Sexy Costumes for Bedroom Role-Playing

Role playing has long been a part of our sex games and fantasies; it allows us the freedom and liberation of being someone else for a few hours to play out the fantasies and try out the persona of the role you are playing. Three of the most popular fantasy costumes include:

Naughty School Girl: The cute and flouncy plaid skirt, pigtails, white button down top and white knee high stockings. The fantasy usually includes a teacher who needs to discipline the naughty school girl. This fantasy is popular because it allows the teacher to be in control and for the student to give up control. Over the years at our retail store we have had customers question the meaning behind the school girl fantasy. A fantasy played out between two adults is just that- a fantasy come true! It is about dominance and submissiveness. And of course Britney Spears probably made it even more popular! Check out some the cute School Girl, and Private School Girl costumes. Combine this fantasy with accessories like the Naughty Ruler.

Naughty Nurse: The Naughty Nurse is still one of the top fantasy costumes! We all know nurses don’t go to work wearing anything that even slightly resembles any of the sexy nurse costumes but that won’t stop this classic fantasy. This scenario usually involves the nurse attending to the patients every sexual whim to bring them back to ‘health’. The nurse in this situation can be the one in control with the ‘sex prescription’ to sexually satisfy the patient or she can give orders for the patient to sexually satisfy her. And of course this costume can also be used for the doctor and nurse fantasy! There are plenty of sexy nurse costumes to choose from, check out the Naughty Nurse, Night Nurse, Vinyl Nurse, Day Nurse, and the Darque Nurse. Accessories are also key to completing a role-playing fantasy. Complete the outfit with Naughty Nurse Opaque thigh highs, leather crop, Jo Flavored Lubricant and the Roughneck Realistic Vibrator.

French Maid: We are not sure why this fantasy came about…except if a stranger comes into a room with practically just a bed and dressed in a sexy outfit with fishnets, a sexual fantasy is sure to arise! At Honey we carry two sexy French maid costumes, the Upstairs Maid and the Chamber Maid. And don’t forget the accessories to complete the outfit like the Fishnet Thigh High Stay-ups and the Pleasure Feather!

There are many role-playing costumes to have fun with like the Policewomen, Little Bo Peep, Pussy Cat, Fire Women, Cheerleader, Prisoner of Love, Sweet Fairy, Geisha Girl, Sexy Mountie Girl … etc. Take a look at all the Sexy Costumes!

Some General Guidelines for Sex Games and Role-play:

1. Agree to the basics of the fantasies rules; for example, if using bondage or spanking in your game agree to how far you wish the fantasy to play out. I.e.: if you wish to see marks or no marks etc.

2. Designate your roles, this helps make the role playing more realistic as you will know which role you are playing.

3. Have a “safe word”. A word you both know and understand to absolutely mean STOP! Choose a word that is not easy misunderstood or misheard, some examples are “Roses” or “Peanut Butter.” These words should tell your partner that it is time to stop.

Have fun and indulge in as much play as you can with your partner! Your bedroom should not only be a place of sleep but an adult play zone. As they say…couples that play together stay together!

Playful Positions for Fuller Figures

Pregnancy is a beautiful time for you and your partner, but sometime the beautiful belly starts to get in the way of your more traditional positions. Here are some fun varieties to try that are comfortable and safe for mommy and baby.

Soft Landing: Stack a pile of soft and fluffy pillows underneath your stomach and chest to cushion and support your body and neck. You will have comfort against the support and he has access to your body from behind. This position allows for adding a little anal play into the equation. The Havana Tush Toy kit can be used with or without vibrations. Using just the tip of the plug for external stimulation of the bum can be a lot of fun. In this position he should avoid pumping too hard or deep.

Wheelbarrow: This position is comfortable and easy. Simply lay curled on your side at the edge of your mattress with your neck and shoulder propped comfortably by a few soft and fluffy pillows. He stands between your butt and knees for easy penetration, and he will enjoy a wonderful view of you. In this position he can easily reach around and stimulate your clitoris with a small and compact Fuzuoku Finger Vibrator. Use the finger sex toy to slowly tease and tantalize!

Belly Up: Bracing yourself up against a headboard or wall allows for a shallower penetration that is pleasurable and fun. It also gives him access to touch your breasts, belly and clitoris softly. We recommend using pillows beneath your knees for comfort and support. Combining this with a couples toy like the Diving Dolphin can triple your pleasure! This toy comes with two bullets-one that vibrates against her clitoris as well as one underneath that stimulates him and her!

