G-Spot Orgasms

“The G-spot is not a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma. It is a place in your body…It’s a real, tangible thing, like my breasts and your clitoris, and you can even see it. But for some reason, lots of people seem to think the G-spot is a myth. Or a rumor…No – it’s a real thing, and it makes you come, hard, period. No deep wisdom, soul-searching or goddess worship necessary. But a little knowledge helps.” (The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot Book)

Even with our modern sex education the G-spot has often been misunderstood and thought to be a myth of unreal proportions. We at Honey wish to state that this is untrue and the G-spot is very real and a great way to enhance your sexual experience and keep the orgasms coming.

What is the G-spot?

Around the urethra is a ring of spongy erectile tissue that both men and women have and it is essential for your orgasm pleasures. It is connected to your clitoris and the nerve ending are packed with pleasurable sensations when stimulated.

Where is the G-spot?

Your G-spot is located about 2” inside your body on the upper wall of your vagina towards your belly button. Remember that everyone is created differently so your g-spot could be slightly further or closer than the average 2”. When you become aroused the tissue of the G-spot begins to have a different sensation, it can feel slightly ridged and firmer to the touch and often described in books as being similar to an almond. This is your G-spot, and once you’ve found it you can begin to enjoy a whole variety of new sensations! Some great books for learning more about your G-spot are The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot and Female Ejaculation and the G-spot and if you learn better with visuals the Expert Guide to the G-Spot by Tristan Taormino DVD or Maximizing G-Spot Pleasures DVD are great options.

Stimulating the G-Spot

Stimulating the G-spot is not like stimulating the clitoris, to fully enjoy the sensation of G-spot orgasm you need to press more firmly then you would for clitoral play and that can take some getting used to. Sometime when you are playing with your G-spot you can begin to feel like you need to go to the bathroom, this is not usually the case but to relieve your mind we recommend going to the bathroom before playtime. Begin by getting yourself aroused so the G-spot swells and then gently insert your fingers or a toy, curving upward and pushing firmly. Try stroking firmly with the “come hither” motion. Using firm toys such as the Tulip G, Chubby G or Lelo Gigi are fantastic for G-spot play because they allow you to press more firmly without much effort. Once you have become more familiar with your G-spot you may want to try a toy with a bit more flexibility such as the Fun Factory G-swirl, or Worm Vibrator that will provide you with a softer and more flexible G-spot stimulation.

Play and Experiment

With your G-spot stimulation you may find that you prefer different sensations over others, you may prefer a very firm solid sensation that can be achieved with the Masagi Glass Toy or to have it rhythmically stroked with a swooping sensation with a toy like the Rabbit Habit or Thrusting Hummingbird. You may enjoy having your clitoris stimulated at the same time, which can be achieved with dual action toys like the G-spot Rabbit or Fun Factory Paul and Paulina. Experimenting with different toys and sensations is a great way to learn your body and discover what is most enjoyable to achieving an internal G-spot orgasm for years to come.

Sharing your G-spot

G-spot stimulation does not need to only be a solo exercise, your partner would probably love to join in the fun and they can use their fingers or control a toy to help you achieve orgasmic bliss. Certain positions such as being penetrated by the rear or her on top can also help to achieve maximum G-spot sensation during intercourse. Using sex positions tools such as the Liberator Wedge and Ramp combo can help you to maintain certain G-spot friendly positions with ease. Great options to discovering positions to stimulate the G-spot during intercourse are The Expert Guide to Positions DVD and The Art of Sexual Positions DVD.
A new dual action toy called the We-vibe can be used during intercourse to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously while also providing him with some well-deserved vibration sensation. Sharing this orgasm can help teach your partner more about your body and how you enjoy being touched and caressed.

Female Ejaculation

Many women ejaculate when their muscles contract during a G-spot orgasm. Firstly congratulations, you have found a new avenue of sexual pleasure, secondly do not freak out, this is a different fluid from urine and a completely natural and common occurrence amongst women. If you do not ejaculate there is nothing wrong either, sometimes having an object such as a toy can block the ejaculation from happening and you can do so after it has been removed, and sometimes women do not ejaculate. If you are one that ejaculates, using the Sex Blanket that is completely waterproof but soft and sumptuous, can keep you sheets clean and dry especially if you produce copious amounts of fluids.

Remember there is no right or wrong when exploring your body, what feels right is usually right!

Exploring Nipple Clamps

Sometimes we can get so caught up with the major erogenous zones that we forget about the small pleasures in life. Nipples are a pleasure zone for both men and women and there are many toys out there specifically designed to pleasure them.

Adding a little pinch to your pleasure can add new heights of sensation and exploration. Nipple clamps such as the beaded nipple clamps, clover clamps or alligator clamps are designed to add an adjustable pinch of pleasure and pain to your bedroom adventures. Clamps such as the Nipplette have a vibrating bullet attached for added sensation against this sensitive zone. These clamps can be used on both men and women and are fun and very erotic to use.

How to Use Nipple Clamps:

Before jumping right into the fun it is a good idea to test the pressure on the clamps. You can do this easily by placing the clamp on the web of skin between the thumb and forefinger. Adjust the pressure to suit your level of sensation.

Make sure to prepare the nipple by getting it erect and firm before putting on the clamp. Tease and stimulate them with your fingers and tongue to get them firm, this is also a fun prelude to the main event so enjoy yourself. Potions and balms designed to stimulate the nipples are great foreplay ideas to get the nipples hard and erect. Ice Queen Nipple Gel, Nipple Nibbler, and Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm are all designed to stimulate the area and deliciously flavored.

Begin by clamping as much skin as possible, pressure on a small area provides a more intense sensation so started with a larger area first and then experiment with a smaller area. Progressing slowly will be more fun and enjoyable. Be careful not to pinch the very tip as this is the most sensitive part of the nipple and can be more uncomfortable than erotic. A note of Caution: When using nipple clamps we recommend not leaving them on for longer than 10 - 15 minutes at a time. Why? Because you are reducing blood flow to the area and constricting the skin, and the rush of blood flow back to the area can be quite uncomfortable the longer you leave on the clamps on.

How to Choose a Nipple Clamp:

Depending on your sensitivity range you will want to make sure to choose the right nipple clamp for you.

Adjustability: Clamps such as the Nipplettes clamps and the Adjustable Wide Alligator clamps have an easily adjustable screw that allows you to make the clamp as tight or as loose as you wish. This is good if you are new to clamps or have a low tolerance for pain. The tweezer style clamps have a ring around the two prongs of the nipple clamp which you can move up and down for a tighter or looser sensation, this is good if you still want adjustability but without the screw. The pressure on the Clover Clamps cannot be adjusted and their pressure is medium to hard. They are comfortable on the skin but should be only be used if you are more tolerant to pain and wish for a slightly rougher sensation.

