G-Spot Orgasms

“The G-spot is not a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma. It is a place in your body…It’s a real, tangible thing, like my breasts and your clitoris, and you can even see it. But for some reason, lots of people seem to think the G-spot is a myth. Or a rumor…No – it’s a real thing, and it makes you come, hard, period. No deep wisdom, soul-searching or goddess worship necessary. But a little knowledge helps.” (The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot Book)

Even with our modern sex education the G-spot has often been misunderstood and thought to be a myth of unreal proportions. We at Honey wish to state that this is untrue and the G-spot is very real and a great way to enhance your sexual experience and keep the orgasms coming.

What is the G-spot?

Around the urethra is a ring of spongy erectile tissue that both men and women have and it is essential for your orgasm pleasures. It is connected to your clitoris and the nerve ending are packed with pleasurable sensations when stimulated.

Where is the G-spot?

Your G-spot is located about 2” inside your body on the upper wall of your vagina towards your belly button. Remember that everyone is created differently so your g-spot could be slightly further or closer than the average 2”. When you become aroused the tissue of the G-spot begins to have a different sensation, it can feel slightly ridged and firmer to the touch and often described in books as being similar to an almond. This is your G-spot, and once you’ve found it you can begin to enjoy a whole variety of new sensations! Some great books for learning more about your G-spot are The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-spot and Female Ejaculation and the G-spot and if you learn better with visuals the Expert Guide to the G-Spot by Tristan Taormino DVD or Maximizing G-Spot Pleasures DVD are great options.

Stimulating the G-Spot

Stimulating the G-spot is not like stimulating the clitoris, to fully enjoy the sensation of G-spot orgasm you need to press more firmly then you would for clitoral play and that can take some getting used to. Sometime when you are playing with your G-spot you can begin to feel like you need to go to the bathroom, this is not usually the case but to relieve your mind we recommend going to the bathroom before playtime. Begin by getting yourself aroused so the G-spot swells and then gently insert your fingers or a toy, curving upward and pushing firmly. Try stroking firmly with the “come hither” motion. Using firm toys such as the Tulip G, Chubby G or Lelo Gigi are fantastic for G-spot play because they allow you to press more firmly without much effort. Once you have become more familiar with your G-spot you may want to try a toy with a bit more flexibility such as the Fun Factory G-swirl, or Worm Vibrator that will provide you with a softer and more flexible G-spot stimulation.

Play and Experiment

With your G-spot stimulation you may find that you prefer different sensations over others, you may prefer a very firm solid sensation that can be achieved with the Masagi Glass Toy or to have it rhythmically stroked with a swooping sensation with a toy like the Rabbit Habit or Thrusting Hummingbird. You may enjoy having your clitoris stimulated at the same time, which can be achieved with dual action toys like the G-spot Rabbit or Fun Factory Paul and Paulina. Experimenting with different toys and sensations is a great way to learn your body and discover what is most enjoyable to achieving an internal G-spot orgasm for years to come.

Sharing your G-spot

G-spot stimulation does not need to only be a solo exercise, your partner would probably love to join in the fun and they can use their fingers or control a toy to help you achieve orgasmic bliss. Certain positions such as being penetrated by the rear or her on top can also help to achieve maximum G-spot sensation during intercourse. Using sex positions tools such as the Liberator Wedge and Ramp combo can help you to maintain certain G-spot friendly positions with ease. Great options to discovering positions to stimulate the G-spot during intercourse are The Expert Guide to Positions DVD and The Art of Sexual Positions DVD.
A new dual action toy called the We-vibe can be used during intercourse to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously while also providing him with some well-deserved vibration sensation. Sharing this orgasm can help teach your partner more about your body and how you enjoy being touched and caressed.

Female Ejaculation

Many women ejaculate when their muscles contract during a G-spot orgasm. Firstly congratulations, you have found a new avenue of sexual pleasure, secondly do not freak out, this is a different fluid from urine and a completely natural and common occurrence amongst women. If you do not ejaculate there is nothing wrong either, sometimes having an object such as a toy can block the ejaculation from happening and you can do so after it has been removed, and sometimes women do not ejaculate. If you are one that ejaculates, using the Sex Blanket that is completely waterproof but soft and sumptuous, can keep you sheets clean and dry especially if you produce copious amounts of fluids.

Remember there is no right or wrong when exploring your body, what feels right is usually right!

Music Can Electrify You Sexually

Music is a powerful aphrodisiac. Music has the ability to heighten any emotion we are feeling or put you in a completely different mood.

