play with clients. To really set yourself up for a sensual evening we recommend breaking out your own massages oils, candles and open minds. Watch the video first or join along, just as long as you have fun and heat things up! We recommend using Kama sutra oil of love massage oil; it is edible and warms to the skin to help keep the chill at bay.

Another great classic video is Debbie Does Dallas East vs West. A young cheerleading captain and her squad in a fantastic erotic video, need we say more? To make the evening more realistic you could dress up in the private school girl costume just for him see what the evening has in store for you.

If your ready for something a little more raw and are ready to ramp things up a notch we recommend watching Chemistry or Jenna Love Pain. These two videos are sexy and take you to a whole new world, whether you want to try it or just feel content to watch, you’ll be sure to open new doors of sensual adventure. If you feel the desire for some video props we recommend the Luscious Sex blanket and Floggerella Leather Whips to make the evening a surprise event.

If you’re feeling a little devilish we recommend The New Devil in Miss Jones. The lovely virgin is enticed by the Devil played by Jenna Jameson, now Miss Jones must submit to the Devil’s every whim and desire. Enjoy this movie just as a show or pull up some submission techniques of your own with the Devilish Weekend Kit. Take turns being the devil and enjoy a sexy weekend away.

If none of these erotic videos have caught your fancy or imagination, then perhaps a little education fun will be of service to you. With fun new titles like the Expert Guide to Anal Sex, or the Expert Guide to Oral Sex, you and your partner can heat up the sheets while learning a little something new.

So to start the season off right go ahead and explore your sensual boundaries using videos and props to guide you along or spark your imagination. Heat the sheets and spend the season cozy in bed, as there is no better way to spend the holidays.

How to Have Backdoor Fun

Did you take a sharp breath just now? Or perhaps your virgin bum cheeks are clenched together? Take a deep breath and relax for the ride. It needn’t be scary and will enhance your boudoir routine when you follow our steps. After all, the anal area is rich with nerve endings and muscles, making the right touch a pleasure for women and men. For guys, it can put pressure on the prostate, resulting in a mind-blowing orgasm. And for gals, the G-spot can be stimulated indirectly during anal sex. But before you dive in, here are a few important tips.

1.Lube, lube, and more lube
The anus doesn’t lubricate like the vagina. This makes the right lubricant a must-have accessory for backdoor play. A water-based, glycerin-free lube like Slippery Stuff is compatible with latex and silicone, so can be used with condoms. Slippery Stuff is thick, so it forms a protective coat on your delicate behind. A silicone-based lube such as ID Millennium will not dry out, keeping you slick and ready for action, even under water. Make sure you pick the right lube for you.

2. Take your time
Many people are scared off anal play by the delicate nature of the area. Because the rectum’s tissue is quite sensitive, it is possible to tear it. However, the correct type of lube is a big part of keeping your heinie intact, as is taking things slowly. Start with feeling the outside of your own or your partner’s bottom first. You may be surprised at the sensitive spots you find before entry. A tongue or very well lubed finger is a good way to start.

3. Keep it clean
If the whole poop thing gives you the heebie jeebies, the ‘receiver’ can go to the bathroom first and follow up with a shower. Indeed, or the whole enchilada can take place in the shower too. The ‘giver’ may also wear a latex glove with plenty of lube to keep his or her hands pristine. A well-lubed condom goes without saying.

4. Education
Before forging ahead, stimulate the mind with instructional DVDs. A good DVD will use real couples to show watchers positions in detail, so there are no convoluted diagrams to follow. Many show you the physiology of anal stimulation and how to prepare for it, along with debunking the myths about anal. Some also touch on topics like safe sex and anal hygiene. Worthwhile DVDs include The Better Guide to Anal Pleasure and Expert Guide to Anal Sex For a New Generation, both by Tristan Taormino.

5. Play safe with the right toys
Yikes! Imagine the embarrassment of heading to the emergency room because you lost a toy in your bum. Yes, it can happen if you don’t use the correct toys. Anal toys should have a flanged end to prevent this from occurring.

6. Plugs
Butt plugs like the Ashley Tush Toy have a thin neck and flanged base so they can’t completely slip inside. The Ashley has the added bonus of an opening at the base, where a small bullet vibrator can fit inside for a little extra zip.

7. Anal Beads
Centuries of bead enthusiasts can’t be wrong! Beads make the sphincter muscles contract. Beads + muscle contractions = Amazing Orgasms. A nice equation, don’t you think? Modern designs, such as Silicone X-10 Beads, feature seamless graduated anal beads. Gently insert the smallest and work your way up according to your comfort zone. Gently pull them out as you climax to kick it up a notch.