As you move along in your pregnancy we recommend visiting your doctor, intercourse should be fine if your pregnancy is progressing normally but if you have any complications be sure to discuss frankly with your doctor what you can and can not do.

Hello to all you voluptuous ladies out there. We’ve created a section just for you, to help you discover some creative and ingenious solutions to some playful positions. Being a plus size lady has many challenges with body image and some positions just don’t work. But instead of worrying about all that we’ve come up with a few fail safe solutions to just enjoy sex, no matter your size.

No Ouch Couch: The couch is perfect for sex furniture. Using the seat cushion to support you upper body and having more pillows supporting your arms and neck as well as cushioning your knees. You will feel cushioned and comfortable allowing him access from behind for deep penetration. This position is great for him to reach around to stimulate your nipples with some Ice Queen Nipple Gel or placing a compact mini vibrator on his finger like the Five Function Finger Vibe to slowly massage your clitoris. This position is also super for pleasuring the nerve rich anal area. Start slowly stimulating the outside with a small well lubricated butt plug like the Silicone Pleasure Plug or insert some small anal beads like the Fun Factory Bendy Beads. The beads are slowly pulled out during an orgasm providing a more intense experience.

Deep Mission: Continuing our couch theme, if you throw the back cushions to the side you will create a deeper couch on which to enjoy yourselves. You can lay back, get comfortable and open you legs wide for a deeper missionary penetration. The intimacy of gazing into each others eyes and giving him access to your breast and clitoris will make this an all around enjoyable position. If you find pillows too soft, a wonderful option would be The Liberator Sex Furniture. These triangular shapes allow you to move into unlimited positions while providing firm support. You won’t be limited by where you can and cannot have sex. The triangle shapes make it easy to slip into narrow spaces when not in use.

Good Headboard: Sometime being on top when you are a voluptuous lady can be awkward and uncomfortable. If you try using the head board as leverage you can lift and support your body with ease and the leverage allows you to speed up the action. This position gives him the added advantage of being able to lay back and have access to your clitoris. A vibrating cock ring like the Utopia Triple Action can be a fabulous addition to this position as it allows you full control of how much stimulation you want on your clitoris. You can tease yourself until you’re ready to orgasm. This couple’s sex toy also has an extra testicle ring for him-intensifying his orgasm.

To see more of these playful positions see Ride'em Cowgirl by Sadie Allison.

How To Choose A Sexual Lubricant

Choosing the right lubricant can greatly enhance your sexual pleasure whether with a partner or for use on a sex toy. It decreases the friction and creates a slippery entry for your partner or toy. When choosing the right lubricant for you it can get overwhelming, this guide will help you choose the perfect sexual lubricant for you your toys and partner to use.

Specialty Lubes for Women. Lubricants designed just for women are generally very gentle and glycerin free. This helps to prevent the possibility of yeast infections in those with very sensitive skin. Some fantastic lubes for women are the Pink Lubricants, as well as the JO Agape.

Silicone Based Lubricants. If you like to have sex in the shower but find that the water washes away your lubricant then silicone is the one for you. This lube stays slippery until you wash it off with soap and water, no need to reapply, perfect for playtime in the bathtub. Some fun silicone lubricants to try are the ID Millennium or the Pink Silicone. Silicone lubricants should not be used with silicone toys; this can slowly erode the toy’s silicone exterior.

Flavored Lubricant. Flavored lubricants are the perfect choice for oral sex. They smell and taste delicious, while making it easier to perform. Some fun tastes to try are the O’My Flavors such as Melon or Pina Colada, JO flavors such as Strawberry or Tangerine, Hathor’s flavors such as Chocolate Strawberry or Hazelnut Caramel, and ID’s fun flavors such as Bubblegum or Mint.

Warming Lubricants. To add some heat to your sex play, try using a warming lubricant. This lubricant heats up against the skin providing a fun heated tingling sensation. Some fun lubes to try are the JO Warming, ID Warming or Pink Warming.

Textures: Lubricants have a variety of textures to think about. Whether it be smooth and watery or a thick gel you should choose the right lubricant for the play at hand. Thicker textures such as Slippery Stuff are fantastic for anal play. The thicker solution coats the body and stays for longer. Thinner lubricants such as O’my Natural or JO H2O are fantastic for sex play with your partner or with a toy.

Glycerin Free. Glycerin is a type of complex sugar, and found in most lubricants. Specialty lubricants especially for women are glycerin free. This is helpful for women with recurring yeast infection or severe sensitivity.

Water Based. Water based lubricants are among the most popular lubricants. Water based is safe for all sex toys and is very easy to clean.