Think of when you come home after a long day at work. You often feel as if you don’t have an ounce of energy left. You turn on some music and you feel instantly energized. Another example would be during an exercise routine. Running on a treadmill can make twenty minutes feel like two hours yet when you turn on some music you instantly feel more power and bounce in your step. This is because through music our bodies release a natural feel good chemical called endorphins.
Take the power of music to the bedroom and you will see your sex life take on a whole new experience.

Be careful the type of music you play, the wrong tunes can make your partner feel sleepy or even sad. Not the type of mood that would lead to a sensuous night of love making! Some CDs mixed specifically for romance are the Exotica series. Chocotasy, Loveberry, Bananaism, and Asiamint. And each CD conveniently comes with four flavored condoms!

Finding the right music is very important. You don’t want to play the cliché love songs especially if they may remind your partner of their previous lover. Find something new or mix a CD with music you think you can both “get down” to. Upbeat and energetic would be best.

You also want to make sure the volume is high enough to get under the skin. To get both bodies grooving. Imagine the night club scene compared to a lounge. In a night club you feel to go wild and gyrate your hips. In a lounge the sounds are lighter and more soothing. You feel to just sit back and relax.

Combine the beat with a music activated sex toy device like the Ohmidbod or IBuzz and you will surely move your love making to the next level. Set up your MP3 (does not need to be an IPod) with the same music and plug the music activated sex toy to it. The toy will vibrate to the beat of the music! As you turn up the volume the vibrations on the sex toy also get stronger. To make sure there are no wires to get in the way slip it into the Ohmibod Garter and it will never get in the way during lovemaking and keep both partners hands free.

The IBuzz is a small bullet for super external clitoral stimulation. The Ohmibod Straight can also be used for internal as well as external stimulation with vibrating and pulsing modes. And now there is the Ohmibod G-Spot to hit that sweet spot and leave her with lasting memories! Whatever your pleasure, toys can be an exciting addition in the bedroom and they function on their own without being connected to a music player.

Keep the tunes fresh and new. There won’t be any associations with a particular song, just a brand new experience for the ears and body.

Music can help your partner feel free and lose their inhibitions. They may feel freer to express themselves vocally during sex which in turn can have an effect on their whole body expression during sex. Music is often a forgotten ingredient in the recipe for a fantastic sexual experience so next time you get plan to get your groove on with your partner make sure music is part of it!

Fun Wedding Traditions

Wedding traditions have been around for centuries, changing subtly with the ages but maintaining much of their original ceremony. Have you ever wondered why you follow certain traditions as you celebrate your wedding and tie the knot?

The Veil:

The veil traditionally was used to symbolize the bride’s virginity, innocence and modesty. The act of the husband lifting the veil to reveal his bride’s face symbolized his dominance over her, but if she took the initiative and lifted the veil herself then she showed her independence from her husband.

In ancient and not so ancient Middle Eastern and Asian cultures brides wore veils to hide their faces from the intended who has never seen her face. Only as the veil was lifted would the groom be able to see his new bride for the first time.

Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue.

This charming saying is from the Victorian times, and is even used today to help brides plan what they wish to wear on their wedding day.

Something Old is representative of the link between past and family. Often an antique family piece of jewelry is chosen to be worn.

Something New represents new fortunes and success for the new life with her husband. Often it is the wedding gown that is used as the new item.

Something Borrowed represents a reminder to the bride that her family and friends will be there for her in her new life.

Something Blue is a symbol of faithfulness, loyalty and purity.

The Bridal Bouquet began as a symbol of fertility. Herbs such as dill were often used and then eaten as it was believed to induce desire. The carrying of flowers is also rooted in ancient times as a good luck charm to ward off evil spirits, bad luck and ill health. As times changes the Victorians began to use the bouquets as a way to send messages to their lovers, as each flower had a special meaning.

The expression “Tying the Knot” is dated back to the times of the Romans. The bride then wore a girdle secured by a knot. On the wedding night the groom had the honor of “untying the knot” and their lives were tied together. In the Celtic custom especially hand fasting it was the norm to tie the wrists of the couple together to represent their bond.

The Honeymoon

Far back in history when a groom generally kidnapped his bride, he would keep her hidden away from her family. Usually they hid for a month, which was considered one moon cycle, and drank honeyed mead. Thus the origins of the word honeymoon.

Fun Facts and Legends:

It wasn’t until Queen Victoria in 1840 that the white wedding dress became fashionable. Usually it had been the woman’s best dress that was worn on her wedding day, no matter the color. Though no matter what color the dress, it has always been considered ill luck for the bride to make her own wedding gown.