Safe Sex is SEXY!

When we think about exciting sex, spontaneity comes to mind. Practicing safe sex requires some advance planning which seems to go against the possibility of an exciting rendezvous but here are some fun ideas to bring into the boudoir…that is safe and sexy!

1. Educate you and set boundaries. It is a good idea to have a basic understanding of the possible sexually transmitted diseases that can be contracted from having unsafe sex. With a good understanding of how these can be transmitted and what the risks are you will have a better ability to set your boundaries for how much you are willing to risk. Masturbation is about the only 100% safe sex you can have so unless you want to only play with yourself you need to decide what risks you are willing to take with your health and safety. Once you've set your boundaries you will know what you are comfortable with and can proceed to having fun.

2. Safe Sex Tools. It is a good idea to have a fun arsenal of safe sex supplies easily available and within reach of your play area.

-Condoms: There are plenty of choices now when it comes to condoms from size, texture and flavor as well as material. Have a variety of condoms to choose from can add to the excitement. People with latex allergies can use condoms like Avanti that are made from polyurethane. Extra thin condoms such as Kimono Microthin or Contempo Bareback are very thin providing extra sensation while maintaining strength and effectiveness. Kimono Type E and Contempo Erotica have texture such as studs and ribbing to provide more sensation for your partner during intercourse. Flavored condoms are especially popular for oral sex. There are also condoms with different shapes like Pleasure Plus and sizes like Kimono Large for even more choice.

-Dams: Dams are very effective for oral stimulation of the vagina or anus. They protect while providing a barrier between the your mouth and your lovers body while still being thin enough to feel all the wonderful sensations. Sheer Glyde Dams are available in yummy strawberry and vanilla. Dams also provide an extra sensory awareness because they do not absorb the lubricant allowing it to maintain slippery and wet. They slide and glide along the intimate body part providing a very pleasurable feeling. As well, as they can be gently snapped or nibbled on for a variety of sensations.

-Latex Gloves: Latex gloves and finger condoms can be found in most drug stores and are perfect to use when playing with your hands against intimate areas. They can be turned easily into a dam if you don't have any on hand.

3. Sex Tricks. A few fun tricks to try to make safe sex even more satisfying!

-Try putting the condom on with your mouth, it's easy - just tuck the tip behind your front teeth and hold in place with your tongue. Then roll down with your lips until it's on snug, we recommend practicing a few times on a banana or sex toy to get the hang of it.

-Use a cock ring that vibrates such as the Big O or Disposable Vibe Ring.

Vibrating cock rings will hold a condom snug in place while providing vibrations for both you and your partner.

-When using a dam try gently snapping the dam against the body, nibbling and sucking. These sensations will feel completely new and exciting through a dam and very invigorating.

-Creating a dam from latex gloves is easy! Just snip the fingers off the glove and make a vertical slip up the side for a flat dam. You can also keep the thumb part intact and make the slit up the opposite side, this gives you a pouch to add a toy or for insertion with your finger.

-Lubricant: Using a lubricant can help enhance your sex play in so many ways. The lubrication will help you slip and slide and when applied into the tip of the condom before slipping it on, you can add extra sensation and feeling for him. Adding flavored lubricants such as the Jo Flavored or O'My Flavored Lubricants help during oral stimulation especially if you do not care for the taste of latex. Tingling and warming lubricants such as the Climax Bursts Tingling or Pink Warming lubricants add wonderful new sensations and pleasure for both partners. They can be added to a condom or beneath a dam. They can also be added for manual hand stimulation. There are also cooling lubricants such as the Climax Bursts Cooling for even more variety in sensations. These lubricants can also be used on your nipples and lips for exciting kisses.

4. Toys and Safe Sex. When adding adult toys to your sex play, always cover them up with a condom. This will help to prevent transfer and also helps to make clean up easier. For toys without a motor, sterilizing your toy by boiling in water will keep them clean and fresh. Remember when switching between vaginal and anal play to either use a completely different toy for each area or change condoms between each use so that you do not get an infection.

You can be smart by practicing safe sex to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies… but still maintain a fun and adventurous sexual lifestyle. With a little creativity and imagination safe sex practices become a whole new experience and you'll be enjoying yourself immensely while playing it safe!

Sex Furniture: Hitting all the Right Spots!

Using furniture specifically designed for sex play is a fantastic way to comfortably and easily position both your bodies for optimal sensual play. Using furniture that is foam and shaped with sexual positions in mind creates angles to reach pleasure spots not experienced otherwise. They provide more support than your own pillows and enables you to try a multitude of fun positions.

Iceberg:

Sometimes there isn't much difference between the right spot and a near-miss. The Iceberg is really versatile and ergonomically designed to decrease the stress on a women’s body.

- It is great to place under your neck when doing the “woman on top” position as it brings you closer to your partner.

- “Downward dog” with the hands free vibrator in place is a must. Improving the angle of penetration as well as helping your partner support the weight and stay in position.

- Elevate your partner’s hips during “missionary” style to improve the angle of the penis to rub against the G spot.
- Under your head and neck for a good “face sitting” which the face closer to the object of it's affection.
- If you are a sufferer of back pain using a positioning device can be the difference between great sex or no sex. The Iceberg provides the perfect curve for the back allowing you to position yourself in a variety of poses. The curve can support your shoulders and neck to help position you for cunnilingus or fellatio, or support her lower back while you have her legs over your shoulders for deep penetration.
- The Iceberg has the advantage of a vibrator pocket, especially designed to fit a toy such as the Lelo Gigi. You can position yourself over the iceberg and have the vibration perfectly positioned at your clitoris …hands-free to explore other erotic areas!
- When the night is through, unzip the cover and throw it in the wash. The polysuede cover is soft, sensual and easy to clean.


Tilt:
Sometimes due to our bodies shape or size we need a little more support to make our bed play comfortable. The Tilt provides a soft rounded curve that will provide comfortable support for your body.

- When placed beneath your neck and shoulders with the woman on top for a “69” position you can easily and comfortably reach all of her body and help support her as well.
- The tilt easily supports her hips and chest for the deep penetration of the “doggy style” it can also help to support his knees when thrusting from behind. This also helps to position you easy for anal penetration.
- Easily elevate your partner’s hips during missionary position for ease of deep penetration.
- The tilt easily lifts her hips while supporting the lower back for deeper and more intimate missionary positions. Perfect if your partner suffers from back pain or discomfort.
- Support both of your hips and torsos for this snug fit of him on top and her laying beneath.