Using a lubricant is a sure way to enhance your sexual play and fun, and with the varieties available you will be sure to find just the right one for you and your partner. Enjoy!

A Sexy Easter Pleasure Hunt

Celebrating the Easter season with chocolates and rabbits is always fun, but this year why not try something a little more daring with your partner for the Easter weekend. A fun way to spice things up is by sending your partner off on a sexy pleasure hunt, with you as the grand prize!

You can make your hunt as simple or complex as you wish, but here are some fun tips and tricks to make the wait worth the rewards.

1) To get your partner following your trail try taking some sexy photos of yourself using a digital or Polaroid camera. You could start off tame and show each photo with a little less clothing and a naughty pose, be adventurous and make a combination of naughty, risqué and sexy poses to lead them along the way.

2) Start off by putting your tamest picture someplace easy to find. Be creative and put the picture in a box of Easter chocolates or candies, and maybe a hint or clue as to what you wish them to do or where you will be.

3) Create a path throughout your home with each picture becoming racier; leave a few sexy treats like the furry cuffs, or Belgian Chocolate Body Paint along the way to spark some sensual ideas.

4) For yourself as the grand finale you had best take a good sip of wine and set yourself up in your sexiest duds. Whether you choose from racy lingerie or your birthday suit and a pair of heels, you should feel sexy and empowered!

5) Now here comes the fun part: you’re all sexy and fine and you’ve got your partner looking for you in anticipation, but how do you want to be found? Slinky in the bed with a feast of delights beside you? Or already restrained with the under the bed restraint system and ready for them to make a meal of you with the deserts you’ve left along the way. However you desire your treasure hunt to end from being tied up in bed to having a fun bath together with some passion bath salts you know that this will be a pleasure hunt you both will never forget.

If doing the full Easter hunt is too difficult due to little children running wild, perhaps a mini hunt is the way to go. Slip a sexy note or picture into your partner’s pocket during the morning and even a couple more throughout the day. This provides some stimulating anticipation for a fun night ahead. Slip them a designated time with the last sexy note and then be sure to have the little ones off to bed or with a sitter so that you can set yourself up as an Easter treat.

Honey's Q & A: After Pregnancy Intimacy

Q: I had a baby two months ago. My heart and brain are screaming for sex, but my body is still saying ‘no way!’ Will I ever be able to enjoy sex again?

A: Congratulations on the new addition to your family. You can certainly enjoy sex after pregnancy. The key is going slow and listening to your body.

Much will depend on how much wear and tear you experienced while giving birth. If you were torn or had an episiotomy, it could take longer before you truly feel comfortable during sex. Exactly how long depends on a number of things, including how long you normally take to heal, the extent of tearing or type of episiotomy, length of labor and whether the delivery was assisted by forceps or vacuum extraction.

Kegel exercises, up to 100 per day, are one step to getting your pelvic floor muscles strong again. Find the muscles by imagining you’re urinating. Squeeze the muscles as if you were stopping the flow of urine. Let go and try again. Squeeze and release repeatedly to strengthen the vaginal muscles. Adding a toy designed to help with Kegels such as Smart Balls or Lelo Luna Luxury Balls can be helpful and fun.

Even without tears, you will likely notice your vagina does not lubricate as well as before. This is due to low levels of estrogen. Also, breastfeeding can increase dryness as lactating women produce fewer of the ovarian hormones that make you lubricate. This means a good water-based lube is a must.

Plenty of foreplay is essential too. Not only will it help move lubrication along, but if your body isn’t feeling up to the act itself, foreplay can be the main event. Plenty of cuddling, petting, oral sex and mutual masturbation will help keep you and your partner physically close.

As your body heals, you may find certain sexual positions you enjoyed pre-pregnancy and even while pregnant no longer feel comfortable. Rather than dwelling on this as a negative, use it as an opportunity to try new positions. You may be pleasantly surprised. Side-to-side or woman-on-top positions will allow you more control and put less stress on body parts that may still be healing.

Most of all keep communicating with your partner and keep a sense of humor. If pain persists, see your doctor.

Valentine Picnic In Bed

Feeding your desire

Sex and food have been erotically linked for ages. Think of Marc Anthony feeding Cleopatra grapes. Casanova is rumored to have shared oysters with his lovers to stimulate their sexual appetites. And who doesn’t remember the steamy kitchen scene in 9 1/2 weeks? It’s not unusual to feel a familiar tingle while slowly savoring each bite of your favorite flavors. After all, aroma and flavor tease the senses in bed and at the table alike.