There is an old legend passed down through the generations that stated the month you married in had some weight as to the final fate of the marriage.

"Married when the year is new, he'll be loving, kind and true;

When February birds do mate, you wed nor dread your fate;

If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you'll know;

Marry in April when you can, joy for Maiden and for Man;

Marry in the month of May, and you'll surely rue the day;

Marry when June roses grow, over land and sea you will go;

Those who in July do wed, must labor for their daily bred;

Whoever wed in August be, many a change is sure to see;

Marry in September's shrine, your living will be rich and fine;

If in October you do marry, love will come but riches tarry;

If you wed in bleak November, only joys will come, remember;

When December snows fall fast, marry and true love will last".

Bachelorette Party Ideas and Planning

Planning to throw a wild bachelorette party for your best gal pal before the wedding? Just as the best man is expected to create a wild and entertaining "last night of singlehood" for the groom, you may be expected to whip up your own version of this tradition for the blushing bride.

Need ideas for party games, theme or gag gifts? Here’s some ideas to get your creative juices flowing:

• Host a Sex and the City Stagette Party. This is a great theme when you're holding the event in someone's home. On the invitations, instruct guests to dress as their favorite character (you can give out prizes for the best costume, funniest costume, etc.). For a present, give the bride Charlotte's favorite vibrator - the Rabbit Pearl. Drink Cosmos of course, and if you think your crowd would appreciate it, have a whipping cream shooter contest or play the Got Liquor Party Game!


• Cake Anyone? Top the bachelorette’s Pecker Cake off with some sassy Penis Candles.


• Take it off! Instead of going to a dirty strip club, arrange to have a stripper (or strippers) come to your living room or hotel room. If you hire your own personal stripper(s) you won't have to share them with an entire night club full of ladies and the future bride will get all of the attention that she deserves. In addition, if you order your own stripper, you can customize him. Request the stripper to put on the Sweet and Sexy Candy Jock Strap for the bride to bite off!


• Italiano Style. Serve up some X-Rated or Peckeroni Pasta with a creamy sauce for party food.


• Bar Hopping? Plan a bachelorette party game, such as Suck for a Buck – where a bride wears a Sweet and Sexy Candy Bra over a party t-shirt that advertises a suck of the necklace for a dollar.


• Learn How To Strip: Another fun idea is to go to someone's house and take a class in strip dancing. A professional female can come out to your house and teach you the art of pole dancing and lap dancing or you can even use Strip to It-Bump n' Grind DVD and Music CD


• Sex Toy & Erotic Party: A more popular party is where you go to a friend's house and hire a Sex toy party consultant (like Honey Gifts) to come out and show different adult toys as well as go over the art of kama sutra to bring back to your relationship after the party is over!


• Look at Me! This night is the bride’s night so attempt to divert as much attention to her as possible. One way to accomplish this is by making her a costume. It's a popular idea to create a veil accented with condoms and connect it to a sparkly tiara.


• Truth or Dare. Have all the girls come up with light-hearted dares for the bride to accomplish and check off. Things like "Ask for a Sex On The Beach drink at a bar", "Dance with a bald headed man", "Get a guys underwear", "Have a guy do a body shot off of your stomach", "Have the bride yell in a bar 'I am getting married and I may be making the biggest mistake of my life' in front of everyone", and many more! Need help with ideas? bring along the Bachelorette's Party Dice.


• Poker Anyone? Take the bride to a casino for the night and hope she wins some extra dough for the honeymoon. Poker, roulette, slot machines . . . it's all good. Just make sure you've got enough cash if you choose this option. You don't want the bride pawning her engagement ring for cab fare home.


• Blow Job? Serve her some water in the Perfect Head Water Bottle (what a naughty girl giving a blow job!).


• Scavenger Hunt. How about having a bachelorette party scavenger hunt ( find naughty items like condoms, guys phone numbers)


• Make her Blush. Bring all the bachelorette's friends together for a fantastic girls night in. Make extremely girly drinks, tell ridiculously embarrassing stories, and think back to the pre-engagement days. Want a fantastic idea that will be great fun for the future bride? Play “How Well do you know the Bride?” game.

Ten Types of Orgasms Women Can Have:

Did you know that there are ten types of orgasms women can have?

Here's a breif summary of each one, also are suggestions that can help you with each one. If you'd like to read more on Orgasms , how to have them, give them and keep them coming? I strongly recommend Lou Paget’s Book “The Big O” - it is a great book that debunks myths, explains the physical & mental side of orgasms, the male and female orgasm, how-to suggestions, sex and spirit.