Love Lounge:

The love lounge is a combination unit providing you with a high and low end allowing you to support your whole body with ease.

- Easily support your entire body during missionary position, his knees and thighs are support for stronger thrusts and her body is fully cushioned and supported.
- For easy cunnilingus you can simply support the back of your thighs against the higher ridge of love lounge and position yourself over him. He will be comfortable and able to play longer.
- Using the higher ridge you can position her hips higher easy access for both deep penetration and anal simulation. Her entire torso is supported along the decline for comfort and saves her arms from straining to hold her weight up.
- With her on top she can easily support a stronger thrust with her knees being supported and raised, also because of the incline with him on his back he can easily lift her with his thighs for a deeper and harder thrust.
- Ride him cowgirl style and have your body easily supported in his lap and your knees higher off the ground. Also with him reclining on the incline he can use his thighs to thrust harder and deeper.
- Using the length of this love lounge you can easily lay lengthwise along one another for a new and exciting position and sensations.

The Liberators:

The liberator provides you with the fun option of having a ramp, a wedge or a combination of the two together. The benefit of this is that you can choose to purchase the combo and have the options to play with them together or separately for a variety of positions.

The Wedge provide the perfect support for her lower back to lift her hips high, allowing him to penetrate deep while laying over her body for intimacy and sensation.

The Ramp lifts her back and hips supporting her body in a more upright position, allowing him to get up close and personal with ease. The ramp also helps to support and ease your upper body so that you do not need to have all your body weight supported on a flat surface.

Combined the Ramp and Wedge help to lift the body and support the back, thighs and torso for comfort and ease in positioning allowing for deeper, stronger thrusts and longer play time.

With him laying along the combo with his head supported by the wedge and her supported atop his both can easily reach each other’s erogenous zones while being supported for comfort.

With her atop him he can easily thrust deep with his hips supported by the larger ramp while his neck is supported by the wedge so there is less strain on the upper back and shoulder. With her knees raised over the ramp she can easily get more height with less effort.

Whether trying something small such as the iceberg or going for the full love lounge you will be sure to love experiencing the different positions with the support and comfort of the bedroom furniture, in fact, you’ll be wondering what you did before them!

Ménage à trois? Honey's Guide to a Happy and Successful Threesome

Communication, Communication, Communication Opening up a relationship to a third party can be an exciting fantasy come true, but in reality it can either be as fantastic as you imagined or a complete disaster. The most important thing is to make sure you and your partner have discussed and communicated your desires, wants and rules for opening your sensual playground to others. Throwing your inhibitions to the wind and just letting things happen can be exciting but the unfortunate result of a lack of communication and forethought could be the beginning of the end of your relationship. So here are a few thoughts to discuss before entering the world of threesomes:

1. Jealousy: What is jealousy to you? Even the most open an honest of couples can feel jealous, and introducing a third party can often add fuel to the fire. Feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, fears of abandonment or of being rejected are all causes or reactions to the feeling of jealousy. Thus communication is important so you can discuss your feelings and try to resolve any issues that may arise beforehand so that you will be able to enjoy your threesome completely without unnecessary worry about your partner's interest in the other person.

2. Rules: Setting ground rules before you actually participate in this fantasy is always a good idea. If you and your partner are otherwise monogamous and usually do use condoms then it is a good idea to make sure that when in the threesomes there are condoms and safety measures used. Setting up the rules beforehand can help stop any uncomfortable decisions during your play time. Also it is a good idea to communicate anything of which you would be uncomfortable sharing with the third person (kissing, penetration …etc), because you either want that to be special for just the two of you, or you're concerned for heath reasons, whatever the case may be it is a good idea to know where to draw the line.

3. That Third Person: Depending on your comfort level with choosing a person you can decide to pick someone you know, or find someone through acquaintances or online.
With someone you know: Whether a close friend or someone who you are in communication with on a regular basis can be rewarding, it can prove to have its challenges too. You could find yourself jealous because your friendship with this person has shifted, or if the communication and friendship has been established it could be very rewarding to open up your two-some to a three-some with someone you know and love. It can be trickier so communication is even more important amongst you, your partner and friend.
Acquaintances or Online: Finding someone with whom you have not been intimately acquainted with through online sites or friends of friends can often be easier emotionally on you and your partner. There can be less emotional entanglements for everyone involved and can be easier to terminate the relationship if it is not working for you because you are not concerned about also loosing their friendship. One of the downsides to this arrangement is that sometimes you can find someone and they may not be compatible or other issues arise from not knowing them well. Make sure to have a good screening process in place and take tests for safety measures as well if you are planning in advance.

4. Safety: When leaving the relative safety of a monogamous relationship you must concern yourself with health issues such as STD testing and preventative measures. Always use a condom if you are sharing fluids with the third party, unless the three of you are monogamous only to each other and have all been tested for STD's and HIV. Also, with HIV you must wait for usually 6 months and then get tested again because certain antibodies may not show up right away, so if you're wishing to go the non-barrier method be sure to use a barrier for those 6 months before everyone gets tested again. Also barrier methods prevent unwanted pregnancies.

How to Use a Cock Ring

Cock rings provide are a fun and inexpensive way to try something new. They are designed to help the male enjoy stronger orgasms and longer lasting sessions. Many cock rings also hold a bullet for dual stimulation. These popular toys come in a range of materials and styles and are an enjoyable way of introducing more toys into your repertoire.

Traditional Cock Rings: Cock rings can become as elaborate or simple as you choose. The traditional silicone or leather cock rings are designed to slip around the base of the penis, or around the base of the penis and testicles to help maintain a harder and longer lasting erection. The snug fit also helps to give men a stronger and more intense orgasm. Rings made of silicone or rubber such as the Mega Stretch Silicone Ring or Erection Lasso have a large amount of stretch to them allowing them to easily accommodate most sizes comfortably while still providing enough tension. Leather cock rings such as the Spank Cock Ring has less elasticity to them so you need to use the various snaps to adjust the fit and comfort of the ring. As an added tip if you put the cock ring mid-way down your shaft you can give her the added benefit of sensation during intercourse, or you could even try multiple rings for a bumpy ride.