A Valentine’s Day picnic in bed is an ideal way to enjoy delectable delights of all kinds. No need to worry about recharging your batteries for your extended play session if you bring the right accoutrements to bed, namely sweet and savory items guaranteed to whet your appetite.

First, lay out an easy-to-wash picnic blanket to catch any crumbs and any, ahem, moisture. The Luscious Sex Blanket is a perfect moisture-proof playscape for your Valentine’s romp. Plush on one side, silky satin on the other and featuring an inner moisture barrier, it will keep your dry-clean only duvet spotless.

Now, what’s on the menu? Let your appetite be your guide. Here are some scrumptious suggestions:

• A sprinkling of Kama Sutra Honey Dust, made with pure, natural honey has a delicate scent and irresistible taste. Tickle and tease your partner with the soft feather applicator.

• Create an edible masterpiece with Belgian Chocolate Body Paint. This quality chocolate is sure to please the most discriminating chocoholic.

• Did you know the strawberry was a symbol of Goddess of Love Venus, because of its color and heart shape? Best of all, this fruit is just perfect for dipping in melted chocolate to feed your lover.

• Make oral sex even more fun with flavored lubes like ID Juicy Lubes or naturally flavored condoms like O’My Blo condoms.

• Grapes, a la Marc Anthony feeding Cleopatra, will ramp up your desire. Just be sure to buy the seedless variety!

• Because tingles shouldn’t be limited to below the belt, tickle both your tongues with a mouthful champagne as you kiss.

• To heat up your romantic romp, use edible oils that warm the skin and get hotter with the softest of blows, like Oil of Love.

• How many licks does it take to get to the centre? Find the answer with the help of silky, sultry Body Licks Skin Candy.

• Nipples will stand at attention with the help of a fruity balm like Nipple Nibblers. Or apply to your lips before giving your sweetie a surprisingly tingly kiss.

• Don’t forget honey, perfect for drizzling. An added bonus is honey is a natural moisturizer.

• Top off your lover with whipped cream and a cherry.

Erotic Movies For Couples

The brisk chill in the air, rain, sleet and hail are precluding the wonder of the winter months. With the end of day light savings the nights creep up sooner and we must take shelter in the comfort of fuzzy covers and body heat. So what better way to spend those cozy nights snuggled together than to watch a movie?

Statistics have shown that it’s no longer men who monopolize visual stimulation. In a recent study it has been shown that 75% of couples are now enjoying erotic videos to spice things up. Allowing you to possibly re-enact you favorite parts or just enjoy the show! With the coming of the chills we’ve brought in a fun new selection of sexy pornography videos to heat up the blankets and warm your toes.

If it is your first time entering the world of erotic movies, we recommend going for the classics. With Jenna Jameson is the Masseuse you have the original and the new version, its two videos in one! It shows us the fun and exciting life of a masseuse as she reveals her favorite games to play with clients. To really set yourself up for a sensual evening we recommend breaking out your own massages oils, candles and open minds. Watch the video first or join along, just as long as you have fun and heat things up! We recommend using Kama sutra oil of love massage oil; it is edible and warms to the skin to help keep the chill at bay.

Another great classic video is Debbie Does Dallas East vs West. A young cheerleading captain and her squad in a fantastic erotic video, need we say more? To make the evening more realistic you could dress up in the private school girl costume just for him see what the evening has in store for you.

If your ready for something a little more raw and are ready to ramp things up a notch we recommend watching Chemistry or Jenna Love Pain. These two videos are sexy and take you to a whole new world, whether you want to try it or just feel content to watch, you’ll be sure to open new doors of sensual adventure. If you feel the desire for some video props we recommend the Luscious Sex blanket and Floggerella Leather Whips to make the evening a surprise event.

If you’re feeling a little devilish we recommend The New Devil in Miss Jones. The lovely virgin is enticed by the Devil played by Jenna Jameson, now Miss Jones must submit to the Devil’s every whim and desire. Enjoy this movie just as a show or pull up some submission techniques of your own with the Devilish Weekend Kit. Take turns being the devil and enjoy a sexy weekend away.

If none of these erotic videos have caught your fancy or imagination, then perhaps a little education fun will be of service to you. With fun new titles like the Expert Guide to Anal Sex, or the Expert Guide to Oral Sex, you and your partner can heat up the sheets while learning a little something new.

So to start the season off right go ahead and explore your sensual boundaries using videos and props to guide you along or spark your imagination. Heat the sheets and spend the season cozy in bed, as there is no better way to spend the holidays.