For beginners looking for the complete package, the Tush-tastic Kit is simply bootylicious! It includes everything you’ll need: The Better Sex Guide to Anal Pleasure DVD; Ashley Tush Toy; Power Bullet; Jelly Anal Beads and Slippery Stuff lube.

Finding the G Spot

Pleasuring Women with G-spot Toys
At Honey Gifts, we aim to educate and please – this month that means taking the mystery out of the G-spot. Just because you or your partner haven’t found it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Figuring out how to hit it with toys is an experiment in fun.

First you gotta find it: The G-spot isn’t as elusive as you may think. It’s about two inches inside the vagina, towards your belly and behind the public bone. Insert a couple well-lubed fingers and stroke them towards your palm in a come hither motion. You may feel like you have to pee when the G-spot is stimulated – you won’t urinate, but you may ejaculate. But first…

Turn it on: Don’t immediately dive in once you’ve located it. Make sure you’re ready beforehand with a little foreplay. Getting aroused will make the G-spot swell with fluid, making it more firm, easier to find and ultimately have an internal G-spot orgasm. Use a vibe held to your clit, your fave sexy movie, your imagination, your partner’s tongue, etc. to get in the mood.

Grab a toy: Frankly, continuing the whole come hither thing can bring on a case of carpal tunnel syndrome just thinking about it. Or you may be cursed with short fingers, leaving your G-spot frustratingly out of reach. A curved toy can be just the trick to reaching it. Personalize your choice. Not everyone is going to be turned on by the same technique. Some options to consider:

• Try a vibrator with a simultaneous clitoral stimulator or use one hand to work your clit while stimulating the G-spot with a vibrator or dildo. Again, external stimulation will make the G-spot swell, making it easier to find and have a G-spot orgasm. The G-Spot Rabbit or Masagi Glass Toy with Bullet attachment are fun possibilities.
  


• The rhythmic pressure of a multi-speed vibe pressed to the G-spot can also do the trick. Today, many vibrators have pulsing and escalating modes, so you can find the best rhythm for you. The Royal Princess is one such toy.



• A twisting or ridged vibrator is the A-one choice for those who enjoy motion. Another option is to experiment with various girths to find the one that suits your taste, from the thin Starlight G-spot to the thick Chubby G.
  


• A glass or stainless steel toy will provide a frictionless and firm touch. An added bonus of glass dildos is they are particularly sensitive to absorbing and maintaining different temperatures for sensations of chill and heat. Try the Glass G with Micro Mini Vibrator for simultaneous internal and external fun. Playing hot and cold takes on a whole new meaning!

Read on for more details on more G-spot vibrators

Romantic, Sexy Valentine Gift Ideas & Tips

Planning a romantic day or event for your special "someone" to celebrate Valentine's Day? Some people love to eat out in restaurants, and others don’t on such a special day like Valentine's Day, which has become one of the busiest days in the restaurant year! Usually there's inflated menu prices and you are pushed out the door to turn the table over to the next couple. Why not save money and have a romantic atmosphere at home for as long as youd’ like, play and have a fun romantic valentines! Make it a cozy night for two with romance, you and your love... what more could you ask for? Staying home to celebrate Valentine's Day can be a very rewarding experience because you have a tendency to feel more at ease in your own home.

Enjoy some quiet conversation, lots of mood music to keep the evening romantic, maybe a little dancing in the kitchen? If you love to cook and have the time knock yourself out! But don’t spend so much time cooking and cleaning that you lose sight of the goal which is to have a romantic evening with your lover.


Part of making any event memorable is the special care and touch that is put into it. The littlest things are the ones that end up meaning the most. Here’s some ideas and tips to make a perfect romantic Valentine evening:

• Select Mood Enhancers for Valentines – what type of mood you want to set. Ask yourself what it is that you are trying to accomplish and what mood you want to convey: playful, romantic, sexy... all the above... :) Before you go about getting everything ready, make sure you know where you want to end up!
  


• Surprise your sweetie by wearing a Valentines gift. Wear a sexy outfit (how about a Romantic Lace Bodystocking or Croquette French Lace & Lycra Set) ... or, if you're brave, nothing at all!
  


• Stage a progressive romantic love dinner for valentines and serve each course in a different room with the dessert ending up in the bedroom! Lead your lover down a path of silk rose petals to the room of choice.
  


• Keep the meal flavorful and not too heavy for a romantic valentines. Overeating will most likely leave you feeling sleepy rather than erotic. Maybe Salmon vs. Steak, rice vs. potatoes. Appetizers vs. entrees. Unless you have large appetites you may prefer to split one entrée between the two of you. And leave the dessert for later - in the bedroom!
  