Vibrating Cock Rings: Vibrating cock rings are a fabulous invention; it turns your penis into a real live vibrator. The effect of the vibration is electrifying for both you and your partner, with the Big “O” or Disposable Vibe Ring you can place it so the is bullet above your shaft for optimal clitoral stimulation for her, or turn downwards with the bullet against your testicles for your benefit. The Bong “O” has an added pleasure ball which when the ring is tucked around your shaft and testicles the ball bounces against the sensitive perineum for added pleasure. And for the ultimate in duo pleasure cock ring, you can try the Tri-O, this inventive cock ring sits around the base of your penis with a bullet on top of the shaft for her and another bullet underneath the shaft for him…and with a perineum tickler too! The added bonus of the vibrating cock rings is that they provide more intense stimulation for both partners.

Remember: Safety First. Cock rings do have a time limit, we recommend removing them after 30 minutes of use to make sure you are not reducing blood flow to the penile tissue for an extended period of time. Also make sure to clean your cock rings with warm water and soap to make sure it's all clean and ready for you next go round.

Other toys such as the Betty Jo Dual Vibrator slip around the penis with an area for two bullets- one above and one below with a larger silicone cock ring to give your partner a strong clitoral stimulator. Also toys such as the Utopia Dual Action and Triple Action rings have a longer sleeve for the penis providing more girth.

So for your next new toy experience try the wonderful world of cock rings to help provide dual pleasure, longer lasting erections and stronger orgasms, you may be wondering why you waited so long!

The Low Down on Going Down

Going down on your partner is exciting because you are providing your partner with the ultimate sexual pleasure and demonstrating your skill as a lover but it can also be nerve racking if you don’t know what you are doing. We have outlined some very useful tips and techniques to help you take her to new heights of sexual pleasure so you can go down and have fun!

1. Position. Make sure both of you are comfortable. Use pillows beneath your knees if she is standing up so that you won’t be paying more attention to your aching knees than her sexual pleasure. Use pillows or positions aids such as the liberator to angle her hips for easy access. There are a number of ways to provide oral sex for your partner, you can have her straddling your face and holding herself balanced using the head board. This position is sexy and she can have more control. The traditional cunnilingus position with her laying on her back and you between her legs, this is especially good if she is feeling a little self conscious, or her standing and you kneeling between her legs, this appeals to the alpha females and gives you easy access to all her sexy parts.

2. Technique. Don’t just pull of her panties, take it slow, maybe tease through the fabric and tease and tantalize. Make sure you make an effort to relax your tongue as you don’t want it too stiff and pointed, especially in the beginning when it is nice to warm up with broader strokes. An especially great tongue technique is the figure eight, by moving your tongue around more sensitive areas and not just the clitoris you can really rev her engine. Be sure to vary your strokes, fast to slow, firm to gentle, zigzag your tongue and watch her body language because she will let you know which of those she likes best.

3. Lubes and Vibes. Sometimes it is fun to add a small vibrator such as the finger fun or the 5x Finger Vibe to your oral play, these small vibrators can help you bring her to intense orgasms. The fukuoku and finger vibe allow you to slip the vibe onto your finger so you can easily access her clitoris, labia and anus for a full range of vibration sensation. This can help take her over the edge into bliss. Lubricant can also be a fun addition, it is especially helpful if your mouth is feeling dry. There are some deliciously flavored natural lubricants such as the Hathor Flavored Lube or O’My on the market, these help to make you tongue slip and slide as well as taste delicious.

If you are wanting to learn more about how to take your oral sex techniques to new heights and provide even more pleasure then we recommend checking out the Low Down on Going Down Book, or if you’re a visual learner you can also try the Expert Guide to Oral Sex; Cunnilingus DVD. Also already packaged and ready for you is the Low Down on Going Down Honeycomb Gift box, it has everything you need all neatly packages for her oral pleasures!

How to Give a World-Class Blowjob

1. Choose your position carefully. The classic porn move that he'll be sure to love is him standing, leaning against a wall and you on your knees before him, it not only looks good but it also looks as if you are worshiping his body. Make sure you are comfortable, with pillows under your knees or if he is sitting or lying on the bed be sure you have enough support so that you are not putting all your weight on your elbows or arms. Being comfortable is important so that you can enjoy yourself without having to stop and think about any pain or discomfort.

2. Toys. Make sure to have any toys or plaything you wish to use on hand and within easy reach. The Blow Him Away Honeycomb Kit has a lot of fun items to help stimulate his sensitive spots, the finger toy can easily be slipped onto your finger or put on the popular Tongue Teaser so that you don't have to look for them later. Cock rings are also a fun addition to your play, it helps him last longer and makes the orgasm more intense, this is especially helpful if he gets a little too excited by your sexy mouth. The Spank Cock Ring and Erection Lasso are sexy options.

3. Techniques. Every guy likes to be touched differently. The best way to find out what he likes best is to ask. Or if you wish to be sneakier put your fingers in his mouth while you are playing with him, he'll most likely suck your finger the way he wants to be sucked, sneaky and you'll learn a thing or two about what he likes. Licking is often a great way to get started, using the flat side of your tongue you can go from tip to end like licking an ice cream cone. Spend some time enjoying this, pay attention to his tip as it is the most sensitive area but also to the entire length of the penis and the testicles. Make sure to be gentle when applying the teeth and watch to be sure you don't hurt him.

4. Tricks. Some interesting ways to spice things up and keep him guessing is to take a drink before hand of something slightly warm or cool, hold it in your mouth for a moment, swallow then slide your mouth over him. The coolness or added warmth to your mouth is an added bonus of sensation. Nipple Nibbler applied to your lips will have him tingling and tasting yummy. Other products designed for stimulating this erogenous area are Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm and Rocket Balm. The heating and tingling sensation will drive him wild! Also while you are using your mouth you can also involve your hands to the fun, using the finger vibes you can vibrate his perineum or anus for added pleasure, and wrapping your hand firmly around the base of the shaft and giving a hand-job while using your mouth is especially sexy.

**Make eye contact, it's sexy and will turn him on!**

5. Lubrication. Making the penis slick and slippery will also be very pleasurable. There are some fun choices available like flavored lubricants, warming lubricants, or others with a tingling or cooling sensations.

6. To swallow or not to swallow. It's your choice whether you want to swallow or not, but try to make the choice before hand so you know what you want to do as you near the end of your play. This avoids any awkwardness at the end. If you decide to swallow try to push him farther into your mouth so that you can bypass the tip of the tongue where most of the taste buds are or put him near you cheek and swallow in one gulp. Also you can hold onto his penis and rock him gently towards you to push him deeper into your mouth, sexy and effective. You can also pretend to swallow, by pushing your tongue against him while he's coming which allows you to push to the semen back out of your mouth and have it slide down his penis making him warm and slippery. This feels good for him and is a nice compromise. Or you can always allow him to ejaculate someplace else, pearl necklace perhaps?