Tips and Thrills for The Boo-doire

Ever watch your favorite scary movie for the millionth time with your hands over your eyes, peeking through your fingers just as that particularly frightening yet thrilling part comes? Once you’re too old for trick-or-treating, Halloween really is all about getting a kick out of being frightened.

When you’re scared, your hormones kick in, resulting in a rush of adrenaline. This kicks up your physical strength and senses a few notches, something that comes in handy when playing with your partner.

All kinds of sexual kinks have roots in the fun of fear and the thrill of the unknown. Just the abbreviation BDSM (bondage/discipline, domination/submission and sadism/masochism) scares and thrills the pants off many. Think it’s too much for you? You’d be surprised how easy and exciting it is to customize to your needs.

BDSM covers a cache of kinks – spanking, wearing nipple clamps, blindfolds, gags, role playing, playing with hot and cold (think ice cubes and hot wax) and tying up your sweetie. It’s not about pain, but rather it’s about exploring what turns your crank. Following are some tips to getting your BDSM on:

Play safe: By this, we mean talk it out with your partner and make sure you’re on the same page when it comes to how far you’ll go. This means agreeing on…

A “safeword”: This is the word means stop. You can also have multiple words for “stop”, “slow down” and “let’s discuss.”

Start simple: Keep it simple in the beginning. Rather than trying full-on bondage, nipple clamps and hot wax all at once, start with one particular element and work your way up.

Hit me: Feeling naughty and in need of punishment? Old-fashioned spanking is a good start for beginners as you can better gauge how hard you are hitting. Keep it to the fleshier parts of the body and avoid super-sensitive areas like feet and hands.

Make it comfy: If the thought of being tied up gets you hot and bothered, start with something like fuzzy handcuffs or silk scarves. When tying knots, make sure you can slip two fingers between the restraints and your partner’s wrists or ankles.

Role-playing is another way to test your thrill-o-meter.

Costumes are fun any time of year. Is your man afraid of the doctor? Dressing the part of Naughty Nurse will cure what ails him, along with his fear of needles, in no time.

Ladies, if you’re the boss, let him be the boss now and then by playing the sexy, naïve Office Girl.

If you’re not up for full on dress-up yet, simply go to a bar and pretend you’re trying to pick your guy up. Wear a little something your partner wouldn’t normally expect, like Fishnet Thigh High Stockings. Give him a flirty look and perhaps a sneak peak of your, ahem, accessories, and you’ll be heading home or some other secluded area, pronto.

Great Sexual Arousal Techniques

Getting aroused is all about preparing your body for the act itself. Your heart kicks it up a notch, blood pressure rises and muscles tense. Blood flow to your nether-regions increases, making it hard to think.

Here are some ideas on how to turn guys and gals on:

• For her, many consider the clitoris the golden ticket.
  Massaging with a gel will keep things slick while boosting her sensitivity by increasing blood flow to the clitoris. Plus, adding clitoral stimulation while also stimulating the G-spot will send her over the top. Not just for use with a partner, it will help a woman help herself. (We recommend O Clitoral Stimulating Gel)



• But don’t dive for the clit right away.
  Start with massaging her other parts. Breast stimulation is fun for both him and her.



• For him, it’s visual and tactile. For her, it just feels darn good when done right.
  Symmetry, equal attention to both sides, is essential, as is starting slowly and gently. No cold hands please – massage oil can help keep things warm. Most importantly, read her cues. Some women prefer you keep it gentle, while others enjoy a nip. (To help tease and add a tasty sensation,we recommend using a flavored lube or Kama Sutra Honey Dust.)
  
  
• Less explicit things.
  Sexual arousal is often piqued by less explicit things and can start with seemingly non-sexy acts such as her partner taking out the garbage or preparing dinner, not to mention cleaning up afterwards
  
  
• Physical affection without sex helps up arousal.
  Touching – hugs, cuddles, kisses – all build the electricity for her. When having sexual contact, build it up with plenty of foreplay, focusing on the whole body, not just her sexual bits.
  
  
• Separate from work.
  Separate stress from work and other outside sources from your life as a couple. An added bonus is stress release can lead to sex, sex being the ultimate in stress release. Does your partner like a deep or gentle massage? You never know where a well-timed foot rub may lead.
  
  
• More than just Pete.
  Though men and women alike joke that men can only function mentally when their other head is not in use, to truly arouse a guy, it’s about more than just Pete – remember the boys, the neighboring perineum, and sometimes a little anal play is more than welcome.
  