• If you choose to drink, keep the amount of alcohol to a minimum (a glass or 2 of wine or champagne). Excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. Excellent alternatives are sparking juices in a cocktail glass over ice.
  


• Lets talk about a sexy dessert menu after Valentines dinner….slide into a sexy lingerie and serve some chocolate on a platter ( ou can make dessert fun and sexy by serving chocolate Tattoo Set or Chocoholics Chocolate Body Frosting). Lure your lover into the bedroom with lit sexy Body Candles which also has a dual function as massage oil. The mystical potion transforms from a hot dripping wax into a glistening oil and penetrating body lotion.
  


• Rent your favorite romantic movies, make some popcorn and hot chocolate, and stay up all night watching movies and cuddling (maybe use some Bare Essence Pheromones (nature's "sex signals") and you’ll lover won’t stay off you!)
  


• Surprise your lover with a bubble bath for two as a present for valentines day. Take turns reading a sexy or romantic book aloud to each other (may we suggest Aqua Erotica - Waterproof erotic story book). Introduce a sexy waterproof vibrator (Laya Spot by Fun Factory) or a fun waterproof vibrator (maybe something like the I Rub My Duckie Waterproof Vibrator) and splish splash away!
  


• Invite your partner to play a game of poker. Take notepaper and rip ten or more pieces of paper. Tell your partner to write down things they want to do or not have to do and make them neutral so that the opposing partner can use them as well. Play poker and gamble using the strips of paper for ante. Do not look at which ones you use just ante up. Or better yet, try the famous game “ Poker for Lovers Game” This erotic game has you betting sexy activities. Play by the same rules as regular poker except you'll be betting make-out sessions and playful spankings.
  


• Do your lover's secret fantasy. It’s the perfect time to bring out something that you typically do throughout the year. Have some fun role-playing with sexy lingerie costumes. Maybe a Naughty nurse, Frisky French Maid, Private School Girl, or a Police Women? Surprise your lover with a new couples sex toys and enjoy!
  


• Satisfy your lover’s carnal cravings with Body Licks Body Candy in a variety of sexy flavours like Strawberry Cheesecake, White Chocolate and Key Lime. Or treat your sweetheart to a sensuous massage – and enjoy a sweet treat – with naturally flavoured, non-sticky Naked Edible Massage Oil.
  


• Pass on the expected roses and boxed chocolate, Surprise your sweetheart with a seductive Valentine’s lap dance or strip tease. The Strip to It Bump ‘n’ Grind DVD and CD provides all the instruction you’ll need to give him a V-Day delight he won’t soon forget. Oh ya, and don’t forget the sexy feather boa!



• No time to shop? No problem. Pick up a pre-packaged, themed Honeycomb Gift Box for your main squeeze , wife or lover. Choose from several different themes or design your own Honeycomb Gift Box for a romantic sexy Valentines. Just select ideal gifts (sex toys like the famous Rabbit Habit Dual Vibrator (aka Jack Rabbit) other vibrators) you know your partner will love and for just $2.99 more, we’ll package them in a Honeycomb Gift Box, ready for giving. We’ll do all the work, you’ll reap all the, er, rewards. No need to thank us.

How to use sextoys & vibrators, tips for adult women

The following are the top 10 tips for how to use women’s sex toys & vibrators

1. Use condoms with your adult sex toys- Sex toy dildo, vibrator, or whatever -- put a condom on it! Also, don't switch the toy from butt hole to vagina, or from one person's body to another, until you put a new condom on it. Safe and clean sex will keep your happy and healthy! Use Condoms on a Plain Rubber Vibrator - These toys are notoriously hard to keep clean, and they can get dirty and stay dirty from regular use.
   
   
2. If using lubes with your sex toys – avoid yeast infections. Although it is not proven but some women get yeast infections when using water-based lubricants that have glycerin. Try glycerin free water based lubricants, and all silicone based lubricants are also glycerin free. Glycerine-free lubricants are toy and condom compatible: Check out Slippery Stuff or Hathor Aphrodisia (made with horny goat weed for extra enjoyment). Read more on what lubricant to use...
   
   
3. If you get tired and not as excited with your sex toy/vibrator – You can get bored of your usual sex toy and not be as stimulated. Put it away for a while or bring out a new one and rotate them…bring the spice back…mix it up and you won’t get bored!
   
   
4. Sex toy seems to small and doesn’t excite you anymore? Could be because your PC muscles are realxed and not in shape. Well-toned pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (the muscles beneath the pelvic floor that encircle the vagina) are more responsive, resulting in increased sexual sensation and more intense G-spot orgasms. Give yours a workout with Kegel exercises or try Fun Factory’s Smart Balls.
   