1. Clitoral orgasm – Most common, and for most the strongest orgasm. A clitoral orgasm occurs when the clitoris is stimulated to orgasm; most women need some form of clitoral stimulation to orgasm. The nerve system involved is the pudendal nerve system, which comprised of highly sensitive nerve fibres. The clitoris glans is the only visible part of a woman’s clitoris. The most popular toys for clitoral orgasms are vibrators. Textured products like shaft sleeve also work well to stimulate her clitoris. (Want some help? try the Pocket Rocket)
2. Vaginal and cervical – The essential truth about vaginal/cervical orgasms is that they are not as precise as the other locations. The vaginal orgasms involves the barrel of the vagina as well as the cervix (the mouth of the uterus) and may involve even the uterus itself. There is a bearing-down effect and the vaginal opening becomes more relaxed. At the point of orgasm, it sometimes happens that the penis (or any other object used for stimulation) is pushed out by the strength fo these contractions. (Want some help? try the Dual Rabbit Pearl Vibrator )
3. G-spot and AFE (anterior fornix erotic) zone – The G-spot is an area approxiamately the size of a dime, located about two-thirds the length of your middle finger inside the vaginal entrance, above the pubic bone felt through the front wall (tummy side). When stimulated, the G-spot can enlarge to the size of a quarter. (Want some help? try the Chubby G Vibrator )
4. Urethral (U-spot) – Like the clitoris, stimulating the urethra is also very pleasurable for some women, which makes sense since the urethra is surrounded on three sides by the clitoris and is located between the clitoral glans and the vaginal entry. (Want some help? Try the Lipstick Vibrator )
5. Breast/nipple – breast and nipple orgasms are apparently much more common that you might think. (Want some help? Try the Ice Queen Nipple Gel )
6. Mouth – Some women experience a mouth orgasm through kissing or while giving oral sex to a man. Other women describe the sensation as a whole body orgasm accompanied by uterine and vaginal contractions. (Want some help? Try the Nipple Nibbler - flavored lip action)
7. Anal – Anal play is the new frontier , male and females are asking more questions about anal sex, as more people are experimenting and finding it adds spice and often a lot of sexual pleasure. Because the PC muscles encircle the anus, when it contracts during an orgasm, you can also feel it through vaginal and urethal orgasmic contractions in women and urethral and anal in men. (Want some help? Try the Butt Plug)
8. Blended/Fusion – Is when more than one area is stimulated at the same time. For example the clitoris and the G-spot have two separate nerve systems and gives you more broader sensation.
9. Zone – This is much more individualistic because it occurs in various parts of people’s bodies that are rarely associated with stimulation to orgasm. For Example some have experienced orgasms from having their necks licked or their fingers sucked. (Want some help? Try the Flavored Edible Massage Oil )
10. Fantasy – A fantasy orgasm is the ability to orgasm by fantasy alone – with no genital stimulation. Only a chosen few who can have this orgasm. A lab report documented that the body’s physiological response to an imagery-induced orgasm was no different than one induced by physical stimulation (same heart rate, increase in blood pressure, pupil diameter, and pain threshold). (Want some help? Try fantasy role playing lingerie )

Want to learn more about Orgasms, how to have them, give them and keep them coming? I strongly recommend Lou Paget’s Book “The Big O” - it is a great book that debunks myths, explains the physical & mental side of orgasms, the male and female orgasm, how-to suggestions, sex and spirit.

Kissing is good for your health

It seems like everyone’s more health-conscious these days. Eight glasses of water? Check. Slap on the sunscreen? You bet. Double dose of veggies? Yup. Hot-and-heavy make-out session? Huh?

Yep, that’s right. Recent scientific research has uncovered some amazing health benefits of smooching. For example did you know that…?

• When you give some sugar, you burn some sugar. Making out with your lover burns more than six calories per minute. Of course, to achieve significant weight loss, you’d have to kiss often and for extended periods. Oh, the price we pay for thinner thighs!
• Kissing helps to slow aging by toning your jaw and cheek muscles. Forget those overpriced face creams. A serious, tongue tangling exercises the underlying muscles in the face, which will keep you looking younger – and happier!
• Kissing is a natural high. Like exercise, it stimulates the production of chemicals similar to those in amphetamine drugs and generates moods of elation and euphoria.
• Kissing is good for your dental health. It stimulates extra saliva flow, washes bacteria from your teeth and reduces plaque.
• Psychologists suggest kissing may be a useful relaxation technique. The muscular activity of a kiss is similar to that of a smile and the act of smiling is known to improve the mood.
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Before you pucker up…

• Set the stage for super smooching. Ensure your breath is minty-fresh and your lips are moisturized.
• Kissing’s not for lips only. Rev up the romance by kissing your partner’s cheeks, chin, ears and even eyelids.
• Add an extra-tasty tingle by applying Nipple Nibbler to your lips before laying a lip lock on your lover.