7. Lastly; but VERY importantly, one of the key secrets to giving him a blowjob that will take his breath away and leave him your willing slave is simply enthusiasm. Honest enthusiasm to please and play with him is an aphrodisiac often ignored. Even the most skilled techniques are nothing if you are not really into what you are doing. So get ready to learn some easy ways to blow his mind and turn up the heat.

To learn more about giving a great blowjob, check out some very informative and fun books like Tickle His Pickle, Blow Him Away, or How to Be a Great Lover. If you learn better with visuals like a DVD, try Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio Sex Ed for a New Generation or How to Give a World-Class Blowjob DVD.

Playful Positions for Fuller Figures

Pregnancy is a beautiful time for you and your partner, but sometime the beautiful belly starts to get in the way of your more traditional positions. Here are some fun varieties to try that are comfortable and safe for mommy and baby.

Soft Landing: Stack a pile of soft and fluffy pillows underneath your stomach and chest to cushion and support your body and neck. You will have comfort against the support and he has access to your body from behind. This position allows for adding a little anal play into the equation. The Havana Tush Toy kit can be used with or without vibrations. Using just the tip of the plug for external stimulation of the bum can be a lot of fun. In this position he should avoid pumping too hard or deep.

Wheelbarrow: This position is comfortable and easy. Simply lay curled on your side at the edge of your mattress with your neck and shoulder propped comfortably by a few soft and fluffy pillows. He stands between your butt and knees for easy penetration, and he will enjoy a wonderful view of you. In this position he can easily reach around and stimulate your clitoris with a small and compact Fuzuoku Finger Vibrator. Use the finger sex toy to slowly tease and tantalize!

Belly Up: Bracing yourself up against a headboard or wall allows for a shallower penetration that is pleasurable and fun. It also gives him access to touch your breasts, belly and clitoris softly. We recommend using pillows beneath your knees for comfort and support. Combining this with a couples toy like the Diving Dolphin can triple your pleasure! This toy comes with two bullets-one that vibrates against her clitoris as well as one underneath that stimulates him and her!

As you move along in your pregnancy we recommend visiting your doctor, intercourse should be fine if your pregnancy is progressing normally but if you have any complications be sure to discuss frankly with your doctor what you can and can not do.

Hello to all you voluptuous ladies out there. We’ve created a section just for you, to help you discover some creative and ingenious solutions to some playful positions. Being a plus size lady has many challenges with body image and some positions just don’t work. But instead of worrying about all that we’ve come up with a few fail safe solutions to just enjoy sex, no matter your size.

No Ouch Couch: The couch is perfect for sex furniture. Using the seat cushion to support you upper body and having more pillows supporting your arms and neck as well as cushioning your knees. You will feel cushioned and comfortable allowing him access from behind for deep penetration. This position is great for him to reach around to stimulate your nipples with some Ice Queen Nipple Gel or placing a compact mini vibrator on his finger like the Five Function Finger Vibe to slowly massage your clitoris. This position is also super for pleasuring the nerve rich anal area. Start slowly stimulating the outside with a small well lubricated butt plug like the Silicone Pleasure Plug or insert some small anal beads like the Fun Factory Bendy Beads. The beads are slowly pulled out during an orgasm providing a more intense experience.

Deep Mission: Continuing our couch theme, if you throw the back cushions to the side you will create a deeper couch on which to enjoy yourselves. You can lay back, get comfortable and open you legs wide for a deeper missionary penetration. The intimacy of gazing into each others eyes and giving him access to your breast and clitoris will make this an all around enjoyable position. If you find pillows too soft, a wonderful option would be The Liberator Sex Furniture. These triangular shapes allow you to move into unlimited positions while providing firm support. You won’t be limited by where you can and cannot have sex. The triangle shapes make it easy to slip into narrow spaces when not in use.

Good Headboard: Sometime being on top when you are a voluptuous lady can be awkward and uncomfortable. If you try using the head board as leverage you can lift and support your body with ease and the leverage allows you to speed up the action. This position gives him the added advantage of being able to lay back and have access to your clitoris. A vibrating cock ring like the Utopia Triple Action can be a fabulous addition to this position as it allows you full control of how much stimulation you want on your clitoris. You can tease yourself until you’re ready to orgasm. This couple’s sex toy also has an extra testicle ring for him-intensifying his orgasm.

To see more of these playful positions see Ride'em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison.

How To Choose A Sexual Lubricant

Choosing the right lubricant can greatly enhance your sexual pleasure whether with a partner or for use on a sex toy. It decreases the friction and creates a slippery entry for your partner or toy. When choosing the right lubricant for you it can get overwhelming, this guide will help you choose the perfect sexual lubricant for you your toys and partner to use.

Specialty Lubes for Women. Lubricants designed just for women are generally very gentle and glycerin free. This helps to prevent the possibility of yeast infections in those with very sensitive skin. Some fantastic lubes for women are the Pink Lubricants, as well as the JO Agape.

Silicone Based Lubricants. If you like to have sex in the shower but find that the water washes away your lubricant then silicone is the one for you. This lube stays slippery until you wash it off with soap and water, no need to reapply, perfect for playtime in the bathtub. Some fun silicone lubricants to try are the ID Millennium or the Pink Silicone. Silicone lubricants should not be used with silicone toys; this can slowly erode the toy’s silicone exterior.

Flavored Lubricant. Flavored lubricants are the perfect choice for oral sex. They smell and taste delicious, while making it easier to perform. Some fun tastes to try are the O’My Flavors such as Melon or Pina Colada, JO flavors such as Strawberry or Tangerine, Hathor’s flavors such as Chocolate Strawberry or Hazelnut Caramel, and ID’s fun flavors such as Bubblegum or Mint.

Warming Lubricants. To add some heat to your sex play, try using a warming lubricant. This lubricant heats up against the skin providing a fun heated tingling sensation. Some fun lubes to try are the JO Warming, ID Warming or Pink Warming.

Textures: Lubricants have a variety of textures to think about. Whether it be smooth and watery or a thick gel you should choose the right lubricant for the play at hand. Thicker textures such as Slippery Stuff are fantastic for anal play. The thicker solution coats the body and stays for longer. Thinner lubricants such as O’my Natural or JO H2O are fantastic for sex play with your partner or with a toy.

Glycerin Free. Glycerin is a type of complex sugar, and found in most lubricants. Specialty lubricants especially for women are glycerin free. This is helpful for women with recurring yeast infection or severe sensitivity.

Water Based. Water based lubricants are among the most popular lubricants. Water based is safe for all sex toys and is very easy to clean.

Using a lubricant is a sure way to enhance your sexual play and fun, and with the varieties available you will be sure to find just the right one for you and your partner. Enjoy!