   
5. Find your G-Spot –get more out of your sex toys - New to G-spot stimulation? Start with some hands-on exploration on your own. Insert one or two fingers into your vagina and bend them towards the front wall, applying pressure toward the pubic bone until you feel a small, bean-sized, slightly ridged mass of firm tissue. Feel a pleasant sensation? You’ve hit the spot. Looking for sex toys to hit your G-spot? I recommend the Silicone Starlight G-Spot , Fun Factory G-Spot Worm Vibrator or the Crystalessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator . Read more on surefire ways to hit your G-spot...
   
   
6. Extend your sex toys life- Don't Run It Too Long - with very few exceptions, most vibrators should only be run for 20-30 minutes at a time. Remove the Batteries When Not In Use- Firstly, it prevents you from leaving the vibrator on accidentally, which will burn out the motor. It also reduces the chance of the batteries corroding inside the vibrator, which will usually mean the end of the toy. Read more on the top 5 ways to extend the life of your vibrator ...
   
   
7. Cleaning your sex toys, dildos and vibrators - For most toys you can use Regular soap (anti bacterial hand soap works well) and warm water will clean your toy, as long as you do it every time you play with your toy. We also recommend Safe Suds Toy Cleaner. Read more on how to clean your sex toys, dildos and vibrators...
   
   
8. Hide your sex toys from snoopy cleaning ladies and children – Try a shoe box and leave it under your bed or in the bottom of your closet. Or custom casing - some people have invested in a solution that is similar to a mini treasure chest with a padlock. This solution can be expensive, but if you have very nosy kids and a cleaning lady, this is the perfect solution. Read more on where to hide your sex toys...
   
   
9. Travelling with sex toys? - Traveling with kids or visiting family? Consider sex toys that go incognito, like those that resemble tubes of lipstick, rubber duckies, even pieces of artwork! Flying? Why give inquisitive customs agents something to snicker about? Pack toys in your checked luggage rather than in your carry-on bag. Read more on sex tips for travelling and having a steamy holiday...
   
   
10. Fix your broken vibrators and sex toys – Don’t assume that it has died on you forever…sometimes the spring become flattened and you need to fluff it back up so it reaches the connector of your batteries. So open up your vibrator and gently pull the spring up a little bit. Read more on how to fix your broken vibrators & sex toys...

Tips For Sexy Adult Halloween Parties

For many adults, the sheer joy of dressing up and celebrating October 31 is something they never outgrow. Approximately 85% of adults who celebrate Halloween will dress up for the festivity! This is why Halloween parties are a great thing for ghosts and ghouls both young and old.


Halloween's Origin:
The Celts, 2,000 years ago in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom, and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1. This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. They believed that on Oct 31 the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. So they celebrated Samhain, when it was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. Druids built huge sacred bonfires, gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities. During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other's fortunes. (Source: http://www.history.com/minisites/halloween/viewPage?pageId=713 )

Spice up Halloween - 8 GREAT Ideas!
Halloween is not only for kids, and doesn’t have to be so innocently eerie. Halloween can be very sexy and erotic for adults! Dare to be different? Here are some great ideas and tips to make your Halloween party for adults sexy and exciting!

1) Host a Lust Party
Lustful tidbits – think suspenders and black fishnet stockings, 50s and 60s sex sirens; Marilyn Monroe, Jane Fonda, Brigitte Bardot, garters, blonde wigs, beauty spots, stiletto heels, bustiers, corsets, knee high boots and minis, choker collars, red lipstick and nails, ultra-long cigarette holders, black teddies (the one you wear, not the one you cuddle), Play bunny costume ( or black leotard and fur tail and ears will do it).

2) Have Your Own Fetish & Fantasy Party.
Invite your friends & coworkers over to be a Sexy School Girl, S&M Police Woman, Playbunny, or a Dawn of the Dead Pimp. Crank up some techno tunes on the CD player. Rent some old horror movie DVDs and project them on the wall without sound to give the room atmosphere. Get out the satin blindfold and the furry handcuffs for party games. You could play Spin the Vibrator, Blind Man in the Buff, or Pin the Tail on the blow up doll.

3) Have an Erotic Video Scavenger Hunt
Although being in costume isn’t necessary for the scavenger hunt, it certainly adds some extra humor! Scavenger Hunt is a classic…make it more exciting and exciting for the adults. Imagine the fun of teaming up and going around the house and the neighborhood to try to find the elusive "treasures" on your list.

Here’s some suggestions:

1. Divide guests into teams.
2. Give each team their Halloween theme scavenger hunt list and a video camera to record their hunting efforts.
3. Teams must race around town either by car or on foot and try to find all of the items on the list. Teams must use their video camera to record their findings.
4. The first team to return with recorded proof that they found all of the items wins.
5. Wait until all of the teams have returned and have a group viewing of all of the video taped scavenger hunts.