  
• Mouthwash adds sensation.
  More suction doesn’t necessarily translate to good head. Teasingly licking his balls and shaft will help build up to the moment. Gargling with mouthwash beforehand, in addition to giving you minty fresh breath, will give him a tingly sensation.
  
  
• Stimulate his P-spot.
  While giving him head or hand, help finish him off with a perineal massage or stimulate his P-spot (prostate) with butt play. The perineum is the super sensitive spot between his testicles and anus. Press firmly and pump with a finger or knuckle to send him over the edge. Straight men who claim their butt is one-way only have likely never had the nerve-rich anus explored. A lot of lube, gentle touch and small toy. (We recommend the Finger Fun Vibrator - it can be a real eye opener. )
  
  
• Visual turn-ons.
  Then there are the visual turn-ons. Looking for something you can enjoy together, beginning to end? How about shopping for porn together? Yes, women like and are turned on by porn. It just has to be the right kind – there’s more out there than ‘70s porn with bad music and bad facial hair. The selection is tremendous, with women-directed flicks, natural bodied actors, plot-filled films and out-and-out sexfests.
  
  
• Suggested Reading material for him.
  Sexpert Lou Paget’s How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure book is chock full of ideas on how to build intensity.
  
  
• Suggested Reading material for her.
  Paget explores how to blow his mind too in How To Be a Great Lover. It’s about more than the penis, from his neck down to his perineum, testicles and, ahem, into his P-spot (prostate).

How to blindfold your lover during sex

Pick up a sexy, silky blindfold. (Many people swear by Blindfold for the Senses.) There's something delightfully decadent about being blindfolded. And with his or her eyes covered, your partner's remaining senses shift into high gear - every whisper, every touch is sensuously heightened. So cue up a sultry CD, light some incense, slip a blindfold on your sweetie and:

• Lightly caress your lover's skin with a feather, a rose petal or silky lingerie.
• Drizzle your partner with honey. Or paint erotic chocolate designs in unexpected places and then slowly lick them off - a tasty treat for two.
• Pour some warming, edible body butter in your hands, then rub, knead and stroke away every last drop of, er, tension. Get creative and go hands-free.
• Relive your favourite 9½ Weeks scene - you know the one. Feed your lover luscious morsels of fruit dipped in chocolate or honey.

Fantasy Role Playing for Sexual Arousal

Many people ofter feel awkward, stuck or straight out silly when they try to do fantasy role playing during sex. Some of us will also be stunted for creativity, props and ambiance...where do we start?

Let's discuss the fine details to consider to really help you succeed in feeling confident for your role playing and sexual desires.

Take this example…
(this write up scenerio is from About.com http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualroleplay/qt/settingthescene.htm)

You’ve decided to play a graduate student and your partner is going to be a professor. It’s the day of your big oral defense. This scenario is full of potential: power dynamics, opportunity for sexual bribery, a May-December sexual
tryst, plenty of “oral defense” puns.

But, if you don’t know what your research area is, or you don’t know whether you are a brilliant student being cut down by a sexy and overbearing professor, or a grad student who has slept their way to the top, and intends to do the very same tonight, you can’t get very far into the scenario.

Once you’ve come up with a character that strikes your fancy, start to think about the overall scenario, and answer some of these questions:

1. What is the physical setting? If you’re indoors, what kind of room (big, small, dark, brightly lit).
2. What time of day is it?
3. Are there other people nearby, are you in a public place, or completely secluded where no one will hear you scream (with pleasure)?
4. What’s the story? Why are you there, and (aside from the sex) what’s going to happen?

Filling in the details can not only give you more ideas for the sex part of the fantasy, but it can really help get you in character and make the role play come to life.

Check out your closet and drawers , look around your environment and find out what props would help with your fantasy and/or character.....Need help with props? Here's some scenerio suggestions:

School Girl - try the Private School Girl Costume, or School Girl

• For the teenage schoolgirl - How about a lipstick vibe for acting out a typical school girl. Tease your partner while applying it to your "sensitive" parts... and not your lips!
• For the naughty but nice schoolgirl - why not compliment the costume with a set of Furry Hand cuffs or the Spank Me Kit....pretend you are in detention...who wouldn't have fun with those!

French Maid - try the Friksy French Maid costume and match it up with a duster or a Sensual Body Feather. Instead of cleaning liquids or a bar of soap, grab a Massage Bar, Allow the buttery bar move along your curves.....create the perfect surface and let the delicious scent draw you closer.