Tips on what lubricant to use

A Splash of Liquid Love.

Whether you’re playing with toys, pleasuring yourself, or getting down and dirty with your partner, a sexual lubricant (a.k.a. lube) can enhance your experience. Even if you lubricate naturally, extra lube’s a good idea -- better slippery and safe than sorry and sore! And, since the number one reason for condom breakage is lack of lubrication, a little lube helps to avoid those spoil-the-mood surprises.

• Safe for use with condoms or toys, water-based lubricants such as ID Glide, O’My or Liquid Silk are the most common and versatile. Their greatest advantage? Quick and easy clean up – just rinse with warm water or wipe with a damp washcloth.
  
• Silicone-based lubricants like ID Millennium are waterproof, making them ideal for “water sports”. They’re fine for use with condoms and non-silicone toys, and there’s no need to reapply during long lovemaking sessions. They’re super-slippery, though, so watch your step in the tub or shower. And cleaning up’s as easy as a quick, soapy wash.
  
• Oil-based lubes like Stroke it and Super Stroke It are thicker and longer-lasting, making them ideal for intercourse and anal play. They’re great for hand-jobs, too, but shouldn’t be used with latex condoms or toys.
  
• Prefer a glycerine-free lubricant that’s toy and condom compatible? Check out Slippery Stuff or Hathor Aphrodisia (made with horny goat weed for extra enjoyment).
  
• Fun, flavoured water-based lubes are safe for condoms and toys and add a little extra sweetness to lovemaking.
  
• Want to heat things up even more? Warming lubricants, like ID Sensation Warming Lubricant, create a warm and sensual effect when applied. They’re safe to ingest, so add a splash to your favourite flavoured lube.

Okay, so they’re not technically lubes, but here are some other pleasurable potions…

• Increase her blood flow and sensitivity with all-natural “O” Clitoral Pleasure Gel. A little goes a long way!
  
• Yummy-tasting and versatile, Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm has many uses. A small amount helps preserve his powers long into the night, and a teeny-tiny dab on nipples or clit will add a tantalizing tingle. It’s available in several fruity flavours, though the original Mint flavour provides the most powerful kick.
  
• Perk things up with cool, stimulating Ice Queen Nipple Gel or tasty, travel-sized Nipple Nibblers, available in four delectable flavours. For spine-tingling kisses, apply Nipple Nibblers to your lips before planting a big, fat smooch on your sweetie.

Sexy Valentines Bath or Hot Tub for two?

Turn the bath into a romantic sexy getaway for two on Valentines. Here's some great suggestions to think about on making the special day bubbly and very erotic!

When your loved one get's home from work (you left early to prepare of course!), drop a path of rose petals from the front door into the bathroom or towards the hot tub...this will set the mood for sure!

Light a few candles and dim the lights. Some of my girlfriends favorites are the body candles, which can be used as body oil as well. Body Candles have a fragranced combination of waxes and oils designed for erotic massage. The body candle burns like a typical aromatic candle, creating a mood and filling the air with enticing scents. It drips and pours over your skin like a regular wax candle leaving sensations of warmth.

Drop an exotic scoop of Treasures of the Sea in your bath, which will transport it into the shimmering turquoise waters of the ocean. Try any kind of sensual bath salts (not sleepy lavendar though) maybe something like Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea.

Are you the Naughty or the Nice girl? It doesn't matter when you can choose from two fun vibrator designs.

For the Naughty girl. There's Red Devil Duckie who is a good duck gone bad! This devil is dressed for mischief and powered up for fun. Costumed in a flowing red cape and cute little horns, this duckie is perfect for the bath, pool or spa. Designed to make your first shared bath especially invigorating!

For the Nice girl. About half the size of the Red Devil Duckie, I Rub My Duckie is perfectly sized for travel. Exceptionally quiet, it offers amazingly strong vibration. With its innocent eyes and traditional rubber duck body, it is the most discreet massager/vibrator available. Just press down on duckie's back and relax as powerful waves of vibration soothe away the stresses and tensions of daily life.

Splish splash, have some fun and sex on valentines!