And some task ideas for the erotic scavanger hunt:

• Go to a graveyard and find a specific name on a tombstone.
• Take a video of you in front of a strip joint.
• Go to a grocery store and find some naughty produce (extra points for cucumbers and zucchinis)
• Go to a bar find out how many brands of beer they serve.
• A "large-size" condom (not used please)
• A dead-battery vibrator
• Go to a video rental store and find out what year the movie Halloween was made.
• Well-read erotica book or Magazine
• Some whipped cream
• A tube of lube
• Find a stranger who will let you wrap them up in toilet paper

4) Play "Skeleton in the Closet."
Don’t know how? Easy! Get everyone together and one by one, each goes into the closet. Once in the closet, they have to tell, out loud, a secret sexual fantasy before they get let out again.

5) Move Over Bobbing for Apples!
Let’s spice it up a notch. The Sexy costume contest keeps people coming back year after year, but why not change the contest? Have an Erotic Body Tattoo Contest and then allow your guests to lick it off each other after! Match up in pairs and use your creative side to apply tattoos with a Body Talk Chocolate tatoo Set. Hmmn, what will the winners get? Maybe a vibrating disposable cock ring or some flavored lube pillow packs?

6) If Weather Permits Outdoors, Try "Blood Wrestling".
Who Like mud wrestling, but I fill a kiddy pool with corn syrup and red food coloring. Be sure to offer soap, and a place to hose off privately. Great event if you have a vampire theme.

7) Tell a Scary Erotic Story.
Dim the lights and start telling a scary story to your guests (find a good one in a book or on the Internet, even better if it’s erotic!). When you get to spooky parts, you start speaking in a whisper and then Bam! You pull out and turn on your vibrator, Hitachi wand, or similar sex toy and touch the people near you with it. Of course, they’ll scream and say, "Stop! Don’t!" but you and I know they won’t really mean it.

8) Don’t like partying in a group atmosphere, want something quiet and sexy?
But still want to celebrate Halloween with your favorite costume and goblin? No problem. Just have a Party for Two. Oh, the fun you can have with just an intimate gathering. Put on a Sexy Halloween Costume, light some romantic candles (maybe try body candles and use them for the massage later!) and don't forget to bring out the furry handcuffs. Why not start the night with a romantic Halloween dinner? Serve black bean soup in small hollowed-out pumpkins. Use a pastry bag to top each bowl with a ghost-shaped dollop of sour cream just before serving.

Honey Gifts in Vancouver, BC, has a range of sexy costumes for Halloween or anytime of the year for sexy role-playing.

Surefire Ways to Hit the G Spot

Ready to launch your own G-spot expedition? Here are some tips, techniques and toys to help you locate and enjoy this divine piece of real estate.

• While some women enjoy stimulating the G-spot with their fingers, others prefer the ‘filled up’ feeling of a vibrator. G-spot vibrators are specially curved or shaped to stimulate your personal pleasure spot.
  
• Some Womens favourites include the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator, Fun Factory’s Gigolo and G-Spot Worm, Ultime and Jolie from Natural Contours and the Glass G-Spot with Micro Mini Vibe.
  
• It’s the definitive guide to G-spot pleasure and a must-have for true G-spot aficionados. The G-Spot from Good Vibrations Guides includes information about finding the G-spot, talking to your partner about G-spot stimulation, facts and myths about female ejaculation and more.
  
• Well-toned pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (the muscles beneath the pelvic floor that encircle the vagina) are more responsive, resulting in increased sexual sensation and more intense G-spot orgasms. Give yours a workout with Kegel exercises or try Fun Factory’s Smart Balls.
  
• Looking for a fun way to introduce G-spot stimulation to your partner? Pick up Honey’s Hit the Spot Gift Box, which includes The G-Spot guide from Good Vibrations, the Crystallessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator and three pillow-paks of lube all for $39.99. Even better, it comes fully wrapped for easy holiday gift giving.

Tips on what lubricant to use

A Splash of Liquid Love.

Whether you’re playing with toys, pleasuring yourself, or getting down and dirty with your partner, a sexual lubricant (a.k.a. lube) can enhance your experience. Even if you lubricate naturally, extra lube’s a good idea -- better slippery and safe than sorry and sore! And, since the number one reason for condom breakage is lack of lubrication, a little lube helps to avoid those spoil-the-mood surprises.

• Safe for use with condoms or toys, water-based lubricants such as ID Glide, O’My or Liquid Silk are the most common and versatile. Their greatest advantage? Quick and easy clean up – just rinse with warm water or wipe with a damp washcloth.
  