Honey's Q & A: After Pregnancy Intimacy

Q: I had a baby two months ago. My heart and brain are screaming for sex, but my body is still saying ‘no way!’ Will I ever be able to enjoy sex again?

A: Congratulations on the new addition to your family. You can certainly enjoy sex after pregnancy. The key is going slow and listening to your body.

Much will depend on how much wear and tear you experienced while giving birth. If you were torn or had an episiotomy, it could take longer before you truly feel comfortable during sex. Exactly how long depends on a number of things, including how long you normally take to heal, the extent of tearing or type of episiotomy, length of labor and whether the delivery was assisted by forceps or vacuum extraction.

Kegel exercises, up to 100 per day, are one step to getting your pelvic floor muscles strong again. Find the muscles by imagining you’re urinating. Squeeze the muscles as if you were stopping the flow of urine. Let go and try again. Squeeze and release repeatedly to strengthen the vaginal muscles. Adding a toy designed to help with Kegels such as Smart Balls or Lelo Luna Luxury Balls can be helpful and fun.

Even without tears, you will likely notice your vagina does not lubricate as well as before. This is due to low levels of estrogen. Also, breastfeeding can increase dryness as lactating women produce fewer of the ovarian hormones that make you lubricate. This means a good water-based lube is a must.

Plenty of foreplay is essential too. Not only will it help move lubrication along, but if your body isn’t feeling up to the act itself, foreplay can be the main event. Plenty of cuddling, petting, oral sex and mutual masturbation will help keep you and your partner physically close.

As your body heals, you may find certain sexual positions you enjoyed pre-pregnancy and even while pregnant no longer feel comfortable. Rather than dwelling on this as a negative, use it as an opportunity to try new positions. You may be pleasantly surprised. Side-to-side or woman-on-top positions will allow you more control and put less stress on body parts that may still be healing.

Most of all keep communicating with your partner and keep a sense of humor. If pain persists, see your doctor.

Creating a Boudoir Toy Box

“Remember the Toy box you had as a kid? Make an adult version, then take turns picking and playing…” (Tracy Cox Super Sex Deck)

Even though you have to “grow up” it doesn’t mean you still can’t have your childish desires. Picking your favorite toy from a toy box brimming full can provide just as much pleasure now as it did so long ago. With the holiday season past and the excitement of spring around the corner its time to start taking stock of your toys and renewing the old or starting off with the new.

A toy box is more than just a few vibrators, its full of wondrous items that will provide hours of sensual stimulation, laughs and fun. Your adult toy box should be full of everything you fancy, from of course your vibrators and dildos, to erotic books, DVD’s, edible goodies, massage and bondage. From sweet to racy your box should speak to your every desire and mood. So here are some fun ideas to fill your box with some sexy and fun items to get started!

Pleasure Toys: At least one or more vibrator such as the Lelo Gigi which will provide you with the option of internal or external stimulation, and is curved for the g-spot to boot. Other fun gadgets could include erotic videos and sex aids and even a Polaroid or digital camera for some sexy shots to share.

Dress-up: Any good toy box should have some dress up. From the traditional role-play costumes like the Naughty Nurse to leather corsets and whips to help act out any fantasy.

Laughs: Anything edible helps the laughter roll, especially if it can be licked, sucked or rubbed off, such as the candy g-string and bra or body licks. For more fun and laughter using sexy board games like the Hot Affair game or using Tracy Cox’s Super Sex Deck to help make your evenings a fun filled sexy event.

Good Reads: Erotica is always a good way to rev your engines and get the evening off to the right start. Whether a book such as Sweetlife or with the help of magazines, you should always have a few good options at your disposal.

Bondage: Silk stockings or sexy bondage scarves, bondage has never been more fun than with the addition of our new Babushka line. Made in Vancouver B.C. (name) has created a sexy line of tie up solutions that are beautiful silk and fun colors. You will want to leave them out all the time they are so fantastically soft and beautiful. If silk is not your style we have fantastic furry cuffs and the under the bed bondage kit for something a little more hard core. Whatever your fancy, bondage whether light or intense should have a part of your toy box.

If your concerns about your children or stray guests pawing through your box of goodies than we suggest investing in a fun and sexy locked box. Your toys can be hidden away and there are lots of different styles out there that you could find something beautiful as a décor statement as well as a functional hidy hole for toys. Another fantastic hiding spot for your box is high up in the upper part of your closet, as long as you are tall enough to reach and your little ones are still little than you can have piece of mind. Just make sure to send them off to bed early and lock the doors to make a sensual atmosphere when you and your partner wish to pull out your toys and set up and evening of sensual fun and delight.

For more ideas and suggestions like the ones above check out the Super Sex Deck by Tracy Cox, her fantastic deck provides you wish fun and sexy ideas for many cozy nights together.

Erotic Movies For Couples

The brisk chill in the air, rain, sleet and hail are precluding the wonder of the winter months. With the end of day light savings the nights creep up sooner and we must take shelter in the comfort of fuzzy covers and body heat. So what better way to spend those cozy nights snuggled together than to watch a movie?

Statistics have shown that it’s no longer men who monopolize visual stimulation. In a recent study it has been shown that 75% of couples are now enjoying erotic videos to spice things up. Allowing you to possibly re-enact you favorite parts or just enjoy the show! With the coming of the chills we’ve brought in a fun new selection of sexy pornography videos to heat up the blankets and warm your toes.

If it is your first time entering the world of erotic movies, we recommend going for the classics. With Jenna Jameson is the Masseuse you have the original and the new version, its two videos in one! It shows us the fun and exciting life of a masseuse as she reveals her favorite games to play with clients. To really set yourself up for a sensual evening we recommend breaking out your own massages oils, candles and open minds. Watch the video first or join along, just as long as you have fun and heat things up! We recommend using Kama sutra oil of love massage oil; it is edible and warms to the skin to help keep the chill at bay.

Another great classic video is Debbie Does Dallas East vs West. A young cheerleading captain and her squad in a fantastic erotic video, need we say more? To make the evening more realistic you could dress up in the private school girl costume just for him see what the evening has in store for you.

If your ready for something a little more raw and are ready to ramp things up a notch we recommend watching Chemistry or Jenna Love Pain. These two videos are sexy and take you to a whole new world, whether you want to try it or just feel content to watch, you’ll be sure to open new doors of sensual adventure. If you feel the desire for some video props we recommend the Luscious Sex blanket and Floggerella Leather Whips to make the evening a surprise event.