Kitty Cat - wear a sexy Pussy Cat Costume and make him meow! Who needs to be tamed! Tie him up with Bondage Tape, and what self-respecting Sex Kitten would be caught without her purrrrrfect accessory....the Kitty Crop?

Nurse Betty - Try the Naughty Nurse - With this lycra dress, head piece and gloves...you don't need much. Play the role of nurse helping a patient...maybe be a thoughful nurse and apply body chocolate to your patient and lick it off. Or even wear a pair of edible undies and let him try some candy!

And finally what other props you need to make the ambiance: Perhaps, a candle for a soft alluring effect, a spray of Bare Essence Phermones to boost your sex signals , or even an inviting trail of roses to set the mood.

sexual fatique and tips to revive foreplay

If your sex life is stuck in a rut, start again from scratch. Break your sexual fatigue by throwing out all your preconceptions, banishing bad bedroom habits and learning how to make love again. Talk about it, play with it, experiment with sex to find out what you now like, as opposed to what made you tick when you first got together. And keep the passion alive by adding in new excitements and sexual surprises that may seem a bit wild but will get your juices flowing.

Here’s some tips to get that foreplay back:

• Look at foreplay in a different way than you had before, it really doesn’t have to be serious. Maybe break the ice by playing a fun adult game like Poker for Lovers or even tie up your lover with a set of furry handcuffs.
• Swap dirty dreams. Ask him to say out loud his sexual fantasy and then you say the next sentence. Move the story on one sentence at a time - and as you get to the physical bits, act out what you're describing. Need some ideas, try Fore Playing Cards.
• Now take it in turns to blindfold each other with a silk brocade blindfold for, perhaps, fifteen minutes. During that time, the one who isn't blindfolded surprises the other, perhaps by feeding them, touching them, licking them. Try using a sensual body feather or some Body Licks Skin Candy. No nasty shocks though - make it all gentle and loving.
• Cuddled up close, then masturbate in front of each other. This'll not only be a turn on - it'll also teach both of you about what you really like. If you feel shy, do it in the dark, with your hand over his as he plays, or his over yours as you do. This way reduces potential embarrassment, but you still learn about each other. If you are not shy, take it another step further get a Fuzuoku Finger Vibe!

Brazilian waxes and the freedom to wear revealing lingerie

Many women opt and even request a Brazilian wax because it gives a neat, clean, close wax and the freedom to wear even the most revealing swimwear and lingerie. New lingerie is suddenly possible. And it makes many women feel downright vixeny all through the day. Something like Silk Thong - Get unwrapped with this beautiful silk thong with adjustable silk satin bow.

What is a Brazilian wax?Bikini wax refers to hair removal from the entire pubic region, front and back. It is getting more and more popular to attain clean and sexy skin. In this process the entire pubic area is waxed, leaving a small area above the vaginal area. Some women prefer to take it all off. It also involves waxing your buttock. More info about brazilian waxing go to: http://www.19.5degs.com/element/551.php

Other benefits; women also say their sex life has improved:
Women and men who've shared in the joys of a good wax say it heightens sensitivity and sensation for both partners. New lingerie is suddenly possible. And it makes many women feel downright vixeny all through the day.

Eva Longoria says having a Brazilian bikini wax has boosted her off-screen sex life.The Desperate Housewives actress says the bikini wax is worth the pain reports The Sun.Eva, who is currently dating basketball player Tony Parker, told America's Cosmopolitan magazine: "It makes sex better."Believe me, the first time I did it, the technician did half, and I was like 'Stop!' She said, 'Sit down, I have to finish.'"But then it gets easier. The more you do it, the less hair grows back. But yeah, I love it. I swear by it."Every woman should try a Brazilian wax once. And then the sex they have afterwards will make them keep coming back." Source(http://www.santabanta.com/newsmaker.asp?select=1662&catname=Newsmaker )

Sexy Valentines Bath or Hot Tub for two?

Turn the bath into a romantic sexy getaway for two on Valentines. Here's some great suggestions to think about on making the special day bubbly and very erotic!

When your loved one get's home from work (you left early to prepare of course!), drop a path of rose petals from the front door into the bathroom or towards the hot tub...this will set the mood for sure!

Light a few candles and dim the lights. Some of my girlfriends favorites are the body candles, which can be used as body oil as well. Body Candles have a fragranced combination of waxes and oils designed for erotic massage. The body candle burns like a typical aromatic candle, creating a mood and filling the air with enticing scents. It drips and pours over your skin like a regular wax candle leaving sensations of warmth.