• Silicone-based lubricants like ID Millennium are waterproof, making them ideal for “water sports”. They’re fine for use with condoms and non-silicone toys, and there’s no need to reapply during long lovemaking sessions. They’re super-slippery, though, so watch your step in the tub or shower. And cleaning up’s as easy as a quick, soapy wash.
  
• Oil-based lubes like Stroke it and Super Stroke It are thicker and longer-lasting, making them ideal for intercourse and anal play. They’re great for hand-jobs, too, but shouldn’t be used with latex condoms or toys.
  
• Prefer a glycerine-free lubricant that’s toy and condom compatible? Check out Slippery Stuff or Hathor Aphrodisia (made with horny goat weed for extra enjoyment).
  
• Fun, flavoured water-based lubes are safe for condoms and toys and add a little extra sweetness to lovemaking.
  
• Want to heat things up even more? Warming lubricants, like ID Sensation Warming Lubricant, create a warm and sensual effect when applied. They’re safe to ingest, so add a splash to your favourite flavoured lube.

Okay, so they’re not technically lubes, but here are some other pleasurable potions…

• Increase her blood flow and sensitivity with all-natural “O” Clitoral Pleasure Gel. A little goes a long way!
  
• Yummy-tasting and versatile, Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm has many uses. A small amount helps preserve his powers long into the night, and a teeny-tiny dab on nipples or clit will add a tantalizing tingle. It’s available in several fruity flavours, though the original Mint flavour provides the most powerful kick.
  
• Perk things up with cool, stimulating Ice Queen Nipple Gel or tasty, travel-sized Nipple Nibblers, available in four delectable flavours. For spine-tingling kisses, apply Nipple Nibblers to your lips before planting a big, fat smooch on your sweetie.

How to Fix Your Broken Vibrators and Sex Toys

Imagine this....you have your mind set on sex and a little horny, no one is home but yourself. You slip into sexy lingerie, grab your toy box from under the bed or the closet and happily fondle your best friend (maybe it's your Rabbit Pearl (the one that was mentioned on Sex and the City), Fun Factory Gigolo or even your Laya Spot Vibrator) and finally you are prepared and climb in between the sheets. Your in the "mood" and mentally ready to reach the big "O" and unexpectantly your vibrator doesn't turn on...what the %&^%#, how disappointing!

I really think that there is no correlation to the amount of attention we give our sex toys and their life span. Also, I have found sometimes that my cheapest toy has outlasted my more expensive toys....not sure what I do differently or why this happens?

There are some ways to bring your inexpensive but much beloved sex vibe back to life. Here are some tips on fixing common problems with battery powered sex toys and vibrators:

1) I know everyone's first reasoning is "awe... the batteries have konked out on me" , but it is not always true... this would be my first reaction and hopefully I have extra ones in my drawer...as nothing kills the mood as to run to the local supermarket to get new ones!

2) Fix the spring - sometimes the spring become flattened and you need to fluff it back up so it reaches the connector of your batteries. So open up your vibrator and gently pull the spring up a little bit.

3) Make sure the connector and spring aren't blocked by anything (ie for some vibrators there will be a piece of paper rolled up in the shaft to muff the noice of your batteries when vibrating) You can take the piece of paper out or even replace it with a stiffer peice of newer paper).

If all else fails, it's definately time to give your old friend a funeral and go shopping for a new one....maybe something different (hmmn maybe my next one will be the Sinnflut Waterproof rechargeable!)

Cleaning your Sex toys, dildos and Vibrators

For most toys you can use Regular soap (anti bacterial hand soap works well) and warm water will clean your toy, as long as you do it every time you play with your toy. We also recommend Safe Suds Toy Cleaner.

Below we have some guidelines to follow, depending on the what kind material your sex toys are.

A good tip for all type of toys is to use condoms at all times for 100% cleanliness. Especially if you swap between the anal and vaginal area or if you share your toys.

Silicone
Silicone sex toys ( Fun Factory G-Spot Worm Vibrator or the Dual Rabbit Vibrator ) are the easiest to clean and the most sterile as they are not porous. You can run silicone dildos through the dishwasher or in boiling water. (Note: don't ever submerge toys in water that are electric or battery powered) You can even bleach your silicone toy in a 10 per cent solution. Make sure you have dried your toys before you put it away.

Jelly & Rubber
Porous toys like jelly ( Slim Jelly Fantasy Vibrator or Jelly Anal Beads ) and rubber (more poruos than jelly) ( like the Clone-a-Willy ) are much harder to sterilize so they should be used with a condom, which I'd prefer to do anyways! Also a good practice is to replace your more porous toys every 6-8 months.