If you’re feeling a little devilish we recommend The New Devil in Miss Jones. The lovely virgin is enticed by the Devil played by Jenna Jameson, now Miss Jones must submit to the Devil’s every whim and desire. Enjoy this movie just as a show or pull up some submission techniques of your own with the Devilish Weekend Kit. Take turns being the devil and enjoy a sexy weekend away.

If none of these erotic videos have caught your fancy or imagination, then perhaps a little education fun will be of service to you. With fun new titles like the Expert Guide to Anal Sex, or the Expert Guide to Oral Sex, you and your partner can heat up the sheets while learning a little something new.

So to start the season off right go ahead and explore your sensual boundaries using videos and props to guide you along or spark your imagination. Heat the sheets and spend the season cozy in bed, as there is no better way to spend the holidays.

Tips and Thrills for The Boo-doire

Ever watch your favorite scary movie for the millionth time with your hands over your eyes, peeking through your fingers just as that particularly frightening yet thrilling part comes? Once you’re too old for trick-or-treating, Halloween really is all about getting a kick out of being frightened.

When you’re scared, your hormones kick in, resulting in a rush of adrenaline. This kicks up your physical strength and senses a few notches, something that comes in handy when playing with your partner.

All kinds of sexual kinks have roots in the fun of fear and the thrill of the unknown. Just the abbreviation BDSM (bondage/discipline, domination/submission and sadism/masochism) scares and thrills the pants off many. Think it’s too much for you? You’d be surprised how easy and exciting it is to customize to your needs.

BDSM covers a cache of kinks – spanking, wearing nipple clamps, blindfolds, gags, role playing, playing with hot and cold (think ice cubes and hot wax) and tying up your sweetie. It’s not about pain, but rather it’s about exploring what turns your crank. Following are some tips to getting your BDSM on:

Play safe: By this, we mean talk it out with your partner and make sure you’re on the same page when it comes to how far you’ll go. This means agreeing on…

A “safeword”: This is the word means stop. You can also have multiple words for “stop”, “slow down” and “let’s discuss.”

Start simple: Keep it simple in the beginning. Rather than trying full-on bondage, nipple clamps and hot wax all at once, start with one particular element and work your way up.

Hit me: Feeling naughty and in need of punishment? Old-fashioned spanking is a good start for beginners as you can better gauge how hard you are hitting. Keep it to the fleshier parts of the body and avoid super-sensitive areas like feet and hands.

Make it comfy: If the thought of being tied up gets you hot and bothered, start with something like fuzzy handcuffs or silk scarves. When tying knots, make sure you can slip two fingers between the restraints and your partner’s wrists or ankles.

Role-playing is another way to test your thrill-o-meter.

Costumes are fun any time of year. Is your man afraid of the doctor? Dressing the part of Naughty Nurse will cure what ails him, along with his fear of needles, in no time.

Ladies, if you’re the boss, let him be the boss now and then by playing the sexy, naïve Office Girl.

If you’re not up for full on dress-up yet, simply go to a bar and pretend you’re trying to pick your guy up. Wear a little something your partner wouldn’t normally expect, like Fishnet Thigh High Stockings. Give him a flirty look and perhaps a sneak peak of your, ahem, accessories, and you’ll be heading home or some other secluded area, pronto.

Great Sexual Arousal Techniques

Getting aroused is all about preparing your body for the act itself. Your heart kicks it up a notch, blood pressure rises and muscles tense. Blood flow to your nether-regions increases, making it hard to think.

Here are some ideas on how to turn guys and gals on:

• For her, many consider the clitoris the golden ticket.
  Massaging with a gel will keep things slick while boosting her sensitivity by increasing blood flow to the clitoris. Plus, adding clitoral stimulation while also stimulating the G-spot will send her over the top. Not just for use with a partner, it will help a woman help herself. (We recommend O Clitoral Stimulating Gel)



• But don’t dive for the clit right away.
  Start with massaging her other parts. Breast stimulation is fun for both him and her.



• For him, it’s visual and tactile. For her, it just feels darn good when done right.
  Symmetry, equal attention to both sides, is essential, as is starting slowly and gently. No cold hands please – massage oil can help keep things warm. Most importantly, read her cues. Some women prefer you keep it gentle, while others enjoy a nip. (To help tease and add a tasty sensation,we recommend using a flavored lube or Kama Sutra Honey Dust.)
  
  
• Less explicit things.
  Sexual arousal is often piqued by less explicit things and can start with seemingly non-sexy acts such as her partner taking out the garbage or preparing dinner, not to mention cleaning up afterwards
  
  
• Physical affection without sex helps up arousal.
  Touching – hugs, cuddles, kisses – all build the electricity for her. When having sexual contact, build it up with plenty of foreplay, focusing on the whole body, not just her sexual bits.
  
  
• Separate from work.
  Separate stress from work and other outside sources from your life as a couple. An added bonus is stress release can lead to sex, sex being the ultimate in stress release. Does your partner like a deep or gentle massage? You never know where a well-timed foot rub may lead.
  
  
• More than just Pete.
  Though men and women alike joke that men can only function mentally when their other head is not in use, to truly arouse a guy, it’s about more than just Pete – remember the boys, the neighboring perineum, and sometimes a little anal play is more than welcome.
  
  
• Mouthwash adds sensation.
  More suction doesn’t necessarily translate to good head. Teasingly licking his balls and shaft will help build up to the moment. Gargling with mouthwash beforehand, in addition to giving you minty fresh breath, will give him a tingly sensation.
  
  
• Stimulate his P-spot.
  While giving him head or hand, help finish him off with a perineal massage or stimulate his P-spot (prostate) with butt play. The perineum is the super sensitive spot between his testicles and anus. Press firmly and pump with a finger or knuckle to send him over the edge. Straight men who claim their butt is one-way only have likely never had the nerve-rich anus explored. A lot of lube, gentle touch and small toy. (We recommend the Finger Fun Vibrator - it can be a real eye opener. )
  
  
• Visual turn-ons.
  Then there are the visual turn-ons. Looking for something you can enjoy together, beginning to end? How about shopping for porn together? Yes, women like and are turned on by porn. It just has to be the right kind – there’s more out there than ‘70s porn with bad music and bad facial hair. The selection is tremendous, with women-directed flicks, natural bodied actors, plot-filled films and out-and-out sexfests.
  
  
• Suggested Reading material for him.
  Sexpert Lou Paget’s How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure book is chock full of ideas on how to build intensity.
  
  
• Suggested Reading material for her.
  Paget explores how to blow his mind too in How To Be a Great Lover. It’s about more than the penis, from his neck down to his perineum, testicles and, ahem, into his P-spot (prostate).