Drop an exotic scoop of Treasures of the Sea in your bath, which will transport it into the shimmering turquoise waters of the ocean. Try any kind of sensual bath salts (not sleepy lavendar though) maybe something like Kama Sutra Treasures of the Sea.

Are you the Naughty or the Nice girl? It doesn't matter when you can choose from two fun vibrator designs.

For the Naughty girl. There's Red Devil Duckie who is a good duck gone bad! This devil is dressed for mischief and powered up for fun. Costumed in a flowing red cape and cute little horns, this duckie is perfect for the bath, pool or spa. Designed to make your first shared bath especially invigorating!

For the Nice girl. About half the size of the Red Devil Duckie, I Rub My Duckie is perfectly sized for travel. Exceptionally quiet, it offers amazingly strong vibration. With its innocent eyes and traditional rubber duck body, it is the most discreet massager/vibrator available. Just press down on duckie's back and relax as powerful waves of vibration soothe away the stresses and tensions of daily life.

Splish splash, have some fun and sex on valentines!

Valentines Keeping relationships hot and sexy

Forgetting Valentine's Day is an almost unforgivable offence in a relationship.

I found an interesting article that uncovered some great facts about how men and women view valentines today, make sure you don't forget about your loved ones!

Harlequin Enterprises survey uncovers that Valentine's Day is an important date on the calendar for 68% of North Americans, who usually celebrate with someone special. (website link)

Love & Marriage: Conventional wisdom may hold that the romance wanes after the honeymoon is over, but the Harlequin respondents beg to differ. The survey shows that celebrating with someone special is far more popular among marrieds (81%) than singles (59%).

It's A Man's World: While women are often thought to be the more romantic sex, Valentine's Day seems to be more important to men, who are more likely to say they celebrate with someone special (73% vs. 64%) and are more likely to buy a gift (84% vs. 66%). And 72% of the men in the survey report love-making as one of their frequent February 14th activities, while just 57% of the women reciprocate.

Remember Me?: Over half of the men in the survey (54%) agree that “Forgetting Valentine's Day is an almost unforgivable offence in a relationship” versus just 36% of the women. Perhaps that gap is the reason that almost eight in ten (79%) agree that “women should keep in mind that the day is not just for them,” a statement that gets the nod more often from women (83%) than men (75%).


Karyee @ Honey: Vancouver BCs' fun and classy sex shop.

Sex Tip of The Day from Honey:Vancouvers Upscale Sex Shop

What more can you ask for than a book that is informative and hilarious at the same time? One book that we have always carried and our customer love is "Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man." We love what the author Dan Anderson has to say and here is his advice on TALKING DIRTY!

How to Talk Dirty, If You Must
"The key thing to remember, and gay guys certainly are aware of this, is that what you actually say doesn't matter at all. Women may long to hear something romantic, but guys are only thinking about their Heavenly Dragon Pillars. It's all about delivery:What turns the guy on is the sultriness in your voice, the low, almost hushed murmurs, the subtle compliments to his manhood and prowess. Talking dirty is one case where you will definitely be performing, so if your guy is into it, just go deep into your method acting and really let go. Deliver your lines in the absolute lowest, sexiest voice you can. If you're feeling really goofy about this, here are some suggested topics that fall into two basic categories. The first deals with him: how hard he is, how big he is, how hot his body is, how he makes you feel so sexy, etc. The second set deals with you: you want him to go faster, to go harder, you love his sweaty body on yours...you get the picture. Just don't go overboard, or he may figure you've been getting it on the side at the local truck stop.
So now you've rung all the bells, your yin and yang essences have been released, and your golden cleft and his jade stalk are in happy harmony. Proper gay etiquette says that you should offer him a warm, moist towel before he rolls over and drifts happily to sleep. Not only will he remember your gracious hospitality, but it will keep your Polo sheets from getting crusty."

Murmur a few hot words tonight...and set the sheets on fire!
'til tomorrow,
Karyee

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MUST MUST Try Product from Honey:Vancouvers Upscale Sex Shop

People always ask us what they should try when they come into Honey. We always have so many suggestion for something new and exciting to play with but one of our favorite is the BODY CANDLES. These are cleverly disguised as candles so they create a great atmosphere and enticing scent but once a small puddles develops, you pour it onto your lovers body and this potion becomes a hot massage lotion that disappears into the skin. It is developed to burn at a much lower temperature so you simply raise the tin over your lovers body and pour about 8inches away. As soon as the product hits the body it gels and you massage it right into the skin.
It is great for travel so you can have a massage product and candle in one!
If you are looking to surprise your partner, this would be great option!
Have fun!
Karyee

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