Note: if you have Cyberskin toys, you'll have to clean them, pat them dry and powder them which I find way to messy) and I also heard that some baby powders or talcum powders as talc has been linked to cervical cancer...not good...so an alternate would be to use something more natural like corn starch.

Metal
As with silicone, metal toys (G-Spot Mini Waterproof Vibrator ) is a hardy beast and can be disinfected, boiled and made to face assorted forms of abuse in the name of cleanliness – but always make sure to dry it properly.

Plastic
Plastic Toys (like Velvet Touch Vibrators or the Pleasure Commander Bullet Vibrator ) only need a gentle rub with a cotton wool ball soaked in alcohol is the best cleaning solution for plastic, though rinse your toy afterwards so the alcohol doesn't come into contact with your precious parts.

Leather
Treat your leather toy with all the love and cleanly kindness you'd show a vintage leather jacket. Rub it down regularly but gently with a damp rag.

Where to hide your sex toys

Where to hide your sex toys?

It is a common question that many people have asked themselves when they have brought their new toys home...

Here's a few suggestions:

1. Try it in your nightstand - by far this is the number one choice and the easiest to reach when you are in the mood. If you have any nosy children or a mother-in-law that helps you clean up the house, this may not be the idea spot for you...so read on.
2. Try a shoe box and leave it under your bed or in the bottom of your closet
3. Gift Boxes - I have had some customers purchase a Honey Gift Box set and kept their gift box for their sex toy storage! what a nifty idea!
4. Between the matress is also an option - if you have expensive toys that you are worried will break - make sure you put the toys by the head area so it will be safe with less weight on it....I have had no issues and personally like this hiding spot.
5. Custom Casing - some people have invested in a solution that is similar to a mini treasure chest with a padlock. This solution can be expensive, but if you have very nosy kids and a cleaning lady, this is the perfect solution.
6. Larger Tuberware Containers - this is my second best spot....(my favorite one is under the mattress ) and my back-ups toys(my whole stash) are in my larger tuberware container (It's Opaque- not see through), I have my container under my bed or hidden in my closet.

iBuzz Music Activated Sex Toy

Wonder why some many people look so happy with their iPods?

It could very well be, because they enjoy their music or they have their iPod connected to the iBuzz!

If you thought your iPod was simply a techie gadget to get music out of cyberspace and into your earholes, think again. It is now a girl's best friend, courtesy of iBuzz ( A musical Orgasm Machine)- a cunning little sex toy with a "music-activated vibrating bullet [which] stimulates you in time with your favourite music". Selling like hot cakes, apparently; which might explain why the commuters on public transportation look a sight happier this month.

read more about the iBuzz (iPod) music sex toy vibrator

Top 5 Five Ways to Extend the Life of Your Vibrator

While most battery powered vibrators come with a built in obsolescence, there are a few key things you can do to extend the life of your toy.

1) Don't Run It Too Long
With very few exceptions, most vibrators should only be run for 20-30 minutes at a time. The motors are small and need to cool down. They can overheat easily, and even if you do not it out the first time, the wear on the motor reduces the life span of the toy.

2) Remove the Batteries When Not In Use
This is important for two reasons. Firstly, it prevents you from leaving the vibrator on accidentally, which will burn out the motor. It also reduces the chance of the batteries corroding inside the vibrator, which will usually mean the end of the toy.

3) Use Condoms on a Plain Rubber Vibrator
If your vibrator is not made of silicone and is not hard plastic, it is likely made of an inexpensive, porous form of rubber mix. These toys are notoriously hard to keep clean, and they can get dirty and stay dirty from regular use. Using a condom on these toys will both reduce your chance of reacting to the material and make the material last longer as you won't have to be scrubbing it after each use.

4) Be Gentle
With attachment cords and battery caps it's important to be gentle with your toys. Don't pull on the cords, and never use a cord to retrieve a toy! Make sure not to screw the caps on too tight. If the cap is in two parts (often they are red and black) make sure to only use the dial to adjust the speed, not to open and close the toy.

5) Watch the Seal on Waterproof Toys
More and more vibrators are waterproof these days. This is made possible by a rubber O-ring that fits along the rim of the vibrator. Once the O-ring breaks your toy is no longer waterproof and you either need to keep it out of the water or replace the o-ring.

I read this tip from Source: (http://sexuality.about.com/od/sextoys/tp/extendvibelife.htm)

Sexy Valentines Bath or Hot Tub for two?

Turn the bath into a romantic sexy getaway for two on Valentines. Here's some great suggestions to think about on making the special day bubbly and very erotic!

When your loved one get's home from work (you left early to prepare of course!), drop a path of rose petals from the front door into the bathroom or towards the hot tub...this will set the mood for sure!