Advice on Prolonging Sexual Activity

Question: My boyfriend tends to get to the finish line much faster than me. What can help him prolong and/or for me to climax faster?

Answer: That is a common question we get at Honey! You will notice products for men tend to help them prolong and the opposite for women...they aim to help women reach orgasm faster. We are not sure why our biology is so different but simultaneous orgasms don't tend to be the norm for most couples.

Here are four things you can try:

1. Controlling the muscles with exercise and different breathing techniques. The exercises aid in controlling premature ejaculation as well as increasing sexual stamina. This is the basis for many tantric sex techniques so picking up a book or DVD (The Tantric Guide To Better Sex DVD) and practicing the exercises will help.
   


2. Applying a gel such as Kama Sutra Pleasure Gel Original or a spray such as Stud 100 on his penis. These products decrease the sensitivity for him hence helping him prolong. Both these items are safe and developed for this problem specifically.
   


3. Put on a cock ring. This can be slid on around the base of the penis but they function the most effectively when secured around both the scrotum and penis. Cock rings are designed to restrict the blood from flowing out of the penis, which can prolong an erection as well as create a firmer and slightly larger penis (this is a temporary result! The penis will not get larger with continuous use of a ring).
   


4. To reach orgasm faster for a women, she can stimulate her clitoris manually during intercourse, use a small external vibrator like the Layaspot which has a great curve that forms around the women's pelvis and clitoris, or a gel like Clitoral Stimulating Gel to increase the blood flow and circulation to the area.

Have a question or looking for advice? email us at: info@honeygifts.com and it may make it on the next blog!

Tips For Sexy Adult Halloween Parties

For many adults, the sheer joy of dressing up and celebrating October 31 is something they never outgrow. Approximately 85% of adults who celebrate Halloween will dress up for the festivity! This is why Halloween parties are a great thing for ghosts and ghouls both young and old.


Halloween's Origin:
The Celts, 2,000 years ago in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom, and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1. This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. They believed that on Oct 31 the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. So they celebrated Samhain, when it was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. Druids built huge sacred bonfires, gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities. During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other's fortunes. (Source: http://www.history.com/minisites/halloween/viewPage?pageId=713 )

Spice up Halloween - 8 GREAT Ideas!
Halloween is not only for kids, and doesn’t have to be so innocently eerie. Halloween can be very sexy and erotic for adults! Dare to be different? Here are some great ideas and tips to make your Halloween party for adults sexy and exciting!

1) Host a Lust Party
Lustful tidbits – think suspenders and black fishnet stockings, 50s and 60s sex sirens; Marilyn Monroe, Jane Fonda, Brigitte Bardot, garters, blonde wigs, beauty spots, stiletto heels, bustiers, corsets, knee high boots and minis, choker collars, red lipstick and nails, ultra-long cigarette holders, black teddies (the one you wear, not the one you cuddle), Play bunny costume ( or black leotard and fur tail and ears will do it).

2) Have Your Own Fetish & Fantasy Party.
Invite your friends & coworkers over to be a Sexy School Girl, S&M Police Woman, Playbunny, or a Dawn of the Dead Pimp. Crank up some techno tunes on the CD player. Rent some old horror movie DVDs and project them on the wall without sound to give the room atmosphere. Get out the satin blindfold and the furry handcuffs for party games. You could play Spin the Vibrator, Blind Man in the Buff, or Pin the Tail on the blow up doll.

3) Have an Erotic Video Scavenger Hunt
Although being in costume isn’t necessary for the scavenger hunt, it certainly adds some extra humor! Scavenger Hunt is a classic…make it more exciting and exciting for the adults. Imagine the fun of teaming up and going around the house and the neighborhood to try to find the elusive "treasures" on your list.

Here’s some suggestions:

1. Divide guests into teams.
2. Give each team their Halloween theme scavenger hunt list and a video camera to record their hunting efforts.
3. Teams must race around town either by car or on foot and try to find all of the items on the list. Teams must use their video camera to record their findings.
4. The first team to return with recorded proof that they found all of the items wins.
5. Wait until all of the teams have returned and have a group viewing of all of the video taped scavenger hunts.

And some task ideas for the erotic scavanger hunt:

• Go to a graveyard and find a specific name on a tombstone.
• Take a video of you in front of a strip joint.
• Go to a grocery store and find some naughty produce (extra points for cucumbers and zucchinis)
• Go to a bar find out how many brands of beer they serve.
• A "large-size" condom (not used please)
• A dead-battery vibrator
• Go to a video rental store and find out what year the movie Halloween was made.
• Well-read erotica book or Magazine
• Some whipped cream
• A tube of lube
• Find a stranger who will let you wrap them up in toilet paper

4) Play "Skeleton in the Closet."
Don’t know how? Easy! Get everyone together and one by one, each goes into the closet. Once in the closet, they have to tell, out loud, a secret sexual fantasy before they get let out again.

5) Move Over Bobbing for Apples!
Let’s spice it up a notch. The Sexy costume contest keeps people coming back year after year, but why not change the contest? Have an Erotic Body Tattoo Contest and then allow your guests to lick it off each other after! Match up in pairs and use your creative side to apply tattoos with a Body Talk Chocolate tatoo Set. Hmmn, what will the winners get? Maybe a vibrating disposable cock ring or some flavored lube pillow packs?

6) If Weather Permits Outdoors, Try "Blood Wrestling".
Who Like mud wrestling, but I fill a kiddy pool with corn syrup and red food coloring. Be sure to offer soap, and a place to hose off privately. Great event if you have a vampire theme.

7) Tell a Scary Erotic Story.
Dim the lights and start telling a scary story to your guests (find a good one in a book or on the Internet, even better if it’s erotic!). When you get to spooky parts, you start speaking in a whisper and then Bam! You pull out and turn on your vibrator, Hitachi wand, or similar sex toy and touch the people near you with it. Of course, they’ll scream and say, "Stop! Don’t!" but you and I know they won’t really mean it.

8) Don’t like partying in a group atmosphere, want something quiet and sexy?
But still want to celebrate Halloween with your favorite costume and goblin? No problem. Just have a Party for Two. Oh, the fun you can have with just an intimate gathering. Put on a Sexy Halloween Costume, light some romantic candles (maybe try body candles and use them for the massage later!) and don't forget to bring out the furry handcuffs. Why not start the night with a romantic Halloween dinner? Serve black bean soup in small hollowed-out pumpkins. Use a pastry bag to top each bowl with a ghost-shaped dollop of sour cream just before serving.

Honey Gifts in Vancouver, BC, has a range of sexy costumes for Halloween or anytime of the year for sexy role-playing.