Light a few candles and dim the lights. Some of my girlfriends favorites are the body candles, which can be used as body oil as well. Body Candles have a fragranced combination of waxes and oils designed for erotic massage. The body candle burns like a typical aromatic candle, creating a mood and filling the air with enticing scents. It drips and pours over your skin like a regular wax candle leaving sensations of warmth.

Drop an exotic scoop of Treasures of the Sea in your bath, which will transport it into the shimmering turquoise waters of the ocean. Try any kind of sensual bath salts (not sleepy lavendar though) maybe something like Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea.

Are you the Naughty or the Nice girl? It doesn't matter when you can choose from two fun vibrator designs.

For the Naughty girl. There's Red Devil Duckie who is a good duck gone bad! This devil is dressed for mischief and powered up for fun. Costumed in a flowing red cape and cute little horns, this duckie is perfect for the bath, pool or spa. Designed to make your first shared bath especially invigorating!

For the Nice girl. About half the size of the Red Devil Duckie, I Rub My Duckie is perfectly sized for travel. Exceptionally quiet, it offers amazingly strong vibration. With its innocent eyes and traditional rubber duck body, it is the most discreet massager/vibrator available. Just press down on duckie's back and relax as powerful waves of vibration soothe away the stresses and tensions of daily life.

Splish splash, have some fun and sex on valentines!

Where is the G Spot?

Sexinfo101 website states: If your partner is lying on her back, then her Grafenberg Area, commonly known as the G Spot, is located roughly 1.5" inside her vagina on the upper wall. The most ultimate orgasms come from a woman having her G Spot stimulated. This area inside the vagina typically has a different texture; ridged (not as smooth) as the rest of her vagina, and when aroused feels spongy. A G Spot orgasm is often associated with the mystical legend of female ejaculation and 15-30 minutes of a euphoric sensation where she is in complete bliss... Don't expect much from her during this time, she is in heaven.

Here's some of the favorite G-Spot Vibrators:

Natural Contours Ultime - A mid ranged priced vibrator. This unique sky blue massager is the first of its kind. The 'U' shape delivers strong vibrations on both ends, allowing it to simultaneously provide G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Three-speed design.

Fun Factory G-Spot Worm - These cute little playmates are perfectly curved to zone in on your G-Spot! Made of silicone, the highest quaity, softest material available. Hypoallergenic, non-porous and retains body heat. Extremely quiet motor, flexible and soft with variable speed dial.

G-spot Rabbit Vibrator - The rabbit dual vibrator/dildo has gotten even more creative by adding a g-spot curve.

Crystalessence Chubby G-Spot Vibrator - A less expensive G-Spot vibrator. Variable speed vibrator curved for G-spot stimulation. This waterproof vibe comes in pink.

Mom Finds Daughter's Sex Toy Under Bed

Working at Honey, I get to meet the most interesting people and have had some very enlightening conversations over the years. One conversation was with a mom of an 18 year old daughter. She had come upon a case under her daughters bed and opened it up to find a vibrator. The mom owns vibrators herself but she wasn't sure how she felt about her daughter owning a vibrator at her young age.
I could understand from a mom's point of view why it would be uncomfortable, as every parent sees their child as innocent and forever a baby but statistics show that the majority of girls have sex for the first time in their teens.
Having sex with someone involves so much fear and intimacy at an age we really know so little. I am not recommending that every young girl own a vibrator but I do believe that a girl should get to know her own body before having sexual intercourse with another person.

Karyee @ Honey: Vancouver BCs' fun and classy sex shop.

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Hugh Hefner's Toy Recommendation!

To celebrate Playboy's 50th Anniversary a fun and informative book called Hef's Little Black was released. It makes for an entertaining read about his life as well as providing sex and romance advice for the men.
So! What does a man like Hef have to say?

"Bedroom Accessories. You obviously need sex toys. The Hitachi Wand vibrator is the most important one-it works, in fact, very much like a magic wand. "
Hugh Hefner

Hef is obviously a man who would know!

Karyee @ Honey: Vancouver BCs' fun and classy sex shop.

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When Vibrators Were Available at Sears

A great article was brought to my attention written in the Canadian University Press by Denise Brunsdon. The article talks about the great invention of the vibrator. What struck me was the availability of such products at an institution such as Sears and Roebuck in 1910. How did we lose such mainstream acceptance of the vibrator? The article goes on to explain: "As the porn idustry began to explore and depict the bounderies of vibrator use, the object quickly developed a negative social stigma and that persists, in some circles, to this day. Apparently, only sex-crazed nymphos, not wholesome soccer moms, would dare to become sexually empowered."
It is ironic how we can regress in women's sexual health especially when so much around us is sexualized. If only we could be as progressive as Sears in 1910!

Karyee

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